Run out of topics?
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I guess the purpose of making you call her everyday, even if she doesn't respond on the other line, is to make you think of her everyday.
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Hello,
Since u call her almost everyday, of course the 2 of u will 'run out of topics' , meaning, almost every topic has been discussed already previously. Coz the 2 of u are not like new friends.
Basically she's not asking u or expecting u to come up with interesting topics, she just wants to 'stay in touch' with u. She wants u to continue to show care and attention/ concern. She wants the 2 of u to stay 'connected'. At the very least, and that's why she'd ask u when u don't call her.
Don't worry about how long u talk, or that there's nothing interesting to talk on that day. Coz that's not what the both of u want from that phone conversation. Right?
Trust me, when the 2 of u can talk about uninteresting things, u should be happy instead. Coz it means u have progressed the relationship.
When she just keep quiet sometimes, like what had happened, and still expects u to call her daily, she has basically 'accepted' ur 'connection'. Again, u should be happy instead.
Just chat with her daily and talk about how ur day went, and ask her about her day.
This is what she really wants. Care and concern. A certain 'connection'. -
Usually I think the girls can talk more compared to the guys. So after a while if your topic dept. runs dry and you cannot think of anything interesting to talk abt, get a "sounds good" excuse to end the conversation.
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Very true, she wants attention from u.Originally posted by Li Ka Shing:Hello,
Since u call her almost everyday, of course the 2 of u will 'run out of topics' , meaning, almost every topic has been discussed already previously. Coz the 2 of u are not like new friends.
Basically she's not asking u or expecting u to come up with interesting topics, she just wants to 'stay in touch' with u. She wants u to continue to show care and attention/ concern. She wants the 2 of u to stay 'connected'. At the very least, and that's why she'd ask u when u don't call her.
Don't worry about how long u talk, or that there's nothing interesting to talk on that day. Coz that's not what the both of u want from that phone conversation. Right?
Trust me, when the 2 of u can talk about uninteresting things, u should be happy instead. Coz it means u have progressed the relationship.
When she just keep quiet sometimes, like what had happened, and still expects u to call her daily, she has basically 'accepted' ur 'connection'. Again, u should be happy instead.
Just chat with her daily and talk about how ur day went, and ask her about her day.
This is what she really wants. Care and concern. A certain 'connection'.
When u call daily, ask her to tell u what she did. Girls are chatty. U should ask questions to get her to talk. She will share gossips abt her frens, sch, work etc. U be a good listener & offer advice/ sympathy if she is feeling moody