How can you tell if your boyfriend hasn't gotten over his ex

• Kimosabe

  26 Jul 05, 15:07

  Thanks guys....I've been thinking so much these days...I read his Aunt Agony threads when he broke up with her...surprisingly I wasn't angry...I actually wanted to cry because a part of me really felt his pain...I know this sounds rather cheesy but I really cried after reading his poems and knowing he was so in love and left alone. I only hope, although perhaps I may not be the best of the crop...I can give him whatever he needs at least... That's all I want to do now...
• FeowFeow

  27 Jul 05, 11:02

  Sweetie,
  
  Just based on your love for him alone, you oughta be the best he's had : )
  
  FeowFeow
  
  

  Originally posted by Kimosabe:

  Thanks guys....I've been thinking so much these days...I read his Aunt Agony threads when he broke up with her...surprisingly I wasn't angry...I actually wanted to cry because a part of me really felt his pain...I know this sounds rather cheesy but I really cried after reading his poems and knowing he was so in love and left alone. I only hope, although perhaps I may not be the best of the crop...I can give him whatever he needs at least... That's all I want to do now...

• Kimosabe

  28 Jul 05, 20:18

  Guess what?? I went out with his ex yesterday and we became really good friends! She's real nice and all that... either that was a really stupid move or a smart one but regardless i felt pretty alright about the whole thing...
• FeowFeow

  29 Jul 05, 10:35

  Hi Kimosabe,
  
  It takes a generous & big-hearted girl to want to get to know your bf's ex. I don't think I could ever do that Whether it's stupid or Not, is Not for anyone to judge, & only time will tell. Anyway, it sure beats the ridiculous catfights between say, Penny Lancaster & Rachel Hunter (Rod Stewart being the lucky man in question).
  
  Your gesture, as I've mentioned, is uncommon, & it shows your depth of character.
  
  FeowFeow
  
  

  Originally posted by Kimosabe:

  Guess what?? I went out with his ex yesterday and we became really good friends! She's real nice and all that... either that was a really stupid move or a smart one but regardless i felt pretty alright about the whole thing...

• Devil1976

  29 Jul 05, 12:46

  A gf who knows how to respect a bf's friends would probably be much respected in return....
• Kimosabe

  29 Jul 05, 17:51

  Aww...you guys really think so? I don't feel so stupid anymore...you know my anniversary with my bf is exactly the same date as him and his ex? But diff month...i used to feel our anniversary is not special at all but after a while I realised its just between me and him...and I'm the one who keeps bringing her up...*sigh* Now i know..you guys are really the best...thank you for all your support...