Originally posted by HafizulKMS:
First of all, I have to clarify.
Nice guy = @sshole, is proven.
I agreed. Nice is subjective.
But those pretenders, or people-call-them-nice-guys, or nice-guys-wannabes are definitely @sshole.
So, what is nice, and what is not?
Does nice speak?
Do nice guys need to SHOW nice to people?
The theory of nice is simple.
For example, a guy, who saw there is a nail on the floor, and he feel that this nail will harm, he pick it up, and throw it to the bin, nobody see, not show to anyone, nobody in this world knows about it, he is a nice guy.
But, a guy, who gave seat to the old, where actually he just wanted to show people, to show his friends, he is a nice guy, obviously this is an @sshole. A big @sshole.
A nice-guy-wannabe, the more you want to show to people you are "NICE", with statements like "I am a nice guy", well, you sux, you should go to lick the monkey @ss. Because people will feel that you are very very disgusting, donÂ’t even mention about the one you love. Now you know why she feel you sux? Because you really sux.
The conclusion is not 1 nice guy kill a girl, then all nice guys = @sshole, at least this is a very very very (X 1000 very) GOOD example.
So, girls, those nice-guys-wannabes, or people-said-they-are-nice-guys, or he-said-he-is-nice-guy, you should be more alert, nice won't speak, nor show.
Nice is from heart.
I was just wondering.. if there were a lot of ppl in the train..what wil u do ? U will be contemplating whether to help her or not. BUt since there are people out there that thinks that if u let the old lady sit..u are showing that u are a nice guy therefore u are an asshole. But if u dun let her sit..u pity that she will stand there. Now.. u are caught in a dilemma.What will U do?
This topic is just too subjective. We cannot really define a nice guy. We all have different perception to what is good what is bad. What is nice to you may not be nice to others. To continue on this discussion i may just be contradicting myself.. sometimes being nice just cant cut it. BEcause u are NICE.. u get used by those evil conniving girls. They know u are nice..therefore u are supcectable to constant hurt or being pushed around. I know there heaps of those kind lurking at every corner.. ever cafe , pub club bistro.. yes..u know who u are. N u aint NICE