will you trust her again if she lie to you ?
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Long gone your dram and future was when you lost trust and hired a PI...Originally posted by maxcp:there goes my dream ........ my future ........
Even if she didn't do you wrong, she would still want a divorce!
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hey dude, wha.. if i were u, i really cant bring myself to trust this girl anymore lor.. like the others said earlier on, a leopard never changes its spots... seems to me that even though she's 30, she's quite immatured and refuses to commit herself in a relationship.. as for the crying incident, she was most probably shedding crocodile tears... if you take her back, i'll forsee that she might she might cheat u again (and u might have to spend another bomb on a PI to check up on her).. yup so just forget abt her n move on, thats what i feel la. on a brighter note, u can start looking for another better girl (u can try matchmaking agencies ?) during the 3 years when the both of u file for the divorice and u can get married to the new gal when u turn 43 ma.. yup, dun be upset le... you have evryone's moral sprt..! =)
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I really felt sad for u. i ve a question for u.
1) Do u still love ur wife??
2) If Yes, why??
I can see that u r prepared for the divorce but duno what's holding u back.
If both of u can get to the stage of being husband and wife lawfully, i Believe it's not a moment of folly and being impulsive.
Of cos if she is willing to come back to u, u will have insecurites. But if u ever choose to be together again, u have to learn to let go of her mistakes and try to start all over again. If not, it will nv be possible to be together under the same roof. Can u imagine the person sleeping beside u is straying outside? It really hurts...
People alwaz have the old sayings that time will heal the wounds. Yes, but most pple can only forgive but not forget.
It's all up to u to decide which path u want to take. U muz think ahead cuz frankly speaking, u aren't young anymore. 10 yrs later, u will be in ur 50s. You r not the kind of guys in their 20s whos still able to change the partners again and again.
Think carefully of what u want. I suppose u haven got a child right? Since u juz got married last Dec, then it lessens ur burden if u ever get a separation.. Be strong-minded and do what u think is right for U!! All the best. -
of cos I still love her .... or else I wun marry her ..... and of cos if she willing to come back I will have to let go of her past mistakes .... juz that dunno when den she willing to come back .... and what she did b4 she decide to come back is what I'm worried .....Originally posted by kiekie:I really felt sad for u. i ve a question for u.
1) Do u still love ur wife??
2) If Yes, why??
I can see that u r prepared for the divorce but duno what's holding u back.
If both of u can get to the stage of being husband and wife lawfully, i Believe it's not a moment of folly and being impulsive.
Of cos if she is willing to come back to u, u will have insecurites. But if u ever choose to be together again, u have to learn to let go of her mistakes and try to start all over again. If not, it will nv be possible to be together under the same roof. Can u imagine the person sleeping beside u is straying outside? It really hurts...
People alwaz have the old sayings that time will heal the wounds. Yes, but most pple can only forgive but not forget.
It's all up to u to decide which path u want to take. U muz think ahead cuz frankly speaking, u aren't young anymore. 10 yrs later, u will be in ur 50s. You r not the kind of guys in their 20s whos still able to change the partners again and again.
Think carefully of what u want. I suppose u haven got a child right? Since u juz got married last Dec, then it lessens ur burden if u ever get a separation.. Be strong-minded and do what u think is right for U!! All the best. -
i will trust her one more time, but if she still sees that guy, that i will just break up with her. why hold on to something whose heart is not with u?
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now that we were seperated ..... I dunno whether she still sees that guy or not ......Originally posted by nanren4ever:i will trust her one more time, but if she still sees that guy, that i will just break up with her. why hold on to something whose heart is not with u?
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ever wonder why she wants you back?
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LOL.. bittenOriginally posted by stellazio:once beaten twice shy. -
no offence but.. what a Fucking Bitch.Originally posted by maxcp:I found out she is seeing someone else and i confronted her and she promised to stop seeing him ... but she still see him behind my back ...
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woman is like dat 1 lah....no woman is as simple as u think ,especially those street smart 1..Originally posted by maxcp:I found out she is seeing someone else and i confronted her and she promised to stop seeing him ... but she still see him behind my back ...
they tends to keep a few admirer in hand..jus in case...hahaha
when we confront them.. they will say ffiends only wat..but funnie leh when we hv friends.. they will snap... n even when their firends ....express their love to them they will still tell us we r only hving platonic friendship..
gt 1 song..."mei ge nu hai dou bu jian dan..." -
I believes wat u said is true. But guys are the same too isn't it? Everyone is afraid of being exposed and will deny to the end.....This is human's nature.Originally posted by zacken99:woman is like dat 1 lah....no woman is as simple as u think ,especially those street smart 1..
they tends to keep a few admirer in hand..jus in case...hahaha
when we confront them.. they will say ffiends only wat..but funnie leh when we hv friends.. they will snap... n even when their firends ....express their love to them they will still tell us we r only hving platonic friendship..
gt 1 song..."mei ge nu hai dou bu jian dan..." -
yeah...thats a sickening nature...Originally posted by kiekie:I believes wat u said is true. But guys are the same too isn't it? Everyone is afraid of being exposed and will deny to the end.....This is human's nature.
y cant jus b frank...y must act ....if really hv other new feelings.. then b frank lah.. y wana emotionally hold on to another person... -
Trying to run away from reality when being exposed is to DENY.......... Cuz they r afraid ..they are guilty..... I think most people are like that, even kids....eg lying to their parents.
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so.. it jus matter dwn.. to hw much or hw long.. love is substain..Originally posted by kiekie:Trying to run away from reality when being exposed is to DENY.......... Cuz they r afraid ..they are guilty..... I think most people are like that, even kids....eg lying to their parents. -
Btw did you tell her u r sick today?
Just wondering why u like her so much? -
tell her I'm sick ???? Cos she's the person I love deeply .....Originally posted by drx:Btw did you tell her u r sick today?
Just wondering why u like her so much? -
i see
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i probably would give her (or in my case him) another chance, if he seems sincere enough. but lie to me again and its goodbye.
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she will b more careful nex time she lie...Originally posted by JennTS:i probably would give her (or in my case him) another chance, if he seems sincere enough. but lie to me again and its goodbye. -
till now she still lying to me ....... sighOriginally posted by JennTS:i probably would give her (or in my case him) another chance, if he seems sincere enough. but lie to me again and its goodbye. -
and I found out she will b going hong kong with one of the guys who was married ......
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how come she can flirt and you cannot?
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I don't .... I'm serious when come to marriage ...... partner must be faithful ....Originally posted by drx:how come she can flirt and you cannot? -
if wanna flirt den dun get married ... if u wanna get married den dun flirt .... couple must be faithful to each other ....... if not dun be couple ......
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its good to always give people a 2nd or third chance.... just be more forgiving cos life is short and just don't hold things too hard to heart.... its destiny and fate that people get to be close with people and meet up....