The girl i love..... T_T
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i came from a boy sch since pri till sec. i am not a very good looking guy and short. So not like my others friends mostly all got gf liao, execpt me when during sec.
But one day. that time i tink i was still sec4. i saw this girl in my tutution centre which i cant take my eyes off her. To me she is pretty and special, but my friends say is ok looking only. So everyday my mind is full of her. Finally one day i decided to go right up to know her and i successed. So we exchange contact. That day i was so happy until i couldnt sleep.
(come to tink back i tink i am abit crazy that time)
Although i got her contact but i dare not call her because dont know wad to tok about and also i think the 1st gal i ever like. But the funny thing she call me the next day and talk to me through i have nothing much to tok, but she say nevermind she will do the toking. So from then on it seems everyday she tok to me and like we can tok for hours and hours happily. But when comes to dating her, i only date out her a few times.
But happy times dont last long, after sometime i found out that she came from a rich family and had bf already. At that time i totally lost out, very sad and it seem like the world lost out of colour.
So i tink for nights and nights, finally i decided to give up, because i not like bf tall, good looking, and also not as poor as i am and she is rich gal, how can a poor guy like me give her happliness. So i try to keep distance away from her, dont call her, reject her call, and even when i saw her i just say hi and walk off le. (my heart really pain when i do that) after long time, she seldom call me le, and i also never call her le. But that didnt stop me from thinking of her.
but after a year later, one day suddenly a call, i heard her voice again. At that time i was kinda of happy again. She told me that she is very sad , becoz her bf is with other gal and still wan to be with her and she love her bf very much and they have been together for years. So i try my best to console her but i really am too stupid abt console ppl. But in the end she feel better when toking to me...and say thanks to me for console her. But i still didnt feel that i got any chance to chase her. After that she didnt call me again le, and i also didnt want to interfere with their relationship problems. Although i really feel like calling her, ask her bf to get lost, and chase her. But i dont know y all my confidence r lost out.
Then after a few years later, i met her she already got a new bf... then i sian again, although i recently just contact her but already not like last time we used to chat about happily liao
...i always think if that time i really did not give up on her, would she be my gf by now??? But what to do is Over....hai Until today it had been 4 years i still like her, and since then i had never go on relationship yet, i also dunno y, maybe i still very like her or probably i lost confidence in relationship liao or maybe i cant find someone like her again....hai
u ppl must be thinking i am dumb, stupid and ball-less.... maybe i am...
can u ppl give me some advices.... -
if she's taken, walk away and walk on.. maybe she's not the one for you?
look around.. and maybe you'll find someone else...
good luck!
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move on...dun look back
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SMS is the best way
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but i still cant 4get about her....Originally posted by the Bear:if she's taken, walk away and walk on.. maybe she's not the one for you?
look around.. and maybe you'll find someone else...
good luck! -
huh SMS what???Originally posted by SBS9828X:SMS is the best way -
SMS her if u fell u miss her...Originally posted by frostice:huh SMS what??? -
i always told myself that but i always fail...Originally posted by sgboy2004:move on...dun look back -
then make ur intentions known to her this time round..take the gamble then
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she now got a new and good bf liao....wad can i still do...sms say i like her, like got no use le...Originally posted by SBS9828X:SMS her if u fell u miss her... -
Wo ai de ren,bu shi wo de ai ren.
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Got read somewhere... u like accidentally sms her loh but den say u send wrong person... Haiz i was like u b4Originally posted by frostice:she now got a new and good bf liao....wad can i still do...sms say i like her, like got no use le... -
she now got bf liao...wad can i do...Originally posted by agk_titan:then make ur intentions known to her this time round..take the gamble then -
Since you already know about this, what are still whining about?Originally posted by frostice:she now got a new and good bf liao....wad can i still do...sms say i like her, like got no use le...
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although i knew it...but i still cant control myself from loving her....Originally posted by rainee:Since you already know about this, what are still whining about? -
You are allowing your emotions to control you. That is definitely not the way to go. Cut off all sort of contact with her, stop listening to whatever might have happened to her. Spend more time with your friends, occupy your days and mind with other activities.Originally posted by frostice:although i knew it...but i still cant control myself from loving her.... -
u can have raineeOriginally posted by frostice:although i knew it...but i still cant control myself from loving her.... -
sorry, but you are not my father, so you can't give me awayOriginally posted by sgboy2004:u can have rainee -
i try be4 wad u have said, but when she call me, sms me, msn me, saw her in friendster.....it remind me everything of her again liao and i will just put everything a side just for her....Originally posted by rainee:You are allowing your emotions to control you. That is definitely not the way to go. Cut off all sort of contact with her, stop listening to whatever might have happened to her. Spend more time with your friends, occupy your days and mind with other activities. -
Delete her contact off your MSN, delete her number off your HP...and when she calls, just said you are too busy to talk. I know it is cruel, but hopefully she will get the hint and leave you to heal.Originally posted by frostice:i try be4 wad u have said, but when she call me, sms me, msn me, saw her in friendster.....it remind me everything of her again liao.... -
-____- if this really works....now i wont have post liao....Originally posted by rainee:Delete her contact off your MSN, delete her number off your HP...and when she calls, just said you are too busy to talk. I know it is cruel, but hopefully she will get the hint and leave you to heal.
that is wad i did 2 years ago, i even throw away the pic we take together...
but it seem doesnt work... because her image, hp no:, her brithday, email all still in my mind...cant delete off....then once she called me is like i could put everything a side lor... -
how i hope there is a machine that can brainwash all the memory that i dun wan...
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Can i ask one small simple question.
If one day you realise that all along she is just using you as a friend whom she can talk to when she is sad and will be dump after she had no use for you.
Will you still like her? -
i ever tot of that be4.... but still i like her....Originally posted by drx:Can i ask one small simple question.
If one day you realise that all along she is just using you as a friend whom she can talk to when she is sad and will be dump after she had no use for you.
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you don't have self-control.Originally posted by frostice:-____- if this really works....now i wont have post liao....
that is wad i did 2 years ago, i even throw away the pic we take together...
but it seem doesnt work... because her image, hp no:, her brithday, email all still in my mind...cant delete off....then once she called me is like i could put everything a side lor...
Steel your heart, when she calls you tell her you are busy. After a few times, she won't call you anymore
And of course, go out and do other things rather than moping around thinking about something you cant have...