After Some Time...
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Originally posted by shinta:
Many happy couples often get teased in company of mutual friends -- it is a common subtle method of expressing approval and, at certain times, of giving blessings as well to the relationship. And if handled tastefully and sensitively, it could also serve as an excellent fodder for casual conversations.
haha there were a lot of threads with us 2 for title wor
tired
You'd just have to get used to it.
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Originally posted by FeowFeow:
Haha... well, from Yunhaier's most recent poll, it'd seem there are more than handful of nuts (no offence intended to the respondents -- just using the same context) holding the belief that they're not suited to the appetites of any little furry rodents whatsoever.
Maybe squirrels are Not suited to them? Maybe they're more suited to the appetites of little mice & hamsters?
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Originally posted by Mao x 2:
You'd have to transform yourselves into clones of her boyfriend to make it work.
Let's make clones of her and bring home.
One man's meat is another man's poison. And not to forget, she's had her share of wannabes before she finally hit the...
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i dun mind this kinda teasing.Originally posted by Tuatau:Many happy couples often get teased in company of mutual friends -- it is a common subtle method of expressing approval and, at certain times, of giving blessings as well to the relationship. And if handled tastefully and sensitively, it could also serve as an excellent fodder for casual conversations.
You'd just have to get used to it.
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Love is unconditional. Once you start expecting.. it'll only bring pain.
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Originally posted by Nelstar:
If one is not expecting anything from it, why would one be motivated to fall into it in the first place?
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What Nelstar meant by expect - could be hinting to the 'dark side' of things.Originally posted by Tuatau:If one is not expecting anything from it, why would one be motivated to fall into it in the first place?
You mean the expectating - by dating into intimate r/s?
I believe one could be motivated to fall in love in the first place for absolutely no reason.
Humans are emotional beings and usually unable to control themselves when it comes to love.
Something i've learnt. Will discuss this again.
- In everthing single person, everything we do are of positive intent. -
quick open thread to discuss..Originally posted by M©+square:What Nelstar meant by expect - could be hinting to the 'dark side' of things.
You mean the expectating - by dating into intimate r/s?
I believe one could be motivated to fall in love in the first place for absolutely no reason.
Humans are emotional beings and usually unable to control themselves when it comes to love.
Something i've learnt. Will discuss this again.
- In everthing single person, everything we do are of positive intent. -
Originally posted by M©+square:
Good, good.
I believe one could be motivated to fall in love in the first place for absolutely no reason.
Humans are emotional beings and usually unable to control themselves when it comes to love.
Something i've learnt. Will discuss this again.
- In everthing single person, everything we do are of positive intent.
Any intent, be it positive or negative, still leads to a form of expectation, no? If you do something with an intent, wouldn't you expect to see a certain kind of result?
It is human to crave for love. A baby, without knowing the concept of love, gurgles happily at the caress of a loving hand. A baby, yet without the capacity to give love, stops crying when held tenderly in the arms of a loving parent.
And for most non-ascetic people, that craving for love, that desire to be loved, has not ended even in adulthood. That craving, that desire is a form of expectation. And these people learn to give love and sometimes even life itself, in the hope that their expectations could be fulfilled.
Why do many people suffer the bitter taste of disappointment when they give their love, yet do not see the result they expect? That's right. They were expecting certain kind of result, and were seeking to achieve it. So when things don't go as what they had expected, what gives?
It is possible though, especially among the spiritually enlightened, to give love without expecting anything from the recipient, but that does not necessarily mean they have no expectations any more. Rather, the expectation, instead of coming from without, now comes from within. Contentment, happiness or serenity is now the result expected from giving love and because it is always self-fulfilling, it appears from the outside that these people no longer carry any expectation and hence no disappointment.
An action comes from a intent or purpose. A purpose seeks a consequence. The consequence leads to an expectation. There is no motivation for action without expectation (though one doesn't think this "expectation" is what Nelstar meant when he mentioned no "expectation" from a relationship). -
Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww babies! *melts big time*
I luuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuurve the smell of babies, & especially the sounds they make.
Don't ask me to have my own, though, I erm, am Not thinking of that right now
FeowFeowOriginally posted by Tuatau:Good, good.
Any intent, be it positive or negative, still leads to a form of expectation, no? If you do something with an intent, wouldn't you expect to see a certain kind of result?
It is human to crave for love. A baby, without knowing the concept of love, gurgles happily at the caress of a loving hand. A baby, yet without the capacity to give love, stops crying when held tenderly in the arms of a loving parent.
And for most non-ascetic people, that craving for love, that desire to be loved, has not ended even in adulthood. That craving, that desire is a form of expectation. And these people learn to give love and sometimes even life itself, in the hope that their expectations could be fulfilled.
Why do many people suffer the bitter taste of disappointment when they give their love, yet do not see the result they expect? That's right. They were expecting certain kind of result, and were seeking to achieve it. So when things don't go as what they had expected, what gives?
It is possible though, especially among the spiritually enlightened, to give love without expecting anything from the recipient, but that does not necessarily mean they have no expectations any more. Rather, the expectation, instead of coming from without, now comes from within. Contentment, happiness or serenity is now the result expected from giving love and because it is always self-fulfilling, it appears from the outside that these people no longer carry any expectation and hence no disappointment.
An action comes from a intent or purpose. A purpose seeks a consequence. The consequence leads to an expectation. There is no motivation for action without expectation (though one doesn't think this "expectation" is what Nelstar meant when he mentioned no "expectation" from a relationship). -
babies are nice.. but the moment they start learnin how to talk, tat's a different thing altogether..Originally posted by FeowFeow:Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww babies! *melts big time*
I luuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuurve the smell of babies, & especially the sounds they make.
Don't ask me to have my own, though, I erm, am Not thinking of that right now
FeowFeow
ah.. i'm thinkin about the baby from meet the fockers.. imagine teh first word my baby says is.. S old
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Cute what, when babies 1st start talking, dunno what they're saying also
My fave niece says "JooJoo" for water, sooooooooooooo adorable!
But I don't like tantrums
FeowFeowOriginally posted by shinta:babies are nice.. but the moment they start learnin how to talk, tat's a different thing altogether..
ah.. i'm thinkin about the baby from meet the fockers.. imagine teh first word my baby says is.. S old -
Originally posted by FeowFeow:
You know, you could still engage in the process of making babies even if you were not thinking of making babies...
I luuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuurve the smell of babies, & especially the sounds they make.
Don't ask me to have my own, though, I erm, am Not thinking of that right now
Ho ho, you love the sounds babies make? Wait till you have your own baby. For at least the first two years, you're gonna absolutely positively luuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuurve the sounds he or she makes, especially when you're sleeping at night. -
hmm if the bb is to resemble me, my mother said i'm like a machine gun... talk non stop to no one in particular...Originally posted by FeowFeow:Cute what, when babies 1st start talking, dunno what they're saying also
My fave niece says "JooJoo" for water, sooooooooooooo adorable!
But I don't like tantrums
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Because love can still give even when you don't expect it to....Originally posted by Tuatau:If one is not expecting anything from it, why would one be motivated to fall into it in the first place? -
Eh, I should have added disclaimer: I like cute giggling sounds & laughing sounds only
I absolutely dunno what to do with screaming babies
I shall pretend I didn't see your 1st sentence
FeowFeowOriginally posted by Tuatau:You know, you could still engage in the process of making babies even if you were not thinking of making babies...
Ho ho, you love the sounds babies make? Wait till you have your own baby. For at least the first two years, you're gonna absolutely positively luuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuurve the sounds he or she makes, especially when you're sleeping at night. -
I'm sure Nelstar enjoys it anyway
FeowFeowOriginally posted by shinta:hmm if the bb is to resemble me, my mother said i'm like a machine gun... talk non stop to no one in particular... -
Originally posted by FeowFeow:I'm sure Nelstar enjoys it anyway
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If you think about it, like that then balance
1 side: Shinta jeejee jaja
1 side: Daughter jeejee jaja
FeowFeowOriginally posted by shinta: -
tt's way back when i'm still a little girlOriginally posted by FeowFeow:If you think about it, like that then balance
1 side: Shinta jeejee jaja
1 side: Daughter jeejee jaja
FeowFeow
now, i've toned down quite a bit... quiet girl -
Die, total opposite of me
Last time very very very quiet.
Now hor,
To bring out the noise, just make me angry
FeowFeowOriginally posted by shinta:tt's way back when i'm still a little girl
now, i've toned down quite a bit... quiet girl -
that's like ah nelOriginally posted by FeowFeow:Die, total opposite of me
Last time very very very quiet.
Now hor,
To bring out the noise, just make me angry
FeowFeow