You mean you're no longer with him?Originally posted by netchick:I admit tat I din end it d moment I knew about his marital status.. But, initially, when we started, I din noe anything @ all... And I found out everything through myself.. I went to ROM to check out his marital status when I started having doubts...
My posting of tis whole thing is not to gather pity.. & neither did I continue wif tis 'drama'... My sole purpose is bcoz I'm puzzeled... I'm feeling indignant... I'm feeling enraged...
Originally posted by netchick:At least you're past denial. Your anger, too shall pass. In time you'll learn to accept the fact that there are jerks among men and you just happened to be cheated by one. And hopefully, you'd have learned a thing or two from this lesson and be careful around men you get involved with in future.
My posting of tis whole thing is not to gather pity.. & neither did I continue wif tis 'drama'... My sole purpose is bcoz I'm puzzeled... I'm feeling indignant... I'm feeling enraged...
Being past denial is one thing... Sadness is yet another... Honestly, wat ve I learned from tis whole episode?? I really dunno...Originally posted by Tuatau:At least you're past denial. Your anger, too shall pass. In time you'll learn to accept the fact that there are jerks among men and you just happened to be cheated by one. And hopefully, you'd have learned a thing or two from this lesson and be careful around men you get involved with in future.
Time heals all wounds, and there are many other men, men who are nice guys out there. See open...
Nope.. No longer with him... Ve even spoken to his wife.. & seen her tooOriginally posted by Devil1976:You mean you're no longer with him?
Hmm.. IMO, I feel tat no matter wat, to d extend tat fate determines everything--- Till feeling fade in marriage--- stuck in a unhappy marriage... Both parties gotta b responsible enuff to end it... If u'r stuck & u juz let it be... Then dun 'harm' others...Originally posted by subarugal:humh, in the market there are lots of MBA but i only can say some are really stuck in there own marriage either its the feeling fade or other problems they are facing.. humh.. there isn't any right or wrong only can say its fate..
fate to meet n married, fate if the feeling fade, fated if it ends in a divorce, fated if either party met 3rd party. No-one wish to be caught in such r/l at times isn't up to u.. but only u and you urself can help urself..
humh, coz such r/l sad to say very rare it will have future coz need strong courage for the man to actually face the family n relative etc...
but really the most suffering one isn't the adults, its the kids..
last pls spare a thought for the child.
And last personally i belief in retributions or bad karma will be fallen on us..
Nope.. No longer with him... Ve even spoken to his wife.. & seen her tooThen perhaps you should leave things these way..it'll be good for you, for him and for his kids, in the long term...
Originally posted by netchick:How would you want to exact revenge? Like the jilted Glenn Close in "Fatal Attraction"?
I tink my balance is abit out... My feelin now is tat I really wanna hurt him so much {Maybe to execute revenge} U noe.. tohit him where it hurts d most...
Scary thoughts... But, anger overwhelms me...