ATTENTION:HE CHEATED MY FEELINGS

• victimgal

  13 May 05, 00:49

  Originally posted by pinkgal:

  Biz course?? my fren in SP biz course too..
  btw,wat did he msg u today??my dear gal..avoid this guy & don't provoke him in front of him..he might gone mad one day & do something bad to u..cos such kind of ppl are dangerous as their mind are unstable..then u'll make us all worry more abt ya..u noe wat i mean??

  I get you. yes. he's dangerous.
• victimgal

  13 May 05, 00:52

  I dont think i'm ready for an outing just yet.
• rainee

  13 May 05, 03:13

  victimgal, I think you need to let go and put this episode behind you. You won't be able to move on and start afresh if you let this thing keep hanging around your mind and having the wish of exposing him to every single girl that you will probably meet. You have already warned all of us about this, so I guess it is time to put this to a close and stop thinking about the whole experience. The more you think you are traumatized by it, the more you will be. Just see it as an experience that will help you to deal with this kind of people better in the future. It won't do you good to keep on bringing this up, after all it is over
  
  
• SMAPLionHeart

  13 May 05, 04:30

  RE:dcx , i wanna go cosybay !
  
  got any chiobus coming?
  
  Ive done internet meetings b4..with girls...
  girl is usually bring friends along der..haha
  
  be street smart lah friends!
  okay? take care ...
  
  Why not you invite that guy to cosy bar as well?
  dcx and me will give him 1 knuckle sandwich and 1 kick of shaolin for dinner..
  
  
• SMAPLionHeart

  13 May 05, 04:33

  As for him lor.....
  
  I think you should find a more decent bf ...
  
• SMAPLionHeart

  13 May 05, 04:35

  Don't let your image of guys sink with this episode of what happened...
  It's a transition in life....
  
  My friend had a bad experience b4...had a bad experience with a man..
  still moved on and happily attached today...
  
  "Moving on" is the toughest phrase i ever know.....
  But this is Life...
  
  Well , this is a wolf in sheep's clothing...Nothing to say...but a hypocrite!
  hypocrite!!!!!!
• drx

  13 May 05, 04:57

  pat pat
  
  so lucky got so many people to sayang you hehe
  
  people i think she learnt her lesson.
  
  We should help her move on.
  
  life should not stop here.
• czechmate

  13 May 05, 06:18

  Originally posted by victimgal:

  HE TOOK MY HANDS ON THE FIRST DATE. HE TOOK MY ARM ON THE NEXTDATE AND MOVED UP TO MY COLLAR BONE AND MY LIPS BEFORE THE MOVIE STARTED. I BRUSHED HIM OFF AT EACH OF THIS STAGE. BUT HIS HANDS WENT TO MY WAIST AND THIGHS. I FIRMLY REJECTED IT AND TOLD HIM NOT TO BOTHER ME. BUT BEOFORE THE MOVIE ENDED, HIS HANDS WERE ON MY ARMS AND WAIST AGAIN. AND HE WAS MUFFLING INTO MY NECK.

  There are many boys who behave like the little Mr Octopus you were really unfortunate to have met. Shirurinu gave good advice - learn to protect yourself. You were rejecting him and he was still all over you. That's a clear signal that he's interpretating your reaction all wrong. To him, you're still seated next to him, you must be playing hard to get. If you had gotten up and walked out before the movie ended, you might not only have prevented the stairwell incident but you would have sent him a clearer signal - that you didn't want him pawing away at any part of you and disrespecting you.
  
  This boy's only 17. It's not unlikely you'll meet men older than you. What you've just gone through, traumatic that it is for you now, will be nothing in comparison to what a more experienced man can do to you if you allow yourself unwittingly to be caught in a precarious situation.
  
  Please take care. These are your-word-against-his situations.
• starblue

  13 May 05, 08:13

  moral of the story. dun meet guys u know online....
• 443BXdrv

  13 May 05, 08:55

  Hell knows no fury like a woman scorn.
  
  Boy, you'll never see a guy do that if he got rejected by a girl.
• rainee

  13 May 05, 09:20

  Originally posted by starblue:

  moral of the story. dun meet guys u know online....

  I do not think that applies for everyone. As I have said many times in this thread, one egg rotten doesn't mean all is rotten as well. Generalization is a very dangerous thing, so don't use it without concrete proof. Just my opinion
• Kenashi

  13 May 05, 09:33

  Originally posted by rainee:

  I do not think that applies for everyone. As I have said many times in this thread, one egg rotten doesn't mean all is rotten as well. Generalization is a very dangerous thing, so don't use it without concrete proof. Just my opinion

  but one to one meeting is never advisable!!
  group outing is always better!!
  at least if anything happen, u can rely on the rest of the group to stop it.
• Devil1976

  13 May 05, 12:47

  Originally posted by victimgal:

  HI, dear all, I know you all might not believe me and all that, but all I've stated is the truth and nothing but it.
  
  If you choose to side him, then i guess you've been blinded by his looks.
  
  I'm saddened and traumatised. I don't even dare to enter a theatre anymore. Cuz the image is still fresh in my mind.

  Gee... I'm not even a gay to start with...?
  
  Hmm....
• Kenashi

  13 May 05, 12:50

  Originally posted by Devil1976:

  Gee... I'm not even a gay to start with...?
  
  Hmm....

  
  
  btw : victimgal, do u expect us to side with u?? what if I turn it around n the guy u spoke of came into the forum n post yr pic n a whole essay of how bad u are, do u think we will side him n condemn u?? We only heard 1 side of the story, most of us won't side any1 since it is the whole thing.
  anyway, hope u r all rite, just don't trust ppl easily n don't give in easily, no one can force u to do anything!!
  
• shirurinu

  13 May 05, 12:54

  Originally posted by dcx:

  wana go mah?

  me not in sg la...
• M©+square

  13 May 05, 12:57

  Seems like victimgal is liable to make decisions. So i presume that she's 16+
  
  I think both parties have got to be responsible for that incident.
  it's not really a victim and accused case.
  
  Cheers
• shirurinu

  13 May 05, 13:00

  Originally posted by czechmate:

  There are many boys who behave like the little Mr Octopus you were really unfortunate to have met. Shirurinu gave good advice - learn to protect yourself. You were rejecting him and he was still all over you. That's a clear signal that he's interpretating your reaction all wrong. To him, you're still seated next to him, you must be playing hard to get. If you had gotten up and walked out before the movie ended, you might not only have prevented the stairwell incident but you would have sent him a clearer signal - that you didn't want him pawing away at any part of you and disrespecting you.
  
  This boy's only 17. It's not unlikely you'll meet men older than you. What you've just gone through, traumatic that it is for you now, will be nothing in comparison to what a more experienced man can do to you if you allow yourself unwittingly to be caught in a precarious situation.
  
  Please take care. These are your-word-against-his situations.

  ooo... thanks.. i can be aunt agony liao haha.. need new mod?
• M©+square

  13 May 05, 13:03

  Originally posted by shirurinu:

  ooo... thanks.. i can be aunt agony liao haha.. need new mod?

  
• rainee

  13 May 05, 13:23

  Originally posted by Kenashi:

  but one to one meeting is never advisable!!
  group outing is always better!!
  at least if anything happen, u can rely on the rest of the group to stop it.

  well, if you are already with someone you are in a relationship with, how would both of you react if you say you want to bring someone along? He might say you do not trust him. The other person might feel awkward. I think it is very important though to have the first few outing in the public place, and at least notify someone close to you about where you have gone to.
• Kenashi

  13 May 05, 13:34

  Originally posted by rainee:

  well, if you are already with someone you are in a relationship with, how would both of you react if you say you want to bring someone along? He might say you do not trust him. The other person might feel awkward. I think it is very important though to have the first few outing in the public place, and at least notify someone close to you about where you have gone to.

  better safe than sorry!!
  i don't think victimgal know that guy that well in the first place n she agreed to a relationship!! quite puzzling to me!!
  if the guy can't accept that's his problem!!
  
• dcx

  13 May 05, 15:01

  Originally posted by shirurinu:

  me not in sg la...

  Then where?
• rainee

  13 May 05, 15:04

  Originally posted by Kenashi:

  better safe than sorry!!
  i don't think victimgal know that guy that well in the first place n she agreed to a relationship!! quite puzzling to me!!
  if the guy can't accept that's his problem!!
  

  she is only 16?
• M©+square

  13 May 05, 15:05

  Originally posted by rainee:

  she is only 16?

  That guy is 17, so she should be same age or younger.
  
  Don't you think so?
• Kenashi

  13 May 05, 15:10

  Originally posted by M©+square:

  That guy is 17, so she should be same age or younger.
  
  Don't you think so?

  ya, i think so too
• M©+square

  13 May 05, 15:13

  Originally posted by Kenashi:

  ya, i think so too

  To be nice: She's unfortunate.
  
  To be evil: She's gulliable.
  
  I prefer to be evil.