stagnant life is good. right?
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everyday work. come home go out for tuition. weekends tuition and church. breathing each and every day out. this is wad is going to be like for the rest of my working life right? nothing much to hope for. nothing much to look forward to, or to avoid from...
this is good right?
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i think u r missing something called life...
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which is......Originally posted by RaTtY81:i think u r missing something called life...
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the excitement of life is missing...cos everything has become a routine...
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i aso dunno... im missing it asoOriginally posted by starblue:which is...... 
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Originally posted by RaTtY81:i aso dunno... im missing it aso i used to hate routine. but now, i think it's gotten into me... dun feel like changing anything. or hoping anything will change. cos in the end, you'll still have to come back to working everyday to feed yourself and family.. dunno leh... i think i just need to convince myself that this is ok.. at least i'll get by another week.
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ya, when you are used to a routine it doesnt feel right to change it.
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There's no fix definition of what life is unless one seeks the glamourous lifestyle of rich and famous. Simplicity can be good sometimes. Why make yr life so "busy" which u have to entertain all yr fake friends who only enjoy yr company becos u r so "happening". A ordinary life with a few extraordinary events once in a while is what makes life so special. If everyday is special, where's the fun in it?
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Doing the same things everyday not good, will get depression
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nah... no depression for me. i am way past that... it's more like i'm on a.... plateu of contentment. maybe... well, at least that's what i want to feel.. lolz... content sounds better than stagnated any time...
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This is not, bad.Originally posted by starblue:everyday work. come home go out for tuition. weekends tuition and church. breathing each and every day out. this is wad is going to be like for the rest of my working life right? nothing much to hope for. nothing much to look forward to, or to avoid from...
this is good right?
or is there something missing?
Nothing is missing also.
Maybe there is really a need to re-shuffle your thoughts and life.
Don't worry, you'll feel untouchable for awhile
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Life is routine.. no doubts but we can add in surprises such as travelling or maybe do something different for a while... take bus instead of mrt (*for example.. i understand this case is quite lame*)
Cheerz~ for me.. i also now working part time... work liao.. then go anf teach tuition... then back home sleep.. but recently.. feel that i mising something too then finally make up my mind to join some badminton grp outside one to play for fun and relaxing and slimming my tummy as well haha... -
you never mentioned the part with your bf. Your description sound like routine to me.Originally posted by starblue:everyday work. come home go out for tuition. weekends tuition and church. breathing each and every day out. this is wad is going to be like for the rest of my working life right? nothing much to hope for. nothing much to look forward to, or to avoid from...
this is good right?
or is there something missing?
This is the where your loved one come in. your routine also describe as if you are very busy so give some time for yourself..
Find out what you want to acheive in life, otherwise life will be only be black and white.
Happily married? Reputable Career?
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if life is a bed of roses, it'd be boring.
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Yeah, all you need is to consider how your other half fits into all of this. Then life can be considered complete
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x2Originally posted by DriftingGuy:Yeah, all you need is to consider how your other half fits into all of this. Then life can be considered complete 
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Some people do not have the fortune/misfortune of sharing their lives with the "other half", and yet they could still lead very fulfilling lives by themselves.
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You're never lonely with ur handsOriginally posted by Tuatau:Some people do not have the fortune/misfortune of sharing their lives with the "other half", and yet they could still lead very fulfilling lives by themselves. -
but is it beacuse they have other ppl to share with? parents, siblings or friends?Originally posted by Tuatau:Some people do not have the fortune/misfortune of sharing their lives with the "other half", and yet they could still lead very fulfilling lives by themselves.
what if one day, they not around for you? That is why they say, the other half is very important, and I will never blame my friends if they choose to spend more of their time with the other half instead of their friends. -
What makes you think your other half will always be around for you? Life is unpredictable.Originally posted by heavenlyfire:but is it beacuse they have other ppl to share with? parents, siblings or friends?
what if one day, they not around for you? That is why they say, the other half is very important, and I will never blame my friends if they choose to spend more of their time with the other half instead of their friends. -
i know life is unpredictable, but my point here is, your parents will leave first, you friends and siblings will have their own families eventually, so left with who?Originally posted by choco B:What makes you think your other half will always be around for you? Life is unpredictable.
YOUR OTHER HALF, although there are cases where the other half stray,(another case) but you don have much of a choice, afterall they will be the ones that you spent the rest of your life with.
another point is that the statitics of sigle guys and single gals is rising, so if you want to have someone to take care and love for you, you don not want to be lonely, dont join them. Find your other half as in the story of Adam and EVE. -
for u... i will...Originally posted by choco B:What makes you think your other half will always be around for you? Life is unpredictable.
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Some xinyao song goes like this:
wo chong lai jiu bu zai hu
zi ji bu shi yi ke da ren wu
ying wei ping fan ye shi yi zong xin fu
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well.. life is indeed unpredictable.. and it feels like a routine once you sit down and think of what you have accomplished in life. i guess im still too young to understand.. but hey.. im gonna grow old too.. and i dont wanna regret living my life my way
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My personal experience is that my family (young and old, immediate and extended) never lets me down. I'll be waiting to see if my other half meets the ideals you expound.
As for choice, I think there's always one. Whether you stay or leave, it's a choice.
I think... in life it's best to surround yourself with people who love you and support you, and to love and support them right back. These people are not limited to your other half only.Originally posted by heavenlyfire:i know life is unpredictable, but my point here is, your parents will leave first, you friends and siblings will have their own families eventually, so left with who?
YOUR OTHER HALF, although there are cases where the other half stray,(another case) but you don have much of a choice, afterall they will be the ones that you spent the rest of your life with.
another point is that the statitics of sigle guys and single gals is rising, so if you want to have someone to take care and love for you, you don not want to be lonely, dont join them. Find your other half as in the story of Adam and EVE.