maybe i'm thinking too much??
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Hahaha...yes you are chim. Thanks GOD that you didn't bring out any of your planets and galaxies theories -> astrology/horoscope. Think I'm missing out that piece of my brain cos I still don't understand them.Originally posted by Yunhaier:Damn... Am I very chim?
Cheers
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If you want 'quality', I guess you can only wait...? But understand that time would still go on no matter what... In waiting, you often just let things slip you by.....Originally posted by NoTimeToWaitAr:Sometime when we spotted a chio bu or cute cute gal, we will tok abt it. Den my frenz will ask mi whether i wan their number. If wan den they will go there and get the number for mi. Or sometimes my frenz will wan to intro their female frenz to mi.
But i always reject their offer, unless she's the 1 i'm looking for in terms of character. Cos i believe in fate. I feel that u dun hv any sincerity if u let ur frenz get the number for u. If u really wan to know this gal, u will hv to get her number urself.
But for mi, if i hv the chance, i will try to get their msn or email 1st. Cos i feel that if a gal so easily gave u their number, she would hv given to alot of guys already. But most of the time i do not hv the courage to go up there and ask for name or wateva...
maybe i'm too shy to do it ....= =''... or maybe i fear of rejection. But when it comes to help my frenz getting the number, i hv no fear anymore.
i tink i hv to build up my confident 1st.....
Try not to judge people presumingly as is it would be unfair for others to judge and 'label' you without knowing you well enough... Giving numbers to guys can be a form of politeness and friendliness.. Not necessarily just what you think....
Without going anywhere nearer to a girl, how would you expect to know her character well..
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haiz..... how come always like tt.
The one u have feelings for is not the one they themselves are looking for....... = =''...
ni3 xi3 huan1 de3 bu4 xi3 huan1 ni3, ni3 mei2 gan3 jue2 de3 pian1 pian1 xi3 huan1 ni3
they one u like dun like u, they one u dun like seems to like u....= ='' ... confusing... -
thx guys for all ur replies. haiz, i think i shld let fate decide. if really have the chance, i wun let it passby again.
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if you are always afraid of trying new things,you will never get it done.well even if the first few relationships do not work out,at least you got the experience from it and use it to make the next relationship better.
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yah... tt's wat i'm tryin to do now.....^^
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Hey... I strongly suggest deleting the word "try" frm ur vocabulary... It lacks power...Originally posted by NoTimeToWaitAr:yah... tt's wat i'm tryin to do now.....^^
u shd say "tt's wad im going to do nw..."
Ask u a qn arhx...
U 1 2 TRY n get a gf, or u 1 2 GET a gf?
Try means u don mind not hving 1...
Get means u wan a gf, tt ull put ur heart n mind into it...
Gd luck!
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erm... it sounds too despo liao leh....Originally posted by Oriental & Beautiful:Hey... I strongly suggest deleting the word "try" frm ur vocabulary... It lacks power...
u shd say "tt's wad im going to do nw..."
Ask u a qn arhx...
U 1 2 TRY n get a gf, or u 1 2 GET a gf?
Try means u don mind not hving 1...
Get means u wan a gf, tt ull put ur heart n mind into it...
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HahaHhahahAHhahaHahahhahha!Originally posted by parn:Hahaha...yes you are chim. Thanks GOD that you didn't bring out any of your planets and galaxies theories -> astrology/horoscope. Think I'm missing out that piece of my brain cos I still don't understand them.
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Of all the girls who have hinted to you that they are interested in you, choose one who is most interesting, with the best quality at first glance, and go out just like any normal friend.
You don't have to even put on the mentality of I am 'dating' this girl. Also make it known to the girl, let's start out going out as friends first.
Remember, you still get to hang out with your group and when you've really found out that you really like the girl, BGR attachments will appear very naturally. Let nature take its course. Good luck and hope you get good substance girlfriend! -
lolz... thx...hope so.....Originally posted by niehur:Of all the girls who have hinted to you that they are interested in you, choose one who is most interesting, with the best quality at first glance, and go out just like any normal friend.
You don't have to even put on the mentality of I am 'dating' this girl. Also make it known to the girl, let's start out going out as friends first.
Remember, you still get to hang out with your group and when you've really found out that you really like the girl, BGR attachments will appear very naturally. Let nature take its course. Good luck and hope you get good substance girlfriend! -
jus giv her a chance, after all she hinted u...
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haiz.... difficult sia... l no feeling how to give....haiz... i not like other guys, free 1 den take... no offence sia... c how it goes lo... haiz... how come the 1 i like dun make any move... !!??Originally posted by gothqueen:jus giv her a chance, after all she hinted u... -
Dear NoTimeToWaitAr,
Before I continue, I have 1 request: Can you please shorten your nick? It's so humbug to type
Ok, my personal opinion is that you are NORMAL. Not everybody has to conform to the belief that you HAVE to be involved in some kinda relationship. Do what works for you.
It is true that, in general, relationships entered into that young generally don't end in marriage (DISCLAIMER: There CAN be exceptions, but these are to be taken as the exception rather than the rule).
There are differing views with regards to the stance you've chosen to adopt: some, like you, prefer Not to be involved in too many relationships, but would rather sit by & wait for the "Right One" to come along, & which, hopefully, will end in marriage (but Not always the case, remember that). Some prefer to hop into a few relationships, & get some experience.
There are pros to both: People like yourself tend to get hurt less. People who chose to have more relationships may figure out what they want earlier & learnt to give & take better.
Me? : ) I didn't have any stance nor expectations, but let life take its course (if you ask my parents, this is how I've always been). So I ended up in many relationships, but ultimately, when life took its course, I have figured out what I want, & thankfully, now I have what I want : )
FeowFeowOriginally posted by NoTimeToWaitAr:hi guys, this is my 1st post... i hv a problem, hope u guys will help mi.
i am currently a poly student. But fm pri till now, I haven been in a relationship b4. Most of my frenz hv gf or bf, but whenever i told them i didnt hv 1, they dun believe it. I told them that i prefer freedom rather than being tied by BGR, which is one of the reason. The other reason is that i dun like the feeling of being alone, be it with a gal/guy. Unless the gal/guy and i hv some common interest. Overall i like being in a grp.
Indeed i would like to hv a relationship. But fm wat i know, mostly these kind of relationship will end in ard 1 or 2 yrs time, unless the guy and gal love each other very much. So wouldn't it be a waste of time to contribute so much time in a relationship that will not last forever?
Actually there are some of the gals who hv told mi or hint mi that they are into mi, but i do not hv the courage to start this relationship.
Am i abnormal or am i tinkin too much?
i'm a guy who prefer quality than qualitity.
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Originally posted by parn:
lolz... i juz knew tt there are some ppl out there felt the same way as mi....
Tell us your fears and we will try to leviate for you.
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cheers.....
Anyway thx guys for all the reply. Btw, in terms of any fear, I only scare that when we when out together, we have nth to talk about. ItÂ’s just like IÂ’m the only 1 trying hard to continue the conversation. Remain quiet makes mi feel damn awkward. -
yes, you think too much.
the whole idea of DATING is to find out
being in a relationship is to try to work things out.
you cannot have quality if you dont make the first step.
i think your issue isnt about having a quality relationship but you fear rejection and failure... that is why you dont do anything to start one.