Kerotan got problem
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I hope you guys still remember me. it's about me and my underground gf. I can tell she loves me very very much. that scares me because i found her very processive and she gets jealous very easily when i told her my friend who is a female and immediately she ask long and short. She sms me everyday a few times and calls me everyday. all these i don't mind but what start to scares me is today when i told her "sandy (not real name), what if i fall in love with another girl and leave you?" she says she will kill herself to make me feel guilty for the rest of my life and she mean it when she stares at me. I am thinking if i had made a wrong choice being with her.
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I remember you. I also asked you to chose very carefully before going into a relationship with her. Since you say that you love her and willing to start something with her I thought the case was closed and everything was fine.
Seems that my worst fears came true.
Sadly is very hard for you to get out of it.
No need to worry will help you solve this problem.
Need to get some rest first cos I have just solved one case and badly in need of rest. -
define what you mean by 'underground gf'
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Are u having 2nd thoughts?
U want to break up with her? -
Expected that she's not easy to deal with.
If i'm not wrong, you're going to be in this for a long long time.
This thread will be studied closely.
Continue to post details.
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Originally posted by Kerotan Frog:I hope you guys still remember me. it's about me and my underground gf. I can tell she loves me very very much. that scares me because i found her very processive and she gets jealous very easily when i told her my friend who is a female and immediately she ask long and short. She sms me everyday a few times and calls me everyday. all these i don't mind but what start to scares me is today when i told her "sandy (not real name), what if i fall in love with another girl and leave you?" she says she will kill herself to make me feel guilty for the rest of my life and she mean it when she stares at me. I am thinking if i had made a wrong choice being with her.
You made your choice? You live with it?
AFterall, you kept emphasising that although she got no looks, but she is very 'nice' and treats you very well.
NICE personality huh?
Or nice BJ she gave you?
Dude... you choose to take on the problem wholeheartedly. What else can anyone says? What I said on, 22 June 05, 8.16 p.m, 23 June 05 12.40 a.m. and 1.21 a.m. still stand strongly, upon your topic 'help in my love problem' on 21 June.Originally posted by Kerotan Frog (240605):she rested her hands on my pants (private part) and i didn't really push her hands away i just say no but she didn't stop and continue that time i was high already because her hands were massaging there. she unzip me and took out my brother and rubbing it and oral sex till i climax.
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i still think you're an Ashol. you deserve it, that's all i will say for you.
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yes, frog...I still remember you.
so what are your plans? actually you cant blame her for feeling this way and acting this way..she feel insecured as you know, her looks. so that is why she resorted such actions.
she is afraid of lossing you, and i believe that she feel that any girl outside is better than her, so thus she can only feel better by acting this way.
There is no other way to solve this problem except by communicating more, and by ensuring her of your feelings towards her. Girls like her need alot of assurance, as she does not have much confidence.
in order to stop such unreasonable behavior, you can try talking to her how you feel by her actions and tell her that you feel restricted and so on...tell her that you feel very troubled and stress if she doesnt stop her unreasonable actions and if she really love you, she will give way, otherwise you might want to reconsider your stand again.
I have meet girls that demand their bf to cut off all platonic friendship with friends of the opposite sex by deleting away their female friend no and not allowing messages from them and other....but this things only go one way, meaning that the girl doesnt have to do that. Hence,I am not sure what is their thinking, if you are one of them can you please enlighten me on these actions. -
At first b4 i agreed to be her bf, she says she will even willing to close one eye if i have sex with another girl. but now is like she totally twist her words, not say i want to go out and play but she is just being unreasonable. now she says no women can touch you except me or else you going to get it. she change after we had sex a few times. Now if i date other girls and ditch her, i am very sure she will jump down from 10th storey. She is quite a tough one. any forumites got a way to ditch her without her killing herself?Originally posted by gerrykoh:Are u having 2nd thoughts?
U want to break up with her?
she gets so jealous when i just talk to other girls and she will ask if I ever sleep with her before. I realised being with her really got pressure. don't feel happy lor but how to leave her? I am afraid she will do something silly. She knows my weak point too i get soft hearted when a girl cry that's why she sometimes she cry. -
got a way also won't tell you...yet.Originally posted by Kerotan Frog:At first b4 i agreed to be her bf, she says she will even willing to close one eye if i have sex with another girl. but now is like she totally twist her words, not say i want to go out and play but she is just being unreasonable. now she says no women can touch you except me or else you going to get it. she change after we had sex a few times. Now if i date other girls and ditch her, i am very sure she will jump down from 10th storey. She is quite a tough one. any forumites got a way to ditch her without her killing herself?
she gets so jealous when i just talk to other girls and she will ask if I ever sleep with her before. I realised being with her really got pressure. don't feel happy lor but how to leave her? I am afraid she will do something silly. She knows my weak point too i get soft hearted when a girl cry that's why she sometimes she cry.
You haven't learn your lesson. -
pls say k i can't just leave her for another girl she will really kill herself i tell u. she is starting to scare me.Originally posted by M©+square:got a way also won't tell you...yet.
You haven't learn your lesson. -
you deserve it. or bi goot.Originally posted by Kerotan Frog:pls say k i can't just leave her for another girl she will really kill herself i tell u. she is starting to scare me. -
be good how? she is being so unreasonable. btw, why u keep hitting on me?Originally posted by starblue:you deserve it. or bi goot. -
Ok. You don't have to explain how bad she is or how afraid and manupilated you feel.Originally posted by Kerotan Frog:be good how? she is being so unreasonable. btw, why u keep hitting on me?
Just come clean and be straightforward.
What is your next course of action. - What do you want now.
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first, how can another girl closed 1 eye when her bf eat outside? and you believe her?Originally posted by Kerotan Frog:At first b4 i agreed to be her bf, she says she will even willing to close one eye if i have sex with another girl. but now is like she totally twist her words, not say i want to go out and play but she is just being unreasonable. now she says no women can touch you except me or else you going to get it. she change after we had sex a few times. Now if i date other girls and ditch her, i am very sure she will jump down from 10th storey. She is quite a tough one. any forumites got a way to ditch her without her killing herself?
she gets so jealous when i just talk to other girls and she will ask if I ever sleep with her before. I realised being with her really got pressure. don't feel happy lor but how to leave her? I am afraid she will do something silly. She knows my weak point too i get soft hearted when a girl cry that's why she sometimes she cry.
second, i remember you say that you won have sex with her unless you want to marry her?or is it something similiar?
soft-hearted is not a weak point but a good one, she know how to make full use of it...hiaz...
what are her past relationship history? no of breakup? get ditched?info on past bf? how much do you know?mind telling? -
I want to tell her i wanna leave her because she is giving me too much pressure and she is controlling me too much. However, i hate to see her cry. few days ago, she ask me do i want a baby? so obvious she wants me to make her pregnant so she can control me for the rest of my life. I want to get out but i can't. if she really kills herself, i am really going to feel guilty for the rest of my life.Originally posted by M©+square:Ok. You don't have to explain how bad she is or how afraid and manupilated you feel.
Just come clean and be straightforward.
What is your next course of action. - What do you want now.
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U stupid xxxx, have your fun, now want to ditch her.
U should allay her fears by not being flirtatous. Girls need security.
If she knows u are faithful, she won't be so possessive. -
Take note that She's not a 'ordinary girl'.Originally posted by gerrykoh:U stupid xxxx, have your fun, now want to ditch her.
U should allay her fears by not being flirtatous. Girls need security.
If she knows u are faithful, she won't be so possessive.
Even he is faithful(which is never going to happen) she will still continue her works.
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You pm me la..i teach you how to handle this.Originally posted by Kerotan Frog:pls say k i can't just leave her for another girl she will really kill herself i tell u. she is starting to scare me.
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Kero.. Firstly, stop having sex with her, stop all intimacy, deny any accusations from her, bring her out to more romantic places, stop using vulgar, stop trying to think that she is so sticky, try treating her a bit better, understand her more, talk to her more, listen to her more. You are just getting bored of this relation, and she is the opposite, she cherishs this relation more and more. Y? NOT becuz u r romantic, cuz u haf sex with her a few times le.. Hafing sex is more than a pleasure action, it is a form of bonding with another person, is just like a romantic date together, unforgettable.. Try to understand her more.. Think about it, do you really hate her that much? do you really like her that much? Clear your mind of all distractions, go to a beach or something, clear your thoughts.. And then start to think about your life.. Do you want it to go on like this? Can your consience take it? If you don't want it to continue, tell her frankly, but since she's more of a ruffian kind.. take it slowly, plan ur moves carefully.. I don't know what will happen, but this is the advice i can give now.. You better consider wisely and make a wise choice.. don't end up regretting everything.. =) But remember, humans are humans because they make mistakes, but every failure has a root to success.. TAke Care..
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I know but both of us alone in the room and sleep on the same bed, things will happen mah. at first she says we only sleep on the same bed but we don't do anything lor so i say ok but after a while, she starts kissing all these then leads to sex lor. her past relationship she told me she got quite a few bf b4 me but don't know why also break up. she don't wanna say i don't force.Originally posted by heavenlyfire:first, how can another girl closed 1 eye when her bf eat outside? and you believe her?
second, i remember you say that you won have sex with her unless you want to marry her?or is it something similiar?
soft-hearted is not a weak point but a good one, she know how to make full use of it...hiaz...
what are her past relationship history? no of breakup? get ditched?info on past bf? how much do you know?mind telling? -
if i don't make love with her she will accuse me of having another women outside. I can't reject her if she wants sex because i don't want her imagination to run wild. this is the first time i encounter having sex without enjoying it. it's very jialat. No i don't hate her at all but she thinks too much.Originally posted by Ledikusa:Kero.. Firstly, stop having sex with her, stop all intimacy, deny any accusations from her, bring her out to more romantic places, stop using vulgar, stop trying to think that she is so sticky, try treating her a bit better, understand her more, talk to her more, listen to her more. You are just getting bored of this relation, and she is the opposite, she cherishs this relation more and more. Y? NOT becuz u r romantic, cuz u haf sex with her a few times le.. Hafing sex is more than a pleasure action, it is a form of bonding with another person, is just like a romantic date together, unforgettable.. Try to understand her more.. Think about it, do you really hate her that much? do you really like her that much? Clear your mind of all distractions, go to a beach or something, clear your thoughts.. And then start to think about your life.. Do you want it to go on like this? Can your consience take it? If you don't want it to continue, tell her frankly, but since she's more of a ruffian kind.. take it slowly, plan ur moves carefully.. I don't know what will happen, but this is the advice i can give now.. You better consider wisely and make a wise choice.. don't end up regretting everything.. =) But remember, humans are humans because they make mistakes, but every failure has a root to success.. TAke Care.. -
hahahahahahahahahahaha!!!! i'm happy for u. enjoy ahOriginally posted by Kerotan Frog:I hope you guys still remember me. it's about me and my underground gf. I can tell she loves me very very much. that scares me because i found her very processive and she gets jealous very easily when i told her my friend who is a female and immediately she ask long and short. She sms me everyday a few times and calls me everyday. all these i don't mind but what start to scares me is today when i told her "sandy (not real name), what if i fall in love with another girl and leave you?" she says she will kill herself to make me feel guilty for the rest of my life and she mean it when she stares at me. I am thinking if i had made a wrong choice being with her. -
I wish her luck and strength to achieve her happiness.
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he only have himself to blame to land in this situation. his constant blaming of the other party had made himself look innocent to what seem more than that. he could have rejected right from the start but he didnt.
he cant resist temptation and kept on telling people that she's forcing him to do things against his will. no one can force another party to do something unless with force. and kerotan deserves everything he's going through and will be experiencing later.
and stop shifting blames on others u weakling. be a man and face the music.