Is my life pathetic?
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Dont worry about it. At 17 I was fat and unattractive and I had humoungous zits on my face. Not only that I had an inferiority complex that was bordering on manic depressiveness.Originally posted by The man who was death:Thank you, but the problem is lah i'm very shy lor. I dun even know how to go ard talking to ppl
After puberty passed however, my pimples did clear a bit. And I realised that if I didnt put in any effort nothing is ever gonna change.
Years have swept by since.
Well, Im still fat and unattractive cos I decided that putting in effort goes against my tenets of life which is basically eating and sleeping. Do you want to be like me?
Im sure you dont.
Go and seize life by the balls dude! Carpe diem. ( nucturne too ) -
go check out the bikini topic in the bar.. u see liao i confirm u will feel like a proud man once more.
serious. im still in shock.
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Originally posted by StarPuppy:i am treated like a dog in school...all take me for granted and when i get angry,they say...i changed alot....so heartless to them...is it my fault?
somehow...that sounds funny.
Actually, you should learn to crap more. I noticed I got more friends when I started learning how to crap effectively. Learn to master the language of the jurong bird park. -
ya lor.. its easier to tok with ppl if u noe bird language.Originally posted by shade343:
somehow...that sounds funny.
Actually, you should learn to crap more. I noticed I got more friends when I started learning how to crap effectively. Learn to master the language of the jurong bird park. -
But I find it hard to apply bird language to my poly classmates...cos got 1 guy in my class is multilingual. He know bird,dog,monkey and cat language... needless to say...he has the most friends.Originally posted by Ito_^:ya lor.. its easier to tok with ppl if u noe bird language. -
wa, thats really bad, i am like that..Originally posted by The man who was death:Thank you, but the problem is lah i'm very shy lor. I dun even know how to go ard talking to ppl
i searched "shyness" from google and found out that i have indeed social anxiety disorder..
its like when we want to talk, but we just cant talk...fuc ked up rite..
because of that, i got depression, told by my gp..
its a sad sad life if u have this.. -
dun need compare la..Originally posted by shade343:But I find it hard to apply bird language to my poly classmates...cos got 1 guy in my class is multilingual. He know bird,dog,monkey and cat language... needless to say...he has the most friends. i oni bird talk when im either high on alcohol or caffeine. -
"The man who was death" I think the general message here is to take part in activities that will bring you out of your house... anythin like gym, interest classes like photography, drawing... ANYTHING that can bring u our of your house and into a gp (preferably among the same age gp)
As you said u are only 17 (so young!!!) just got out of secondary? going to poly? jc? ite? whatever. join in their Freshment Orientation activities.. camps, outings...etc join in their clubs... soon u'll find urself surrounded by familiar faces all smiling and stopping to chat.
However this only increases ur number of Hi-Bye friends... to make good friends u must make effort. call them up to organise outings... smile more ask about their lives... tell them about yours... smile and make jokes... smile....
Bottom line... smile more.... learn to like yourself. when you like who you are, ppl can see it. and like and be drawn towards u (provided u don't like urself till u become arrogant!) and LET Nature take it's course.... it takes time to bond with someone... the more u force it the less likely it'll happen.
Making time for friends is a difficult task. but most friends are worth the trouble!!!
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Mr Death,
listen and take the advise we brothers and sisters have given you, ok? you say that no one cares about you?
BULLSHIT
then why is so many ppl replying to you??ever thought of that?even if a mere stranger were to fall in front of you, won youl have the sudden urge to help him?
you think your life pathetic? how about those handicapped ones?you mean they should just killed themselves?aren you better off then them?
since your nick has something to do with death, are you thinking of commiting suiside? please drop the idea if you are. i have been through what you went through, maybe even worse..but that doesnt solve the problem. it make matter worse.. -
I know got ppl here care about me but i seriously dun have any friends in real life. I thought about suicide before but it's nothing to do with this, it's something else, will post about it when i have the time. I choose the nick now it's because it sounds gothicOriginally posted by heavenlyfire:Mr Death,
listen and take the advise we brothers and sisters have given you, ok? you say that no one cares about you?
BULLSHIT
then why is so many ppl replying to you??ever thought of that?even if a mere stranger were to fall in front of you, won youl have the sudden urge to help him?
you think your life pathetic? how about those handicapped ones?you mean they should just killed themselves?aren you better off then them?
since your nick has something to do with death, are you thinking of commiting suiside? please drop the idea if you are. i have been through what you went through, maybe even worse..but that doesnt solve the problem. it make matter worse.. -
seriously i don give damn about friends, they are dispensible items.Originally posted by The man who was death:I know got ppl here care about me but i seriously dun have any friends in real life. I thought about suicide before but it's nothing to do with this, it's something else, will post about it when i have the time. I choose the nick now it's because it sounds gothic
"All acts are transcient" sooner or later you will have to give them up, i mean when you have your family, you will definitely tend to neglect them. you ever see you parents' friends visting them during chinese new year. even if there is, it will only only one or couple.
you should have heard about cases wher the best friend betrayed? I once lived for hatred, i even believed that humans are there to hurt each other. even the greatest love of all , mother love is flawed, let alone friends' love.
if i am not wrong there is a theory that mention love can be subsituted. if you lack of one area of love, you can compenstated it with another area.
Example if you don have any love for relationship, you can compenstated by loving your family more. That is why a few years back where there are cases wher young girls look for love outside as the family is unable to provide them.
by the way, your life will always be pathetic if you keep thinking this way, surf more forum and you will find that you are not alone.
CHEERS man!! to Suffering!!