will girl like stupid guy?
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im sad because i myself never study high, so when girl ask me where i study, i very paiseh to tell them. i knw people will say if a girl love u its not ur education but is it really true? cos i got a few failed relationship all because i not very clever and good to communicate with them.
by the way, im a cook as my education dun allow me other jobs, sometimes i realli very depress with myself. i hope in future my kids will go nus and not become like their father only psle standard, but will i get marry and have kids is another thing lor.
i envy people here who can talk very well and some even handsome and rich. i think its my life lah. now i got a girl i like very much but i dun dare to appoach her. my friend say buy diamond for her and get her wat she wan then i got chance. but i only earn a few k each mth and i got to feed my parents too so i guess i no chance with the girl liao.
i knw i can get girl who are not so money minded but those are mostly fat and cannot make it type. i dun knw why pretty girl like diamond and fat girl dun like. if the reverse happen it will be so nice but i guess it will never happen lor. haiz, wat to do but to say it out here and complain hope people here dun mind. -
in this world only lasy women
there an't any ugly woman
money in your pocket more important
no money no honey
find more time do volunteer work, there got more good looking girl
imagine. if now they can talk care old folk, next time your own one should not be any problem -
ru the guy who beat red light 3times?? u bluffing anot?
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siao, some fat girls also like diamonds.
after all u can still study on the sideline and take up courses to improve your english or whatever it is -
remind me to watch You Fu tonite.
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i knw there are some ladies in here, can you all tell me wat u look for in a guy? so that i can improve myself. i also wan to study but i dun have the time. today i off day thats why so free.Originally posted by cutepixie:siao, some fat girls also like diamonds.
after all u can still study on the sideline and take up courses to improve your english or whatever it is -
well, u r NOT stupid, if u really tink u oni hav low education, y dun upgrade urself..since u lik cooking so much, perhaps u can get a diploma ( Shatec if not wrong ), jiayou ~
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If u can be so picky about the appearance of girls, naturally the pretty girls can be picky about who they want to go out with too.
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i find that girls today are richer than guys. u see xiaxue blog and kate and spg and seexed-up blog and u will knw all these girls like very rich leh. and i think they also will find guys who are rich and clever too. some of them are really pretty although i must say xiaxue a bit fat.
i knw to many im just whinning but its really hard if u wan to be the above mention to be ur gf lor. all my friend are poor just like me, maybe there are really rich and handsome guy for them which i dun knw.
maybe poor guy like me can get together and we set up a agency for malaysian girls to marry us. do u think its a good idea? who knws maybe can make money too. -
hmm not much education doesn make u stupid.
if u didn really have much education, u can still take up courses etc to upgrade urself
but if u're stupid, den tts a different story.. -
its true i so dumb thats why no girl wants me
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i wan to take up courses but i everyday work up to 12 hrs. 1 week onli 1 off day so its very hard for me to study.Originally posted by shinta:hmm not much education doesn make u stupid.
if u didn really have much education, u can still take up courses etc to upgrade urself
but if u're stupid, den tts a different story.. -
Sg gals quite difficult,I think,mostly highly educated and go for materialistic stuff,but I'm sure there're good sg gals around especially those who do volunteer work as mentioned above.
Since you are a cook,why don't you try to be the best cook there ever will be? Aim to be a famous chef! -
u are not alone lor. a lot of my friends also like you no gf.Originally posted by hisoka:its true i so dumb thats why no girl wants me -
hmm slowly lor...Originally posted by Pea brain:i wan to take up courses but i everyday work up to 12 hrs. 1 week onli 1 off day so its very hard for me to study.
see if u could arrange with ur superiors or sth
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in fact i always try to learn new things and become a better cook but the mangement also will see if you got cert in cooking anot too. so if theres two cook and the one got dip or cert will get promoted.Originally posted by Marco_Simone:Sg gals quite difficult,I think,mostly highly educated and go for materialistic stuff,but I'm sure there're good sg gals around especially those who do volunteer work as mentioned above.
Since you are a cook,why don't you try to be the best cook there ever will be? Aim to be a famous chef!
i had been working close to 9yrs after my ns but im still stuck as a cook cos of no cert. im trying to save up and hope someday i can open my own food stall but i scare by then im too old and also no gf to get marry.
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One day a father and his rich family took his young son on a trip to the country with the firm purpose to show him how poor people can be. They spent a day and a night in the farm of a very poor family. When they got back from their trip the father asked his son, "How was the trip?"
Very good, Dad!"
"Did you see how poor people can be?" the father asked.
"Yeah!" "And what did you learn?"
The son answered, "I saw that we have a dog at home, and they have four. We have a pool that reaches to the middle of the garden, they have a creek that has no end. We have imported lamps in the garden, they have the stars. Our patio reaches to the front yard, they have a whole horizon.
When the little boy was finishing, his father was speechless.
His son added, "Thanks, Dad, for showing me how poor we are!" Isn't it true that it all depends on the way you look at things? If you have love, friends, family, health, good humor and a positive attitude toward life, you've got everything!
You can't buy any of these things. You can have all the material possessions you can imagine, provisions for the future, etc., but if you are poor of spirit, you have nothing! -
If the any gal haben stead with you ever wants you to buy diamond ring for her,tell her to fu-ck off man!Originally posted by Pea brain:my friend say buy diamond for her and get her wat she wan then i got chance. -
no.
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actually i also knw the ans lar. no girls will like stupid and poor guy like me. but i dun blame them as all of us also wan a good life mah. who wan to suffer rite?Originally posted by aCid_rAIn:no. -
Duh, pretty girls is pretty because they need to buy accessories for their whole body (think money)
lolx, of course they like expensive items to beautify themselves 
You sound choosy, so don't complain if they don't choose you because they are also choosing you. Why not upgrade yourself by taking some classes? That way, without a cert, you could also learn what others are also learning..cert is not everything. (ok, maybe some high-paying jobs do) -
Offtopic: woah, you are a cook! cool job
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Poor YouFu... kena dumped by jialin...
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Heheheh
When I first read this post, I wanted to respond to reassure the writer how education does not directly relate to qualities such as confidence, intelligence, understanding and maturity - qualities which I believe most girls will prize above and beyond a mere certificate.
I also wanted to share how I have settled down with my husband, who is an ITE graduate while I am a degree holder. In the beginning, he often confess that he feels very inferior about it despite me reassuring him it doesn't bother me at all. In fact, till now, he has me convinced that his good points far exceed many other so-called 'highly educated' people I have met.
Until i read the end of the post, and how the writer laments why only fat girls (despite the fact that these are not judgemental, not materialistic girls, albeit imperfect in other ways) seem to the only ones that finds him attractive and he can't get another girl who is more physically beautiful.
Then I realise.. ooops mebbe he is right. Hee!! Unfortunately I AM 'aesthetically challenged'!! So alas, I can't help the writer anymore - maybe he is condemned to an existence of unsatisfied desire. Too bad. -
Originally posted by Pea brain:im sad because i myself never study high, so when girl ask me where i study, i very paiseh to tell them. i knw people will say if a girl love u its not ur education but is it really true? cos i got a few failed relationship all because i not very clever and good to communicate with them.
by the way, im a cook as my education dun allow me other jobs, sometimes i realli very depress with myself. i hope in future my kids will go nus and not become like their father only psle standard, but will i get marry and have kids is another thing lor.
i envy people here who can talk very well and some even handsome and rich. i think its my life lah. now i got a girl i like very much but i dun dare to appoach her. my friend say buy diamond for her and get her wat she wan then i got chance. but i only earn a few k each mth and i got to feed my parents too so i guess i no chance with the girl liao.
i knw i can get girl who are not so money minded but those are mostly fat and cannot make it type. i dun knw why pretty girl like diamond and fat girl dun like. if the reverse happen it will be so nice but i guess it will never happen lor. haiz, wat to do but to say it out here and complain hope people here dun mind.
You are letting your weakness overshadow you.
If you wanna let your weakness sink in and determine your life, go ahead, because what you are doing is, psychologically speaking, self-fulfilling prophesy.
Say if you can't make it academically, fine - you should use more of the time you have to make it in this world because this world is technically your university, regarding the things you learn. The thirst for learning, improving, evolving and leveling up doesn't NOT only apply only to academic studies. It applies to your career, what you want to do with your life and how you want to shape your destiny. One example I can give you is Mark Lee - he got no paper cert, typical ah-beng-ah-beng kind and he married a decent-looking loving wife.
Of course, there are more real life example WHOM will tell you otherwise, which will fuel your current thinking even more, in a negative way. My stand is very simple: do you neccessary have to be what is happening to others? (Or becoming part of the statistic?) Can't you be the exception? Can't THIS is the movitation for you to attempt more than just 'hard' to excel in your life?
If you are merely contented, or lack the aggressiveness to change your path of destiny, then you will end up whatever you think you will be. You got to be street-smart/EQ, not IQ smart to success in life. If I was you, being a cook for nine years (without paper cert), I would spend these nine years to:
I) Build contacts.
II) Plan what you need to escape the fate of being a mere junior cook. You got to strive upwards.
III) Constant lookout for opportunity.
You got to work upwards and not be stangant - thinking that your job only revolves around 8-5 or similar AND merely working during that time. Or if your job is pretty mundane/mono, resist the idea of learning other things that could be related to cooking. No, it shouldn't be because you into 'society university' and the minute you resign to fate and be contended, you have sealed your own destiny.
THIS IS THE QUALITY THAT A MAN EXUDE AND MAKES HIM CHARMING AND WANTING - character. (In mandarin, it is known as Ge Xing)
If you don't have looks... fine. No paper... fine. Not born rich... fine. But if you also don't have that personality and character, you have nothing, even if you have the above three.
Cheers