how come?Originally posted by starblue:were you all watching madagascar when she did you? i heard it's a pretty good show to do that kinda thing to.![]()
i was just trying to have a dig at him.Originally posted by Ito_^:how come?![]()
so friend, you decided to give her up?Originally posted by Kerotan Frog:What can I do to make her give up without hurting her at all?![]()
for God's sake... read the previous thread... the sicko in this case is the guy. leave the poor gal alone.Originally posted by drx:humm, oral sex till i climax in a cinema? well a bit hard to believe lar.
ok lets say is real. If she can do it to you in the cinema, are u sure she never do it with other guys too? U are only 23, do you want to have any health problems due to sex? oral sex there is no protection. Just want to caution u first.
My advice: Totaly ignore her stop all calls and sms. She is sex crazy and once she is finished with you she will disappear and find a new one.
Just curious is she born in the month of feb?
suit yourself. personally, i wun give a sht for an Ashol like him.Originally posted by drx:u may be surprise cos i have handle a case same as his.
Ihave read his case carefully and I feel that they are linked. The girl is not easy as you think cos if you notice carefully, is the girl who is doing all the pushing not the guy this time round.
Just afraid he may be kena cheated by the girl so I really need his help to have a profile match with the girl in the previous case.!!!
i fully agreed she is not as easy as i think infact she lied to me many times just that i didn't expose her only. she is born in jan not febOriginally posted by drx:u may be surprise cos i have handle a case same as his.
Ihave read his case carefully and I feel that they are linked. The girl is not easy as you think cos if you notice carefully, is the girl who is doing all the pushing not the guy this time round.
Just afraid he may be kena cheated by the girl so I really need his help to have a profile match with the girl in the previous case.!!!
Originally posted by heavenlyfire:I tried some of the ways you mentioned above but i cannot bring myself to do no 2. I will definately be soft hearted and give in to her when she cry. She doesn't know where I stay at which block only know i stay in east area. I did no 3 too i did things like scolding all kinds of vulgar at her, ignore her and told her i went disco look for girls. but she still won't give up.
so friend, you decided to give her up?
in all case, i don think it will be possible to give up without hurting her at all. you can only reduce the hurt. there are hundreds and one way. i will tell you what i can think off. ppl will comment and you decide.
[b]1) you secretly withdraw....not picking up her calls and not replying to your message. or you can even change your no. ( i would choose this, as this girl is so crazy about me, one way to stop her from harassing you and stalking you)
2) you confront her telling her you feel piss off, never expected her to be so cheap on what she done at the cinema and told her harshly that don borther you anymore.
maybe she will tell you that her friends advise her to do such things, then you told her off that she is 26, yet unable to think. just be pissed off and digusted and don be soft hearted to give in to her aplogies. then it will be most likely that she will try again after few days, she will not give up. the best way is change your number without telling her. ya, tell her to find other guys who like such things.
3)turn into a complete jerk and let her hate you, do the things she don like.(less hurt as it will be easier to forget some1 whom you hate)
4) always talk about a particular girl whom you like recently, tell her that you also like the 3rd party, ask her for advise, just make her give up. maybe she will not be convinced. then you will have to find a friend to help you act.(hurt the most)
5) be truthful to her. (but the truth always hurt the most). she may take sometime to forget you. be firm with your stand. no more 1 to 1 date as it will give her the wrong idea.
bear in mind she may have her own team of advisers just like you have us, but if you choose option 1. her team would have no chance and no way to help or advise, unless she know where you stay and crazy until come and look for you.
if you don want to loose her as a friend, maybe let things calm down a bit(choose option 1), contact her only until she found a new target or the inflaution is not that strong, usually take 6 months or more.
these are the waysi can think off, hiaz...how to don hurt her. either love or hate and these 2 are usually marginally apart.
Pls comment and advise. [/b]
she only did that with her ex bf . oral sex carries little to no risk besides she is the one giving me and i did not give her.Originally posted by drx:humm, oral sex till i climax in a cinema? well a bit hard to believe lar.
ok lets say is real. If she can do it to you in the cinema, are u sure she never do it with other guys too? U are only 23, do you want to have any health problems due to sex? oral sex there is no protection. Just want to caution u first.
My advice: Totaly ignore her stop all calls and sms. She is sex crazy and once she is finished with you she will disappear and find a new one.
Just curious is she born in the month of feb?
bloody hell this kind of things can predict hor? she is the one pestering me for so long alreadyOriginally posted by starblue:suit yourself. personally, i wun give a sht for an Ashol like him.
yada yada yada... you know you're an Ashol ok??Originally posted by Kerotan Frog:bloody hell this kind of things can predict hor? she is the one pestering me for so long already
then choose option 1.. waiting for what and about the birthday. how true can it be, she is born in jan? i mean you mention that she likes telling lies, unless she show you her IC .Originally posted by Kerotan Frog:I tried some of the ways you mentioned above but i cannot bring myself to do no 2. I will definately be soft hearted and give in to her when she cry. She doesn't know where I stay at which block only know i stay in east area. I did no 3 too i did things like scolding all kinds of vulgar at her, ignore her and told her i went disco look for girls. but she still won't give up.
now that u mentioned i really never seen her ic b4 and she could be lying. she don't know my house no only HPOriginally posted by heavenlyfire:then choose option 1.. waiting for what and about the birthday. how true can it be, she is born in jan? i mean you mention that she likes telling lies, unless she show you her IC .
i personally would go for option 1. just buy a sim card will do.then inform your friends, then suscribe caller id for your house number to blacklist her or better still if you can change your house number if she have your house number.but changing house number will be troublesome as your parents need to inform their friends too. so i think suscribe caller id. in the mean time, just buy a sim card, 30 bucks, then you will be free.
if she call your house, and any of the ideas i mention above didnt work. get your father or mother to scold her, then you will have to tell either 1 of the parents or even threathen to call the police if she repeatly harass your home or family, there is a law on it, see how she react.
usually the most effective way to solve the problem is the most simplest.