Advice Needed
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Even though I don't know you, but I feel very happy that you have chosen the right path.Don't ever give up halfway. If you ever managed to get through it, don't forget to tell us!
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i guess maybe i wish to realise my dream...of being able to master my japanese cos somehow i might be going over there to stay for sometime after my ns...
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hw come so many ppl broke ?i also jus broke up wit my bf...haiz..........v sad........
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That's LIFE... Either you pick it up, or you break it into many pieces...?Originally posted by Fericia:hw come so many ppl broke ?i also jus broke up wit my bf...haiz..........v sad........ -
hey Fericia, dont sad lah...me finally pulling through so u should too....take gd care
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Work sux ...guys sux
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*sigh* dont lose faith, keep it burning...someday u will understand...if u need help ppl here in tis board will help u...i will help u too...
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Work sux...women sux more....duh...Originally posted by Fericia:Work sux ...guys sux
Don't use ur pathetic ex as a generalization for all guys
At least DavyLMF never cursed all women in the world...
Let the jack ass go and live ur life
@#$%^ damn sick of this kind of women....or men for the matter -
life can be realli bad at times...just yesterday my god-bro gf dump him...hang out with him and another brother till late last nite....seeing him crying n drowning his emotions with liquor reminds of me 1 month ago....
sigh....
live and let live...ashes to ashes....dust to dust....wats gone will be gone forever....but the memories will be burnt forever till the end of time.... -
life can be realli bad at times...just yesterday my god-bro gf dump him...hang out with him and another brother till late last nite....seeing him crying n drowning his emotions with liquor reminds of me 1 month ago....
sigh....
live and let live...ashes to ashes....dust to dust....wats gone will be gone forever....but the memories will be burnt forever till the end of time.... -
Dats life,isnt it?If without all these problems on us,we'll never get to grow up and move on to c more things awaiting for us!
Cheer up!All the best to u!Realli happy to c u standing up again!
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As LoNg As I SHaLL LiVe
I'LL HoLd U dEaR
AnD I wILL rEMiNiScE
Of OuR LoVe ALL ThRoUgH
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thanks pie...i mean apple...oops...appie pie...but i m still on the process of letting go...
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You're already ALMOST OVER it... You'll FOREVER be 'in the process' of doing so IF you CHOOSE to BELIEVE things that way...Originally posted by DavyLMF:thanks pie...i mean apple...oops...appie pie...but i m still on the process of letting go... -
Hmm.... ~Holding Sphere of Interlock quarters~Originally posted by Fericia:Work sux ...guys sux -
hai all these stories make me more and more scared of getting into a relationship....
Work sux...women sux more....duh...
yea...same here
Don't use ur pathetic ex as a generalization for all guys
At least DavyLMF never cursed all women in the world...
Let the jack ass go and live ur life
@#$%^ damn sick of this kind of women....or men for the matter
anyway to davylmf, good luck with your future
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hey, some (NOT ALL) female out there are very self minded...when they get what they wanted...(Your help ...example - lift to sch by car, money to buy stuff, school work, projects, and book tickets for concert...)
But Once they go CHIONG...kanna sian by RICH RICH guys with BIG BIG CREDIT ACCOUNT and she felt you no longer USEFUL to her..she DUMP you!!~ Wah liew such gals must WATCH OUT... because they want $$$ instead of love...they traded their body for $$$ I guess they even lure rich dummies to spend on them...
Shame on such Singapore gals..PUI!~
I will support you ALL THE WAY!! GO LIVE life to the fullest!! SAY NO TO DRUGS ...stupid to spend $ on it..expensive...also!! Siao siao...go get other gals...if dun have go church...lot's of nice and proper ones. -
if i neber meet u..
i wun like u..
if i neber like u..
i wun luv u..
if i neber luv u..
i wun miz u..
but i did, i do & i will.....
but all tis is history...
so it's time to let go n get e present which is todae...
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Goals wifout time limit r onli Dreams -
I had a similar case like u also. My first gf. Almost 3 yrs. Then she noes a guy while working part time during school holidays. After breakup, 3 days later bring the guy home. What a bitch.Originally posted by DavyLMF:.....somehow its just impossible to let it go....the past's just gripping onto me....its like when we r together, i dont have friends, we r together always...i kinda like just wanna make her happy...its realli hard to let go....itz like yesterday we were veli close together n today she broke up with me....like the sudden lost of both arms...itz just so hard to move on....i m always alone now and everywhere i go, watever i do, she just seems to be there in my mind....my god brothers r serving ns like me....where to find ppl to help???? sat they bk out so tired to go out or with gfs.....i noe itz never easy to move on...i have tried and i have failed....i realli just wan someone to fill in the void emptyness in my life now....god noes wat the future holds....as for the drug shit, i kinda just wan something to tranquilize my mind from thinking of her....she is kinda like my eternity....
i used to tell her love is today but tomolo will be committment cos i m just happy go lucky....somehow due to her influence i matured a lot and i started to plan for our future....wat the heck, she left me....its just all lies....no one can c the future but i m sure for 1 thing.....the past is always sweet and it always the sad things that makes the past even sweeter....i have already done my veli best as her bf n i still failed....all her friends kinda like me cos they say tat of all her ex bfs all also no good....but who cares...no matter how good its also useless....
now i m just uncertain of the future...i m just scared to noe wat lies there.....indulging in liquor and cigs just doesnt seems to help at all.....
Girls are like that, when they in love with u, they go all the way. But when change heart, they ignore u all the way. Cant understand girls. Always said we guys unfaithful... Guess they are the one.. not us. This century, the world has change lar... so move on...
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If you are to live to a hundred years old, i'm going to live a day older than u. So you will not live any single days without me -
Hi Fericia, cheer up. I got a problem also... sianz....Originally posted by Fericia:Work sux ...guys sux
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If you are to live to a hundred years old, i'm going to live a day older than u. So you will not live any single days without me -
Sigh, well all i can say is juz decided tat i should snap out of my own sadness and even get to know new gers...
Broke up wif my gf at the end of may... we were best friends before we got together and i hope we still can be... now i guess we are trying to recover the friendship... also not easy, but i succeeded to be friends wif most of my ex... although it takes a few month to even years before we talk again...
it's not tat she ran off wif anther guy or something, but she juz told me she lost the feelings... i dunno how true but i'll juz let her go... cos even if u hold on to her and still fight to remain together, in the end, you'll still get hurt...
dun make yr own life miserable, cos 1. she won't be noticing how you feel for that time, 2. she prob. tink you can't stand on yr own w/o her...
lost confidence and trust takes a lot of time to recover, but it can be done... most of all is to take it as a lesson in which you are shaped to be a better person for yr next gf/bf.
At times you'll look back and ponder over the happy time and the sweet things you both did together... let it be... but know tat they will always be memories only...
wat you gave her or bought for her, well is out of love at THAT time so u can't blame her and ask her to return you the money or time you spent on her now... let it go...
Sometime, you can try to lie to yrself tat you are beginning to like another ger... but do not do anything to give her the idea you like her... and if eventually you decide to do like her... then start jio-ing her... and there you have it, the next chapter in life will unfold even before u know it... -
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Don't mind a FRANK guy here... From YOUR POST, I SENSE that it's not that you CAN'T let it go... You've just REFUSED to... CHOSE NOT to.....Originally posted by Devil1976:Originally posted by DavyLMF:
[b].....somehow its just impossible to let it go....the past's just gripping onto me....its like when we r together, i dont have friends, we r together always...i kinda like just wanna make her happy...its realli hard to let go....itz like yesterday we were veli close together n today she broke up with me....like the sudden lost of both arms...itz just so hard to move on....i m always alone now and everywhere i go, watever i do, she just seems to be there in my mind....my god brothers r serving ns like me....where to find ppl to help???? sat they bk out so tired to go out or with gfs.....i noe itz never easy to move on...i have tried and i have failed....i realli just wan someone to fill in the void emptyness in my life now....god noes wat the future holds....as for the drug shit, i kinda just wan something to tranquilize my mind from thinking of her....she is kinda like my eternity....
i used to tell her love is today but tomolo will be committment cos i m just happy go lucky....somehow due to her influence i matured a lot and i started to plan for our future....wat the heck, she left me....its just all lies....no one can c the future but i m sure for 1 thing.....the past is always sweet and it always the sad things that makes the past even sweeter....i have already done my veli best as her bf n i still failed....all her friends kinda like me cos they say tat of all her ex bfs all also no good....but who cares...no matter how good its also useless....
now i m just uncertain of the future...i m just scared to noe wat lies there.....indulging in liquor and cigs just doesnt seems to help at all.....
ANGER fills your mind... With contempt, you're CORRUPTED.... Having no one to stand by you and give you a helping hand at this point of your Life is NO EXCUSE to simply let things be... You STILL have YOURSELF... AT LEAST for now.... Quick make FULL USE of yourself... Before you LOST IT TOTALLY.... You'll NEVER KNOW that this point of your Life could prove to be a FATAL TURNING DOWNSLOPE... IF YOU allow it to happen...
Cigars, liquors and drugs... HOW MANY PEOPLE have tried it....? If it works there won't be so many suicidal cases arising from it... So many people LOST.... You're just temporarily PARALYSING your mind for now... Let it LAST, and you could be PARALYSING the REST of YOUR LIFE.... OVER a SINGLE WOMAN? Issit worth it at all...? I know this lady is SO IMPORTANT to you.... But you'll never know if there could be a MORE IMPORTANT and WORTHY lady waiting for you in the future of your life.... And you WOULD NEVER KNOW if your life just starts to ROT here... Throw yourself on the floor and let people spit at you...? Sympathise you....? PICK IT UP YOURSELF BOY.... It's YOUR LIFE... Like this is gonna be ANYBODY ELSE's BUSINESS...? If you DON'T pick it up, OTHERS would just STEP OVER IT.... EVERYBODY's BUSY... WHY would they bother to stop and pick up something SO UNWORTHY.... Lying on the floor....?
DO YOU FEEL WEAK? BECAUSE YOU'RE PARALYSING YOURSELF... HAVE YOU LOST CONTROL? BECAUSE YOU'RE DECEIVING YOURSELF... PICK YOURSELF UP... REFORM.... WORTHINESS IS WHAT YOU MADE OF YOUR OWN... NOT WHAT PEOPLE SEE OF YOU... YOUR WORTHINESS, IS HER LOSS.... HER UNWORTHINESS.... BEAR NOT....
[/b]Well said, Devil...
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Firstly DavyLMF,
I am glad u didn't do anything silly liao...dun because of the tree and give up the forest
...there r still a lot of good good gals out there...waiting for u!! 
No point hurting yourself(phyically and mentally)...treasure yourself and dun let your parents down(who bring u up to this world)!!
The world is so big and u r so small...there is still a lot of things in this world u haven't try yet!!Glad that u do look at things differently now!!
Last but not least...hope u can find your true love soon and start a much much better relationship then b4!! -
2 ways to solve this problem
kill yourself...or let it go