LOVE OR LUST
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How many of us really understand the difference between love and lust.
When two persons in love..sex is necessary??
Need yr view on the above. -
Now this topic is quite open to misinterpretation.
How do you relate Love and Lust and having sex in a relationship together?
Anyway, Sex is not necessary, it all depends on the values the couple have.
Having sex may not mean lust. Love could motivate the act instead of lust.
Not having sex also doesn't mean there's love. It only tells that two party is not interested or their values restricted them in the area of physical intimacy.
If you know what love is, then you'll see the difference when lust reveals.
Sex is not necessary, however expression of Love could be thru sexual acts too.
Cheers -
Love is wide enough to encompass sex & lust, but Not the other way around.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by meblurblur:How many of us really understand the difference between love and lust.
When two persons in love..sex is necessary??
Need yr view on the above. -
there is another saying in a book i read,
there is no love at first sight for guys, usually lust at first sight.
think about this, how true it is? for me, it is as close as 90% true. -
yes, sex does not mean lust. do you know there is a difference between , F$%k, having sex and making love? these refer to 3 different category of ppl you have intercourse with.Originally posted by M©+square:Now this topic is quite open to misinterpretation.
How do you relate Love and Lust and having sex in a relationship together?
Anyway, Sex is not necessary, it all depends on the values the couple have.
Having sex may not mean lust. Love could motivate the act instead of lust.
Not having sex also doesn't mean there's love. It only tells that two party is not interested or their values restricted them in the area of physical intimacy.
If you know what love is, then you'll see the difference when lust reveals.
Sex is not necessary, however expression of Love could be thru sexual acts too.
Cheers
1)with a prositute or B*tch(lust)
2)gf or wife to be(lust + love)
3)the one that you love, usually your wife(love) -
NICE...Originally posted by M©+square:Now this topic is quite open to misinterpretation.
How do you relate Love and Lust and having sex in a relationship together?
Anyway, Sex is not necessary, it all depends on the values the couple have.
Having sex may not mean lust. Love could motivate the act instead of lust.
Not having sex also doesn't mean there's love. It only tells that two party is not interested or their values restricted them in the area of physical intimacy.
If you know what love is, then you'll see the difference when lust reveals.
Sex is not necessary, however expression of Love could be thru sexual acts too.
Cheers
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Lust can't be anything good. It only means that you want to satisfy yourself, and not give a damn about the other party.
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Care to share more?Originally posted by heavenlyfire:yes, sex does not mean lust. do you know there is a difference between , F$%k, having sex and making love? these refer to 3 different category of ppl you have intercourse with.
1)with a prositute or B*tch(lust)
2)gf or wife to be(lust + love)
3)the one that you love, usually your wife(love)
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From the word LUST you can find the word SLUT.
When you talk about SLUT, you immediately think about sex..
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this idea is from a joke i heard from my storeman, Miicheal, i give credits to him, at the same time wondering how he is doing.Originally posted by M©+square:Care to share more?
Thers is this wife who catch her husband cheating on him, together on bed, totally caught red handed.
Wife: I going to file a divorce, you Bustard!!for cheating on me!!
Husband: (calmly) come on...honey. why you so furious for? I did not cheat on you nor did i betray you.
Wife: how can you have sex in our house? in our own bed?with another women?
Husband: No no no! your are mistaken dear, i did not have sex with her, I Fu&k her! it was a totally different thing. don you see? I fu@k her but i make "love" with you. Fu$king has no feelings, i did not put my feeling into it,maybe only some frustration hence i did not betray you. She is nothing compare to you, my dear, I love you and i only make love to you. come on...
ok! i'm sorry. for having sex in our bed, should have brought her to hotel
Wife:speechless, do not know what to say....
Morale of joke:It has been proven that when you have sex with some1 whom you loved, the relationship will improve. there are many explainations and fact. just to cut the long story short. the greastest love making is not to bring pleasure upon oneself but to the opposite party and there is the union of this yin and yang. thus the name "love making"
i leave the details out as anything more would fall into Bar. -
Love n lust.. normally Lust will be the attitude for the younger generation. Slowly u will learn what is love.. =P When one is older, then tend to understand what is love..
i think loving someone does not mean u have to have sex =) -
I disagree lust is limited by age. Just take a look at those 50++ ah lao that are stuck with PRC women. I am sure those are lust too.Originally posted by BadzMaro:Love n lust.. normally Lust will be the attitude for the younger generation. Slowly u will learn what is love.. =P When one is older, then tend to understand what is love..
i think loving someone does not mean u have to have sex =) -
well sex is considered as the art of making love.
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i agree with M©+square.Originally posted by meblurblur:How many of us really understand the difference between love and lust.
When two persons in love..sex is necessary??
Need yr view on the above.
Making love with your partner doesnt mean it equals to lust.
Lust on the other hand, usually means having sexual thought with the opposite sex whom you might not know or talk before.
Eg. Watching porn is Lust. Having sex with gf is love.
Clear enough?
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take pencil and notepad copy notes.Originally posted by SoonKeong:i agree with M©+square.
Making love with your partner doesnt mean it equals to lust.
Lust on the other hand, usually means having sexual thought with the opposite sex whom you might not know or talk before.
Eg. Watching porn is Lust. Having sex with gf is love.
Clear enough?
Yes sir, clear liao. -
Lust empties you; Love completes you.
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Love is that romantic feeling you have for that person and you don't need to have SEX with that person to be satisfied.
Lust is that greedy feeling you have for that person and you need SEX with that person to be satisfied.
If a r/s starts off as Lust, there can be no everlasting Love. Lust over time no longer adds spice to it. It gets boring quickly. It's bland and dull.
If a r/s starts off as Love, there can be everlasting Love. Lust adds spice to it. It never gets boring at all. It's delicious and exciting. -
lust dies when you get old and wrinkled
love takes more to die. -
Originally posted by M©+square:take pencil and notepad copy notes.
Yes sir, clear liao. -
Not necessarily? There's always two side of the coin.Originally posted by macjoe:Love is that romantic feeling you have for that person and you don't need to have SEX with that person to be satisfied.
Lust is that greedy feeling you have for that person and you need SEX with that person to be satisfied.
If a r/s starts off as Lust, there can be no everlasting Love. Lust over time no longer adds spice to it. It gets boring quickly. It's bland and dull.
If a r/s starts off as Love, there can be everlasting Love. Lust adds spice to it. It never gets boring at all. It's delicious and exciting. -
Spelling already different?...Originally posted by meblurblur:How many of us really understand the difference between love and lust.
When two persons in love..sex is necessary??
Need yr view on the above.
Love involves HEART first.
Lust involves BODY first. -
AOS states differentlyOriginally posted by mach10:Spelling already different?...
Love involves HEART first.
Lust involves BODY first. -
I like how you put it across.Originally posted by starblue:lust dies when you get old and wrinkled
love takes more to die.
Kinda nice! Thanks
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Lust - One way. To satisfy only oneself
Love - Two way. To Give, knowing/expecting you will recieve in kind. -
Well said...Originally posted by Magnus:Lust - One way. To satisfy only oneself
Love - Two way. To Give, knowing/expecting you will recieve in kind.