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then no pt in refering to tt thread too rite?Originally posted by setokaiba:Pls refer to "Me don't understand" thread to get a glimpse of Ayukat's way of thinking and opinions towrds such things.
Then mayb u all can understand that there is no point to waste time toking to him.
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Ayukat is a block head. sounds like some selfish bustard to me.. but heck, i dun care. the gal he likes is going to enjoy herself in her r/s and he'll be pathetically fighting, only to give her misery.
the world is sure full of strange people...
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Do you think Girl A will ever give care if he hurts her or not?
Let alone allow him to be her bf?
If he can say that he heck cares about Girl B then why should Girl A care about him at all?
Since he is so hardhearted to ignore Girl B and even refused to answer a simple question on Girl B so why can't Girl A be the hardhearted person too?
You keep saying you know Girl A very well and know her for a long time. If one day her real lover ever comes for her do you think she will even sms or call you?
She only thinks you are only a friend who is just one of the many guys she sees everyday,i s like the same way you refuse to admit Girl B ever exist.
Mark my words, the day her prince charming comes, she will fight together with him against you for she only loves him if you ever dare to touch her love. -
Hi dear..... learn to let go & seek your happiness else where ...... love cannot be force........
give her the ultimate blessing... fight for wat...total waste of time and $ and emotion......
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Originally posted by bluey^blue~:Just found out that the girl I deem perfect to me,is in a relationship.
Anyone out there felt the same as me?Blood rushing throughout,feeling very jerky and kept on bitting my nails?
Im not talking logically now.I have so many thoughts running thru my mind..all about how that guy will treat her.
Will he cheat on her?
Will he treat her well?
Will he force her to bed with him?<--particularly about this one..after browsing thru the bar section,just by seeing the topics,it had me worrying.
Im somewhat leaning towards the marriage b4 sex thinking..the thought of my perfect girl doin with another guy unwillingly or tricked into, is just horrible,i cant find any words to describe my feelings.
I guess all these thinkings are normal right...Im just sharing what im goin thru right now in e middle of e night all alone.
Maybe I shouldnt have logged in friendster and click on her contact..
I should have go after her earlier on.
I shouldnt be that gutless to do what I always wanted to.
Fark,i can really feel the ache from my heart..the feeling is sour.
Seriously, it's the narrow mindsets that will serve to imprison you for life. From your questions of whether would he treat her well to if he would bed her is completely IRRELEVANT to you. Why? Are you her boyfriend?
Then? It seemed that you are more affected by the thought of her being in someone else's embrace, not so much about HER, individually as a person. And what if EVEN she did went bed with him... what makes you think it's TRICKED and not willingness? What if it's your dream girl who initiated the sex? (And don't come and tell me its impossible because you are not her. Nothing is impossible and this is absolute).
Don't be naive. Your sour jealousy is because your mind tells you that you have 'lost' something, when in fact, you didn't have to preceive this way. Will she 'seemed' different just because she ended up with someone else and NOT with you, regardless of what 'they' do prior in the relationship?
Facts are thrown into your face; she is taken, you are so much slower or, again, irrelevant even if you are on time (Meaning, no chemistry no feelings from her).
Learn acceptance.
*** And Ayukat, you can keep the fighting spirit and die without knowing why. Must get her first then can let go? Oh please, nobody would give a damn whether you buey gam buan or not - do not behave the way like the world is your parents, whom will give in to you just because you wanted it so badly, like a misfit child.
Only the foolish fights a senseless battle. You can fight a thousand battle and lose that thousand battle because you don't even phucking know what a battle is all about. Please lar, you think in a war, it's all about fighting melee, range or whatsoever sh!t that would induce bloodshed?
Pester her until she gives in? You reminded and reinforced the old Psychology, Astrology and AOS theories in my mind - about how we would revert back to the attitude in our childhood whenever we faced robust difficulty, stress, rejections or objections.
You don't have the ability to make her love you.
And if she doesn't love you, you can never make her happy.
Quit deluding as if you could actually create an impact, by doing what you are doing. Basically, you can't. You can make a hoo-haa in Sgforums about what you would do... what you would do... but reality is a different world.
And everyone knows where you stand in that world.
P.S:If she wun ever belong to me... MAKE HER
We are waiting.
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another point to add on to Yunhaier first point, when i first read your post, i notice that your sense of posessiveness is very strong...too strong.
first even if you managed to make her your gf, things will not last, you worry about this and worry about that so much that in order to make yourself comfortable, you will restrict her freedom...it will be hard on her.
i can see that you are still young, if i not wrong, below 20.. try to take things easy, you mention about she the prefect girl. looks? or character? i assume looks...
secondly, do not cry over spilt milk now. learn from this regret and move on. next time you meet such a girl again. summon your courage, don not live in regrets.
There is a saying," What is the worst one can happen if rejected by a girl ? the answer is back to square 1, you lost nothing.." -
Hai... oh well... Chinese Zodiac says I am the Death Star and I represent death, I like to do things alone and think different from others...
Never knew horoscope so accurate...
Oh well, she haven't say no yet... and I haven't even done anything besides forwarding msg and asking her out...
Dunno why can tok till so far....
Never knew wooing a girl was wrong...
Weird hor? -
i know how u feel man....Originally posted by bluey^blue~:Just found out that the girl I deem perfect to me,is in a relationship.
Anyone out there felt the same as me?Blood rushing throughout,feeling very jerky and kept on bitting my nails?
Im not talking logically now.I have so many thoughts running thru my mind..all about how that guy will treat her.
Will he cheat on her?
Will he treat her well?
Will he force her to bed with him?<--particularly about this one..after browsing thru the bar section,just by seeing the topics,it had me worrying.
Im somewhat leaning towards the marriage b4 sex thinking..the thought of my perfect girl doin with another guy unwillingly or tricked into, is just horrible,i cant find any words to describe my feelings.
I guess all these thinkings are normal right...Im just sharing what im goin thru right now in e middle of e night all alone.
Maybe I shouldnt have logged in friendster and click on her contact..
I should have go after her earlier on.
I shouldnt be that gutless to do what I always wanted to.
Fark,i can really feel the ache from my heart..the feeling is sour.
i am also like that....
wad to do life still have to go on....
now i also sian sian....no mood to do things....
only thing feel like doing is SLEEP.... -
wooing is not wrong, but later don't come in and say..oh I feel so tired because I have done so much yet she is still not my gf yet...then call her a b**** for making use of use, etc. So many guys say girls make use of them, but in fact it is them who are foolish enough to let themselves be made use of in the name of the fighting spirit. The girl don't care whether you fight till the end or not, and in this case, you are just fighting a lost causeOriginally posted by Ayukat:Hai... oh well... Chinese Zodiac says I am the Death Star and I represent death, I like to do things alone and think different from others...
Never knew horoscope so accurate...
Oh well, she haven't say no yet... and I haven't even done anything besides forwarding msg and asking her out...
Dunno why can tok till so far....
Never knew wooing a girl was wrong...
Weird hor? 
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Never see Tong Xin Yuan ar? I am Yang Yang hor...
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Agree that if the girl dun love u she wont give a care to what happens to u.Originally posted by rainee:wooing is not wrong, but later don't come in and say..oh I feel so tired because I have done so much yet she is still not my gf yet...then call her a b**** for making use of use, etc. So many guys say girls make use of them, but in fact it is them who are foolish enough to let themselves be made use of in the name of the fighting spirit. The girl don't care whether you fight till the end or not, and in this case, you are just fighting a lost cause
If u wana woo someone, be prepred for 2 outcomes: suceed and failure! If u only know how to anticipate success, then u will always fail. -
Dear Bluey Blue,
I sympathise with you, I remember that sinking feeling before when I found out my 1st Love was attached to someone else. However, it is Not your place to doubt her relationship with her boyfriend, & his integrity. Just because you've seen many sleazy posts in Bar, doesn't mean that her boyfriend is a horrible person.
You may be wishing that their relationship isn't all that great so as to comfort yourself that you may stand a chance. But please refrain from trying to convince her of the aforementioned, it will compromise your integrity.
Until proven that her boyfriend isn't right for her, just be gracious, wish her all the best & let go. If you really like her, be happy for her, & wish her well. I think she'll appreciate it.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by bluey^blue~:Just found out that the girl I deem perfect to me,is in a relationship.
Anyone out there felt the same as me?Blood rushing throughout,feeling very jerky and kept on bitting my nails?
Im not talking logically now.I have so many thoughts running thru my mind..all about how that guy will treat her.
Will he cheat on her?
Will he treat her well?
Will he force her to bed with him?<--particularly about this one..after browsing thru the bar section,just by seeing the topics,it had me worrying.
Im somewhat leaning towards the marriage b4 sex thinking..the thought of my perfect girl doin with another guy unwillingly or tricked into, is just horrible,i cant find any words to describe my feelings.
I guess all these thinkings are normal right...Im just sharing what im goin thru right now in e middle of e night all alone.
Maybe I shouldnt have logged in friendster and click on her contact..
I should have go after her earlier on.
I shouldnt be that gutless to do what I always wanted to.
Fark,i can really feel the ache from my heart..the feeling is sour. -
been a few weeks since i posted tis thread..
duno where after i posted,never had the "guts" to view the replies.
somewhere ard the past few weeks..i came up wif some absurd thinking..i was thinking maybe i should just kill her and myself but nah,screw the devilish thought.
ill guess ill jus wait and meanwhile build up my opportunities wif her in the future..
OT - did i spell tat "opportunities" correctly?i always doubt my spelling wif this word