Love vs fondness
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Originally posted by OwenMania:
It is not really necessary to sustain a relationship with a goal, though a common goal does give the couple something to work for together, and that may help in strengthening the relationship.
Something I trying to understand is...
if there's nothing to look for in a relationship... is it the end?
in another words, there must be always a goal... for example, marriage, buy house, buy car to keep couples together?
You may buy a house and a car, but if the girl simply couldn't develop any feelings for you, all your material possessions wouldn't mean much to her anyway. (Unless she happened to be a material girl and that would be another story).
Perhaps there really was a goal -- that love would hopefully blossom -- when both of you embarked on this voyage a year ago. However, the trip didn't seem to be making any headway so maybe the girl grew tired of waiting and decided to bail out so as not to waste any more of her time.
And to some women, time is their greatest enemy. -
Different people go for different things in a relationship... Some go for the goals.... Some for experience and feelings...Originally posted by OwenMania:Thank you very much...
Really feel much better after reading your advices...
Something I trying to understand is...
if there's nothing to look for in a relationship... is it the end?
in another words, there must be always a goal... for example, marriage, buy house, buy car to keep couples together? -
then you go for what? cheebai is it?Originally posted by Devil1976:Different people go for different things in a relationship... Some go for the goals.... Some for experience and feelings...
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she is sian of you, sian. bored. - one possibilty, but it wouldn't sound nice right.. so must give poetic reasons. and maybe part with a tear drop under the setting sun on the beach.
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Hi there,Originally posted by shaunlaw:Well, I wish I knew the answer to your question. If my gf told me that, I guess I would be sad and at the same time also angry cos liek u say: now no love then y in the 1st place wana go stead?
Girls may say that u nvr try u nvr know whether the feeling will last or say that din not know back then.
To me, all these mean nth at all if she say the feeling isnt there anymore. My ex left me with a stupid reason: she could not commit her self to this relationship ( that happened after 1.5 years tog). how come she could commite back then and now anymore? Strange, isnt it?
I feel u got to know that feelings may change. your love for a person may increase from day to day and so may it reduce from day to day. and the changes may be due to the changes in ourselves or the in the persons we love. doesnt it make sense? and feelings always go along with emotions... emotion is something not easy to control..and predict. -
excellent comments...
I get wat u all mean...
Thank you! -
yeah... just dun listen to mahai one will do.Originally posted by OwenMania:excellent comments...
I get wat u all mean...
Thank you!