Stupid ex-bf harassing my gf
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Why must he reappear and make my gf sad? That stupid ex-bf.. already break.. and my gf made her stand.. she won't get back to him.. but he still harasses her and makes her very very upset and cry.. now she wants to break with me as well... if he love her why make her sad? I don't know what i can do now...
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offer her support whenever she needs it.... she confused now, so jz nicely b her listening ear help her when she needs it...Originally posted by sentguy:Why must he reappear and make my gf sad? That stupid ex-bf.. already break.. and my gf made her stand.. she won't get back to him.. but he still harasses her and makes her very very upset and cry.. now she wants to break with me as well... if he love her why make her sad? I don't know what i can do now... -
I do agree with u that the ex-bf is just a silly character who doesnt know how to treasure a girl.Originally posted by sentguy:Why must he reappear and make my gf sad? That stupid ex-bf.. already break.. and my gf made her stand.. she won't get back to him.. but he still harasses her and makes her very very upset and cry.. now she wants to break with me as well... if he love her why make her sad? I don't know what i can do now...
Wat u can do now is to offer ur gf support and not put pressure on her. Just say that u will always be there for her and love her too. If she is confused, let her have some time to think abt it. =) I am sure she will know that u are the one for her. -
I always believe in these 3 Numbers.... 9 9 9...Originally posted by sentguy:Why must he reappear and make my gf sad? That stupid ex-bf.. already break.. and my gf made her stand.. she won't get back to him.. but he still harasses her and makes her very very upset and cry.. now she wants to break with me as well... if he love her why make her sad? I don't know what i can do now...
Reason... for call... Public Nuisance Acts -
if she is affected by her ex-bf, i think maybe she oso hasn't relli let go (of the past rship)
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if he harasses her why not harasses him back?
no one ever thought of it rite.
start by asking his hp and addresss and photo.
1) Next write keep calling his hp until he force to change number.
2) Next keep following him where he goes and do things to make sure he knows you are there.
3) take his photo and sent it around changi village.
4) tell your gf to be carefull of him cos he got Aids.
5) go after his sister if he have one.
Actually there are many things you can do. Is up to you to be a man and fight back for what you believe in. If you do not love your gf or just like wimps who only knows how to talk and no action, your gf is much better off without you cos u do not know how to protect her in time of her needs. -
LOLz..Originally posted by drx:if he harasses her why not harasses him back?
no one ever thought of it rite.
start by asking his hp and addresss and photo.
1) Next write keep calling his hp until he force to change number.
2) Next keep following him where he goes and do things to make sure he knows you are there.
3) take his photo and sent it around changi village.
4) tell your gf to be carefull of him cos he got Aids.
5) go after his sister if he have one.
Actually there are many things you can do. Is up to you to be a man and fight back for what you believe in. If you do not love your gf or just like wimps who only knows how to talk and no action, your gf is much better off without you cos u do not know how to protect her in time of her needs.
Harass him back and get into trouble with law?
Get jailed and then his gf and her ex can get back happily together again? -
why have to stoop so low and make urself look bad?Originally posted by drx:if he harasses her why not harasses him back?
no one ever thought of it rite.
start by asking his hp and addresss and photo. -
he also can't do anything about it right?Originally posted by FireIce:if she is affected by her ex-bf, i think maybe she oso hasn't relli let go (of the past rship) -
wat he can do is probably to let the ger cool down and sort out her tots.......Originally posted by bratpig:he also can't do anything about it right? -
auntie...he doesn't want to lose her lah...where got time for all this bullshi.t? action now...bash him up...teach the ba.stard a lesson...Originally posted by FireIce:wat he can do is probably to let the ger cool down and sort out her tots....... -
I gave him a choice wat! If he really likes her so badly then have the guts to fight. If not then other people who have guts will win the girl.
Come on lar if yr ex come after you and your bf runs after away cos he is too scare to fight for your happiness then why even be with him at all.
haiz i do what i can liao! Is up to him to decide what he should do.
I admit I can only advice and I cannot fight his battles for him. -
That guy is merely out to get back at you. He is plain jealous. He wants her back, but not for the purpose of love, but sexual favours. He may cherish her if he gets her back, but definitely not the positive way. Do not give her up, i faced this situation before, and i respect the girl's decision to break with me and she went back to her ex BF.. In the end, what happened was what i Hated myself forever. That guy keep going to her house to play with her body, and after that just left, And this happens EVERY SINGLE DAY after i broke with her. Don't Give that guy another chance, you are being unfair to both yourself and the girl you truely like. Whatever happens, Don't Give up on her. Take CAre
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What he did? How she responded? What she said to you...?Originally posted by sentguy:Why must he reappear and make my gf sad? That stupid ex-bf.. already break.. and my gf made her stand.. she won't get back to him.. but he still harasses her and makes her very very upset and cry.. now she wants to break with me as well... if he love her why make her sad? I don't know what i can do now... -
OMG...this is the part that I liked the most.Originally posted by sentguy:Why must he reappear and make my gf sad? That stupid ex-bf.. already break.. and my gf made her stand.. she won't get back to him.. but he still harasses her and makes her very very upset and cry.. now she wants to break with me as well... if he love her why make her sad? I don't know what i can do now... 
Poison your gf's mind against her ex-bf.
Yes...do it.
Be the nasty bast@rd that you've always wanted to be and defamed/ruined/slandered/lies about and against your gf's ex-bf.
Oh...wondering why I asked you to do that? It's all for the good of your gf.
Right now she's absolutely confused about herself, her likes/dislikes/morals and even her own sanity.
So unleashed your evil upon this girl against her ex-bf, so she'll think of you as her hero and her ex-bf as a bast@ard even though you're constantly feeding her mind with nasty thoughts/rumours about her ex-bf.
She'll believe you cos you're being such a informative bf and cares a lot about her by warning her against her ex-bf. She will believe it so when you're feeding her slowly and not spamming her mind with it.
Either way, it's alot better than letting go and thinking that you're a loser later on and you can only bang your balls to release your own regrets and frustrations.
It's a fight I tell you...a fight for the the girl that you love. And you've got the advantage cos it's on your home ground and she's still your gf now.
Be ever-loving and romantic and caring and mushy to her so that you'll earned her trust. Remember to coax her at least once a day so that she'll go to bed remembering how much you cared and loved her. Usually after coaxing her, you'll find that she's ever more obedient than ever...and that's the correct moment to start poisoning her mind against her ex-bf. One thing to remember, don't over do it cos girls can't possibly remember all of it when she wakes up the next morning and you're not preparing her for the next Miss Poison contest/exam.
So good luck and I've no idea who's the bad guy here, and I hope you didn't snatched your current gf from her ex-bf or I'll offer better advice to her ex-bf. -
whack tt guy?
but really.. maybe u shld ask her ex-bf out for a man-to-man talk? -
if ur gf realli love u then she wont even think abt breaking off with u .Originally posted by sentguy:Why must he reappear and make my gf sad? That stupid ex-bf.. already break.. and my gf made her stand.. she won't get back to him.. but he still harasses her and makes her very very upset and cry.. now she wants to break with me as well... if he love her why make her sad? I don't know what i can do now...
since she has that thot then its time to re think how much she love u .
mayb she used u as a substitute?
get real.. -
Sticky situation.. Think she's really confused right now.. But hey bro, i'm a man too, and i know it's hard to take. Fight, and what if she says u are interferring her problems and being violent. Don't fight, ppl call u a pussy.
But 1 thing i notice, if she really has let go of the previous r/s, she probably wouldnt even bother being upset. Bro, i know it sounds damn 'nan ting', but maybe her heart has this empty space left behind by her ex that u didn't fill in.
Anyways, hope everything turn out fine. Good luck! -
Don't hate yourself man.. She was the stupid oneOriginally posted by Ledikusa:That guy is merely out to get back at you. He is plain jealous. He wants her back, but not for the purpose of love, but sexual favours. He may cherish her if he gets her back, but definitely not the positive way. Do not give her up, i faced this situation before, and i respect the girl's decision to break with me and she went back to her ex BF.. In the end, what happened was what i Hated myself forever. That guy keep going to her house to play with her body, and after that just left, And this happens EVERY SINGLE DAY after i broke with her. Don't Give that guy another chance, you are being unfair to both yourself and the girl you truely like. Whatever happens, Don't Give up on her. Take CAre -
i dun get one thing... why wud your gal wan to break up with you when she's harressed by her ex??
have you ever thought about this??? -
Maybe you have to talk to the guy face to face about it. Also, it is not good for ex bf gf to patch things up as there will always be this suspicion lingering in the relationship.
Just spend time hugging your gf and consoling her.
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hey man, worry not. let the whole matter cool. Just hv a chat with your gf and tell her tat u respect her decision but u oso want her to know how u feel towards her and ur rship. if she is smart, she'll know wat to do. otherwise, no matter wat else u do oso won't work.
good luck.
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hi guys.. i really appreciate so many of u giving me suggestions and listening to my problem... let me explain the situation now..
this is actually the 2nd time that he is back for her.. the 1st time he came back..i used all my persuasion powers and skills to ask her to give us(my gf and me)more time and it was a success...
During the 1 month that he did not come back to harrass her.. we were very happy.. i could see her smile radiently..truely... and it hurts me now to see her so upset.. confused...
Yes u guys might say, if she is undecided, then obviously she doesn't love me as much as love him. But, we are a 3 months couple, they are 3 years... so i really do not expect her to forget him so fast.. im willing to give her time.. as much as she needs... oh and yes to clear up the point, i went after her only AFTER she break with him.. so i was not the 3rd party.. its fair and square and above board..
Her point of view for wanting to break up with me is that.. she feels its unfair to me when she is with me,and she still thinking of him sometimes.. For my point of view, im willing to give her as much time as she needs.. simply becox i love her.. (no,not her body, we haven't had any sexual contact)
And about the suggestion of 1 brother here to speak bad about her bf, i can't do it. It would sound really bad that i purposely speak bad about her ex and that might have a negative effect- she might think im a 'small air' guy to do such things. Honestly, i don't hate him on a personal level, i just hate him for making my gf so upset..so xinku..making her depressed..
Im sorry guys(and girls) that this is such a long post.. -
WEll, it's not hard to tell that's a excess bagagge symptom.Originally posted by sentguy:hi guys.. i really appreciate so many of u giving me suggestions and listening to my problem... let me explain the situation now..
this is actually the 2nd time that he is back for her.. the 1st time he came back..i used all my persuasion powers and skills to ask her to give us(my gf and me)more time and it was a success...
During the 1 month that he did not come back to harrass her.. we were very happy.. i could see her smile radiently..truely... and it hurts me now to see her so upset.. confused...
Yes u guys might say, if she is undecided, then obviously she doesn't love me as much as love him. But, we are a 3 months couple, they are 3 years... so i really do not expect her to forget him so fast.. im willing to give her time.. as much as she needs... oh and yes to clear up the point, i went after her only AFTER she break with him.. so i was not the 3rd party.. its fair and square and above board..
Her point of view for wanting to break up with me is that.. she feels its unfair to me when she is with me,and she still thinking of him sometimes.. For my point of view, im willing to give her as much time as she needs.. simply becox i love her.. (no,not her body, we haven't had any sexual contact)
And about the suggestion of 1 brother here to speak bad about her bf, i can't do it. It would sound really bad that i purposely speak bad about her ex and that might have a negative effect- she might think im a 'small air' guy to do such things. Honestly, i don't hate him on a personal level, i just hate him for making my gf so upset..so xinku..making her depressed..
Im sorry guys(and girls) that this is such a long post..
Let her settle her past, stand by her and give yourself and her a chance. -
Originally posted by M©+square:WEll, it's not hard to tell that's a excess bagagge symptom.
Let her settle her past, stand by her and give yourself and her a chance.