My gf cheated on me...
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Get a new one, there are many nice and better one.
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If this cheating happen once, it will happen again. Why wasting time to someone who is dishonest? What I suggest is you leave your comfort zone, explore new things, like hiking, travel out of the country, etc. Meeting new people might change your life.
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if you r 20+ still ok .... can find a new gf easily ..... it will be a different story if you r oredi 40
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I'm sure that there are better gals out there lohz...
So what if u forgive her, can u confirm that there wun be a next time...
move on pal... -
there will be better gals for him .... but not meOriginally posted by rachel85:I'm sure that there are better gals out there lohz...
So what if u forgive her, can u confirm that there wun be a next time...
move on pal...
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u r rite ... it will happen again n again until one day kena burn .....Originally posted by dreamykite:If this cheating happen once, it will happen again. Why wasting time to someone who is dishonest? What I suggest is you leave your comfort zone, explore new things, like hiking, travel out of the country, etc. Meeting new people might change your life. -
move on, dont bother about a girl like that...
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My hk gf cheated on me... with one of my frens wen I was 17. I guess its my fault for not being able to spend as much time as I like due to overprotective parents (not much freedom).
And when I attended uni, she n her new bf had the nerve to come to my house to visit my fren (one of my fren moved in to my house).
Haih... its hard...especially when your 100% committed in the rs.
But I know u are able to get thru it. I guess I was mentally strong to take it in one stride..she just txt me saying she never want to see me again...right in the beginning of the exam period.
Anyway, in uni, I had a jap gf..i put 100% my all.. my philosophy was "love like u never been hurt"... stayed faithful despite many temptations... I was kinda like a social butterfly but I toned down...cos my gf at that time gets jealous easily even when a girl just smiled to me.
But then on last sunday...we broke up for good. 3 years of rs.. Just now i was driving back home..I kept thinking what could have gone wrong..and absent mindedly I hit my car on a concrete block at a roundabout
I guess its best to seek first to understand. Because I gave my all in a relationship, but it failed in the end. Somewhere along the way, something went terribly wrong and a relationship just failed like that when initially it was sweet as candy.
anyway, u just need time but dont forget 3 things.
Love like u never been hurt dont revenge/take out ur feelings on the next gf u have seek first to understand, change must come from within -
Well, havent been responding to threads here for quite some time, but happen to be interested in this topic hence decided to give my two cents worth.
firstly, i have to say that i am relatively lucky coz i havent experienced any two-timing happening on me, yet. but, i have almost, on the brim of two-timing my gf, when she pulled me back, and lead me back the right path.
i wouldnt go into details on how it happened, but i am happy and lucky tat she pulled me back at the right time, because i came to realised that she's the one i love, and would certainly wish to spend the remaining of my life with.
therefore, two-timing should not only be the fault of one party, when both parties love each other. imagine this, if you are so in love with someone, and he/she reciprocates with the same affection, then, i don't think that he/she wold be able to fallin love with another person, consecutively.
on the other hand, if he/she is able to love another person so quickly and easily, then, it must be that you're not important in her heart. and if tats the case, then i see no point to retaining this relationship.
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To argghh...
Time to move on and grow up. Girls that open leg for other guys are sluts. -
arggg bro how r u doing now .... why you nv reply just wanna know how u are doing ?? hope everything is fine with you...
for me i still cant forget her , when ever i am alone i will think of her ..... lucky for me i change ALL my contact no. , and she doesnt own a fone , so no way to contact her , even when sometime i really wanna talk to her , wanna ask her how she is and whether everything is fine ..... but good thing i dont have her contact ... !!! and i wont go into another r/s with her again / -
I understand how u feel .... it is not easy to forget her especially u love her very much .... and she keep appearing in my mind .....Originally posted by gUms:arggg bro how r u doing now .... why you nv reply just wanna know how u are doing ?? hope everything is fine with you...
for me i still cant forget her , when ever i am alone i will think of her ..... lucky for me i change ALL my contact no. , and she doesnt own a fone , so no way to contact her , even when sometime i really wanna talk to her , wanna ask her how she is and whether everything is fine ..... but good thing i dont have her contact ... !!! and i wont go into another r/s with her again / -
I dont know why so hard to forget her .... maybe i put in to0 much effort ... really really put in alot effort for this gf , yala i know la it was stupid , but how i know !!! just wish , one day i go home , she would be waiting down my blk to talk things out .... funny har i , she is de one who played me out but i still thinking of her and wan her back .... but i guess i will be lucky if she dont appear anymore , dont see her or hear anything about her till de day i die would be a blessing cos she hurt me too much ... lucky i change all my no. on de day of breakup and i dont know her house no. cos she doesnt have a house phone nor a hand phone , cos i know when i will be high on beer or wat , i will comfirm try to call her and work things out even when im not suppose to do it cos she farked me inside out left and right and landed a big sh|t on my head !!! ....
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we r in the same boat ......Originally posted by gUms:I dont know why so hard to forget her .... maybe i put in to0 much effort ... really really put in alot effort for this gf , yala i know la it was stupid , but how i know !!! just wish , one day i go home , she would be waiting down my blk to talk things out .... funny har i , she is de one who played me out but i still thinking of her and wan her back .... but i guess i will be lucky if she dont appear anymore , dont see her or hear anything about her till de day i die would be a blessing cos she hurt me too much ... lucky i change all my no. on de day of breakup and i dont know her house no. cos she doesnt have a house phone nor a hand phone , cos i know when i will be high on beer or wat , i will comfirm try to call her and work things out even when im not suppose to do it cos she farked me inside out left and right and landed a big sh|t on my head !!! .... -
You want forget her? Very simple... Go to wet market and stare at those aunties... very soon you'd find that it's no big deal to lose a girl... cos later on she'd become a big belly aunty as well.Originally posted by gUms:I dont know why so hard to forget her .... maybe i put in to0 much effort ... really really put in alot effort for this gf , yala i know la it was stupid , but how i know !!! just wish , one day i go home , she would be waiting down my blk to talk things out .... funny har i , she is de one who played me out but i still thinking of her and wan her back .... but i guess i will be lucky if she dont appear anymore , dont see her or hear anything about her till de day i die would be a blessing cos she hurt me too much ... lucky i change all my no. on de day of breakup and i dont know her house no. cos she doesnt have a house phone nor a hand phone , cos i know when i will be high on beer or wat , i will comfirm try to call her and work things out even when im not suppose to do it cos she farked me inside out left and right and landed a big sh|t on my head !!! ....
So many girls around... Why waste the forest for a small tree?
You are just too unfair by not giving other prettier and more honest girls out there a chance.
No need to forget her lah... she is good lesson to remember. Helps you find a better girl than the next loser who got her... -
Friend, get on in life, there are many things you have yet gone through, and love is only part of your life.
I believe that you will be able to find someone better in future. Show her that you are strong, make your mark in life, proven to her that she has make a wrong choose. -
hMpPp very well said arrr... are u guys love Doctors ? lol
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Damn damn damn
damn that bitch to hell. she played you and you fell for it. don't believe that bullshit that it must have been your fault partially also. maybe you didn't love her enough or didn't give her more of your time. she is the guilty party and still expects to get away with it. fudging no. hell NO. its this kind of bullshit that condones this kind of action.
oh she made a mistake. forgive her. crap dude. total COW DUNG. not when you invested so much of your time and effort and emotions. who the girl think she is if she can get away with this shit. she might do it again and assume you will forgive her. chicks like that only deserve one thing. NOTHING.
you know what you need to do. get on with your life. live it to the fullest and one day show that bitch what a good thing she messed up.
fudge her. she is nothing but dirt. not worthy even to lick your feet. find someone more deserving. damn bitch. -
My ex contact with me recently. She told me tat she is happy with life and be it whether I can or cant take it, I was betrayed and being dumped and I cant do anything but to take it. I did not contact her for past week. I will never forget such past but I have a future to look for.
She is right but she will nvr know how much I suffered cos she is enjoying herself.She will nvr care how much I hav to endure. To all the people being betrayed, really hav to move on with your life. Time will nvr wait for you. -
me not love doctor ... juz another victim ...Originally posted by gUms:hMpPp very well said arrr... are u guys love Doctors ? lol
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very nicely said great_One .... this guy really made me wake up ....
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Takes a alarm clock and wakes gUms up
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maybe you all can exchange ...Originally posted by maxcp:oh .... still young ... still lotsa chance to meet gals ..... me too old for that liao .... sigh -
Guys are never too old to have girls. U go Karaoke GRO old ass people stil get young hot chicks. Principles the same. U can still get chicks.Originally posted by reverant_:maybe you all can exchange ... -
exchange ???Originally posted by reverant_:maybe you all can exchange ...