Can you handle death?
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neither have i... i've never gotten over her death... i stil tot she's still alive... stil lying to myself...Originally posted by Toxicity:I try to visit as often as I can. What makes me even more sad is the fact that his family doesn't even clean his grave anymore *shakes fist in anger*... can't help but wonder whether I'm the only one that hasn't moved on.
probably his family members are feelin as sad as well, and they'd rather not visit so much to lessen the pain... it depends on individuals, pal....
sometyms ppl tot its strange to talk to a grave and waste tym to sit there for hours doing nothing... but it is a kinda peace u need... the silence grieving really calms u down... -
Well it even worst when others blame me. Even some 'friends' avoided me and said I'm cursed.
Its childish but it still hurts. -
well, hey.. like gackt says.. come out with us once in a while... we're pretty friendly people...
and.. we (well, at least me) won't say you're cursed or anything...
and heck.. maybe we'll buy you a drink or something for your birthday
Originally posted by Toxicity:Well it even worst when others blame me. Even some 'friends' avoided me and said I'm cursed. Its childish but it still hurts. -
"No one's death comes to pass without making some impression,
and those close to the deceased inherit part of the liberated soul
and become richer in their humaneness."
- Hermann Broch
There is one I know personally who tried to pull his best friend from the ledge outside the latter's condominium flat, but the best friend still went down in a splatter of blood and brain right in front of his eyes. Since that fateful day, that person has never left a day wasting by without doing something he had wanted to do all his life. Watch his favourite movies, travel to exotic places, learn a new language, write a book of personal memoirs, and coming to terms with his religion.
Life is so fragile. No one knows which day would be his or her very last day on this world. However, everyone knows that when it is his or her time to go, there is nothing in this world that could prevent that from coming to pass.
Your best friend died because his time was up, and he has been recalled by the Maker from this world to begin another journey in the next. I may sound fatalistic, but I believe even if he had not make the trip to get you your present, he would still have passed on in some other way.
Don't blame yourself for your best friend's passing, for he would never have wanted his death to be a burden of guilt to the living, especially to you among the ones he had loved. Place him instead inside the deepest recesses of your heart, and keep within the memories of his laughter and cheer as he would have you remember him. Treasure every moment of your life, enrich it, live it to the fullest as if he were still with you. Above all, make his passing meaningful such that, bless his soul wherever he is, he would rejoice and be proud of you. -
Well.. It's good that you should be avoiding these kinda 'friends' at least for a while too...?Originally posted by Toxicity:Well it even worst when others blame me. Even some 'friends' avoided me and said I'm cursed. Its childish but it still hurts.