den be strong. it was never a choice, its a must!Originally posted by Nu^Ren:Sad to say, my closer female friend is still suffering heartbreak from her recent breakup.. I dun want to add more trouble for her...
Pretending to stronger is tiring.. I reckon this relationship is not going to last long if i will be having such thoughts always...
Tell me what should i do to overcome all this ?![]()
Originally posted by Nu^Ren:How should i feel if my bf wasn't by my side at the time when i am most vulnerable? I admit i have grew to be very dependant on him. Really not used in being alone without him with me.
I understand he is on mission; work commitment. But still, i can't helped but feeling disappointed, mixed feeling..
I dun wish to bring this up to him, not wanting him to have additional burden. I want him to feel that I am independant enough to take care of myself. But deep down, I am not really that strong-minded person.
Got difference meh?Originally posted by Yunhaier:Are you a Cancer, Scorpio or Pisces?
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Not strong and independent enough in what sense?Originally posted by Nu^Ren:How should i feel if my bf wasn't by my side at the time when i am most vulnerable? I admit i have grew to be very dependant on him. Really not used in being alone without him with me.
I understand he is on mission; work commitment. But still, i can't helped but feeling disappointed, mixed feeling..
I dun wish to bring this up to him, not wanting him to have additional burden. I want him to feel that I am independant enough to take care of myself. But deep down, I am not really that strong-minded person.
A relationship is never enough if you never attempt to thrash it out. I dont think its been branded as "independant" this way. After all, in a relationship, both parties must be feeling equally comfortable with each other and their companionship.Originally posted by Nu^Ren:How should i feel if my bf wasn't by my side at the time when i am most vulnerable? I admit i have grew to be very dependant on him. Really not used in being alone without him with me.
I understand he is on mission; work commitment. But still, i can't helped but feeling disappointed, mixed feeling..
I dun wish to bring this up to him, not wanting him to have additional burden. I want him to feel that I am independant enough to take care of myself. But deep down, I am not really that strong-minded person.
true sometimes girls are demanding these days..Originally posted by drx:Girls like her, really make us guys worry so much.
We provide a steady relationship for them and they end up thinking otherwise.
"Pretending to stronger is tiring.. I reckon this relationship is not going to last long if i will be having such thoughts always... "
Day in day out we fought hard to keep our rice bowl.
We tried to do our best for the relationship and hope that girls will understand, instead of thanks what we get is this?
Come on lar. No wonder they say singapore girls so hard to please.
Do good also complain. Do bad also complain.
What do you want us to do?
Everyday pei girls until no need to work ?
Ignore all friends and go out with gf only?
After reading yr words I really felt very sad for yr bf.
Yah.. i guess ultimately it all boils down to INSECURITY..Originally posted by SoonKeong:A relationship is never enough if you never attempt to thrash it out. I dont think its been branded as "independant" this way. After all, in a relationship, both parties must be feeling equally comfortable with each other and their companionship.
Whats the point of a boyfriend if he is not by your side MOST of the time when you need him? He might not know how you feel, do bare with singaporeans guys whom majority belongs to the "buay zhi dong" race (yea i'm the buay zhi dong guy once be4)
Everyone thinks different, so when comes to relationship, you have your pt, ur guy has his. He wouldnt possibly know how you feel if you dun express out ur feeling to him. Have a nice chat with him either on the phone or meet out have dinner and sort out your insecurity with him.
Please dont think every problem can be solve by being mum, it never work that way
Erm... Neither. I belong to VIRGO. Cheers!Originally posted by Yunhaier:Are you a Cancer, Scorpio or Pisces?
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SAME GOES TO UR MUMOriginally posted by MRMUSICPRODUCER:i forsee this gal, befriending another guy who she thinks can substitute her bf when he is not ard. gals r jus b i t c h e s
Try to keep yourself more occupied... You have a high tendency to think too much... Of things which ain't necessary...Originally posted by Nu^Ren:How should i feel if my bf wasn't by my side at the time when i am most vulnerable? I admit i have grew to be very dependant on him. Really not used in being alone without him with me.
I understand he is on mission; work commitment. But still, i can't helped but feeling disappointed, mixed feeling..
I dun wish to bring this up to him, not wanting him to have additional burden. I want him to feel that I am independant enough to take care of myself. But deep down, I am not really that strong-minded person.
I don see why you are troubling your friend. Isnt this the time when your friend come in? morover, you can help her to get over her breakup faster if you spent more time with her. women feel better by talking over a problem.Originally posted by Nu^Ren:Sad to say, my closer female friend is still suffering heartbreak from her recent breakup.. I dun want to add more trouble for her...
Pretending to stronger is tiring.. I reckon this relationship is not going to last long if i will be having such thoughts always...
Tell me what should i do to overcome all this ?![]()
KNNBCCB if u dont understand, KAN NI NA BU CHAO CHEE BY!!! u can say things abt me logically but if u involve family, tats wat u r goin 2 getOriginally posted by makiko:SAME GOES TO UR MUM
Originally posted by MRMUSICPRODUCER:KNNBCCB if u dont understand, KAN NI NA BU CHAO CHEE BY!!! u can say things abt me logically but if u involve family, tats wat u r goin 2 get
Gentlemen.. Control yourselves...Originally posted by makiko:SAME GOES TO UR MUM
Originally posted by Nu^Ren:
[b]Erm... Neither. I belong to VIRGO. Cheers![/b]