Every girl I'm interested are attached...
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Getting moodier & moodier...
Every girl that I would like to go for... tends to be attached.
I'm not sure how I should proceed... very discouraging. -
Originally posted by kuckuc:
Whomever you could be attracted to, others could be attracted to as well.
Every girl that I would like to go for... tends to be attached.
I'm not sure how I should proceed... very discouraging.
Besides, girls tend to glow, smile more and dress better when they are in love, so maybe you wouldn't have even given them a second glance if they were not attached in the first place.
Perhaps your standards are too high? -
china
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vietnam also can
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No le... I'm a normal person with normal standard.
It's just that... I'm so bad luck all the way... -
Look at it from a certain viewpoint lar...
some people (like me) when interested to a girl, the girl don't want to be in a relationship yet...
leaves you hanging like a salted fish... -
wait for the right one to come along your way.
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When you happened to gone through the.. FEAR FACTOR then you wont feel moody liao. Trust me..Originally posted by kuckuc:Getting moodier & moodier...
Every girl that I would like to go for... tends to be attached.
I'm not sure how I should proceed... very discouraging.
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pls desvribe your fear. actually I'm also like the threadstarter. I like this girl, my picture perfect girl but attached. She stays near me and we r in the same class. but too bad fate like to play me. Not say standard high but cannot anyhow accept any girl also wat.Originally posted by Wolfwoof^^:When you happened to gone through the.. FEAR FACTOR then you wont feel moody liao. Trust me.. -
Yeah... what fear factor you mean?
Now I dont know whether want to continue tackle..
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Somehow I find that people tend to like to do things that will make them miserable. The girl is happily attached, keep on chasing her for what? You want to be called the third party? Might as well take the time and go for another girl who is still single...
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If you like the girl, tendency is that she will be liked by other guys as well.
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Last time, people used to say ,as long as she is not married, go for it!Originally posted by rainee:Somehow I find that people tend to like to do things that will make them miserable. The girl is happily attached, keep on chasing her for what? You want to be called the third party? Might as well take the time and go for another girl who is still single...
Now for me, i say, as long as she is not dead, go for it!
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But won't it be like getting into a love triangle that will make all parties miserable?Originally posted by laurence82:Last time, people used to say ,as long as she is not married, go for it!
Now for me, i say, as long as she is not dead, go for it! -
Depends on situation. its not applicable in all cases.Originally posted by rainee:But won't it be like getting into a love triangle that will make all parties miserable?
U wouldnt want to chase after the triadster's zarbor, wouldnt u?
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who knows?Originally posted by laurence82:Depends on situation. its not applicable in all cases.
U wouldnt want to chase after the triadster's zarbor, wouldnt u?
But of course my principle is to not try to disrupt a happy r/s, so if someone is already feeling happy in his/her current r/s, just let them be and be happy for them bah...if they are not happy, then maybe different story lor... -
Hmm, tell u a storyOriginally posted by rainee:who knows?
But of course my principle is to not try to disrupt a happy r/s, so if someone is already feeling happy in his/her current r/s, just let them be and be happy for them bah...if they are not happy, then maybe different story lor...
Few months ago, my fren met this gal at a club.
She had a bf, but the bf was a bloody idiot...was totally uncaring, and only started doing sumthing when she wants to break up, then after patch up, go back to his old way
So enter my fren, who wooed her, well, secretly...
She finally dumped that jerk and went out with my fren, who is a pretty nice guy
Think now they are having a pretty good relationship -
Yea, that's what I mean, if the girl is not in a good and healthy relationship, then she would be better off with another guy. That why I said, if she is happily attached, shouldn't try to break up the r/s...Originally posted by laurence82:Hmm, tell u a story
Few months ago, my fren met this gal at a club.
She had a bf, but the bf was a bloody idiot...was totally uncaring, and only started doing sumthing when she wants to break up, then after patch up, go back to his old way
So enter my fren, who wooed her, well, secretly...
She finally dumped that jerk and went out with my fren, who is a pretty nice guy
Think now they are having a pretty good relationship -
cannot also
relationship is a very dynamic thing..
who knows, she might be happier with a new bf, and love is all fair and square, -
Oh well, I guess that guy can continue to go after her, though if she is really happy in her current r/s, she probably wouldn't dream of being unfaithful to her bf...Originally posted by laurence82:cannot also
relationship is a very dynamic thing..
who knows, she might be happier with a new bf, and love is all fair and square, -
exactly
if she doesnt like the 'third party' and he continue trolling her, well....
if she likes the third party, the current bf cannot do much except to try win her heart back... -
do not let your feelings control you before you find out whether is she attached or not
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U cant get everything u want in life. No matter how much u work at it, things sometimes dun come out the way u wish it would. Accept it as a way of life.
As the saying goes,"Lan lan suck thumb." -
Well, I think she knows I'm trying to woo her...
She should have some hint to reject me if she doens't like it.
But to what I feel, she's like responding, come come...
Or I might got the wrong hint, wrong channel.
Me: Are you free to go out?
Her: Prolly can, prolly not... have not plan my time yet. -
Most gals are like that... ambigious & indecesive
Tell her " Do or do not, there is not TRY!!" from Yoda
So its yes or no, there's no probably...