make he come out for a series talk, you guy is too optimistic alreadly and still childish.tell him you not happy in the relationship, see how he react? and from what you say, i don not think he love you as much as you do.why?Originally posted by angel_mei:i reli dun wanna giv up.. n how shud i tell him.. he tinks dat i tink too much..
my stead's kinda like that.Originally posted by angel_mei:he's nv been in a relationship b4.. always luv to be wif frenz.. always jokin n foolin ard.. e playful n active type.. sumtimes he neglects me.. he's nt used to lovey dovey msgs.. huggin in public.. u noe e stuff couples always do. he dunnoes wad to tok abt when he calls.. thus, he hardly calls.. we hav been tog for more than a year.. how to make him tok more to me..? n care more? i trust him.. i luv him alot.. n i noe he luvs me too. but y is he liddat? can i change him? i dun wanna giv up on dis r/s.. wad to do..![]()
dun tink u are no good for her...tink shes no good for u.....dun be the one feeling lousyOriginally posted by o(O.o)o:my stead's kinda like that.
she's a prefect. sucks up all the time i have with her.
haix.and all the prefect outings. so scared she'll cheat on me..
cause i tink im reallie ugly..
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Arrange more activities for you and him...Originally posted by angel_mei:he's nv been in a relationship b4.. always luv to be wif frenz.. always jokin n foolin ard.. e playful n active type.. sumtimes he neglects me.. he's nt used to lovey dovey msgs.. huggin in public.. u noe e stuff couples always do. he dunnoes wad to tok abt when he calls.. thus, he hardly calls.. we hav been tog for more than a year.. how to make him tok more to me..? n care more? i trust him.. i luv him alot.. n i noe he luvs me too. but y is he liddat? can i change him? i dun wanna giv up on dis r/s.. wad to do..![]()
Serious lack of communication.....I think you both need to put in more effort to talk to each other....anything....Chat about anything and everything....There bound to be something to talk about....It shouldn't be too hard....1 Yr plus and still not enough communication....Something is wrong somewhere...Have a good talk with him...Originally posted by angel_mei:he's nv been in a relationship b4.. always luv to be wif frenz.. always jokin n foolin ard.. e playful n active type.. sumtimes he neglects me.. he's nt used to lovey dovey msgs.. huggin in public.. u noe e stuff couples always do. he dunnoes wad to tok abt when he calls.. thus, he hardly calls.. we hav been tog for more than a year.. how to make him tok more to me..? n care more? i trust him.. i luv him alot.. n i noe he luvs me too. but y is he liddat? can i change him? i dun wanna giv up on dis r/s.. wad to do..![]()
Originally posted by angel_mei:he's nv been in a relationship b4.. always luv to be wif frenz.. always jokin n foolin ard.. e playful n active type.. sumtimes he neglects me.. he's nt used to lovey dovey msgs.. huggin in public.. u noe e stuff couples always do. he dunnoes wad to tok abt when he calls.. thus, he hardly calls.. we hav been tog for more than a year.. how to make him tok more to me..? n care more? i trust him.. i luv him alot.. n i noe he luvs me too. but y is he liddat? can i change him? i dun wanna giv up on dis r/s.. wad to do..![]()
Hello there,Originally posted by angel_mei:he's nv been in a relationship b4.. always luv to be wif frenz.. always jokin n foolin ard.. e playful n active type.. sumtimes he neglects me.. he's nt used to lovey dovey msgs.. huggin in public.. u noe e stuff couples always do. he dunnoes wad to tok abt when he calls.. thus, he hardly calls.. we hav been tog for more than a year.. how to make him tok more to me..? n care more? i trust him.. i luv him alot.. n i noe he luvs me too. but y is he liddat? can i change him? i dun wanna giv up on dis r/s.. wad to do..![]()
Well in a way my bf (of 1yr+++) is like that too... it's not he's first relationship... buthe's real shy so he also do not really like to outwardly display affection in public. He does not really know what to say on the phone BUT he still insists on calling... and we to have very bad communication problems... basically it's the way he express himself.... beating around the bush and stuff...Originally posted by angel_mei:he's nv been in a relationship b4.. always luv to be wif frenz.. always jokin n foolin ard.. e playful n active type.. sumtimes he neglects me.. he's nt used to lovey dovey msgs.. huggin in public.. u noe e stuff couples always do. he dunnoes wad to tok abt when he calls.. thus, he hardly calls.. we hav been tog for more than a year.. how to make him tok more to me..? n care more? i trust him.. i luv him alot.. n i noe he luvs me too. but y is he liddat? can i change him? i dun wanna giv up on dis r/s.. wad to do..![]()
I think if love is there u shld try to accept him for who he is and he shld accept u for who u are. Trying to change one another can bring some undesired outcomes.Originally posted by angel_mei:he's nv been in a relationship b4.. always luv to be wif frenz.. always jokin n foolin ard.. e playful n active type.. sumtimes he neglects me.. he's nt used to lovey dovey msgs.. huggin in public.. u noe e stuff couples always do. he dunnoes wad to tok abt when he calls.. thus, he hardly calls.. we hav been tog for more than a year.. how to make him tok more to me..? n care more? i trust him.. i luv him alot.. n i noe he luvs me too. but y is he liddat? can i change him? i dun wanna giv up on dis r/s.. wad to do..![]()
i uds!!! mine too.. he's always bz wkin..its a bad time slot dat he got.. 3-11pm even wkends oso muz wk.. i hate it.. though i noe it isnt his fault.. bt dun worry.. i dun tink she'll cheat on u.. hav faith in urself!Originally posted by o(O.o)o:my stead's kinda like that.
she's a prefect. sucks up all the time i have with her.
haix.and all the prefect outings. so scared she'll cheat on me..
cause i tink im reallie ugly..
how?![]()
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Why don't you try smsing him instead when you're feeling down and such for a change....?Originally posted by angel_mei:i tot if i luv him alot, i can bear wif all dis.. but dere's been problems..
by demandin him to be more sensitive, caring, m i tryin to change him..? e reason i dun wanna leave him isnt cos he's loyal to me.. or dat i m used to him.. i noe dat i luv him. recently, we had a quarrel while tryin to tok abt our probs.. we cudnt solve it.. i told him he nv knows when im upset or unhappi, cos he hardly calls or msgs me to ask me hows my day..thus when im sad, im all alone or seeks frenz.. when im happy, he isnt dere to share wif me either. in e end he told me dat no matter it is happiness or unhappiness in our r/s, nv leave him.. he oso says he'll try his best.. n naturally, bein a gal, my hart softened n gave way..