hate female classmate
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1. i am quite close to all my male classmates, till this female classmate came in, then become close with them also, problem is for no reason she hates me, then when i follow my friends..she buay song lor..til 2day, she called me a parasite ..
2.Maths test i didn't study and was quite weak in maths, so i failed it while the rest passed. i could tell she was badmouthing me but not straight in my face,she purposely spoke louder to the others and said"the test so easy, also can fail, that person really no brains"
then the lecture hall, the row space just enough for 2 persons and yet when i wanted to sit down, she said that was for her friend, then the other empty space put her bag....
i didn't knew such ppl exists in poly.....sobs
but i believe wat goes around will comes around -
you are a gal or a guy.. if you are a gal .. that is veri obvious that she is jealous that you get along with all the guys .. and she jus trying to make you got fed up with her and she got the chance to tell ppls bad things abt you. Dont bother so much abt this kind of ppls.. jus leave her alone.. soon or later, she will just get tired of this childish reaction.
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Dude/Dudette which do poly you come from?
Cause I'm in the same situation as you. Got this female classmate of mine very buay song with me cause I think that time I wrote about a post showing showcasing the superiority of english educated chinese against chinese educated chinese on my blog. Apparently she read it and took it as an insult and from then on , It has been cold war all the way
I guess what my friend said was right , in poly , it's every man/women for him/herself
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most likely u r gal as well...am i rite?
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i am a guy la......and from temasek poly and thought poly is supposed to be mature...they even pass notes during lectures...wah piang..how old liao....class true colours finally come out.
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u r a guy... erm.. then i reali dont understand why she do tat
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best part..when she insult me about something, i just ignore and kept quiet......she called me Thickskinned!! for goodness sake!!!, i kept quiet to avoid creating a scene and she called me dumb and timid...
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Sigh.... politics... It happens everywhere. In the classroom, the workplace... you name it.
The best idea is to not get involved in them and go it alone. If those b*tches still want to badmouth you, go ahead and let them waste their energy and saliva doing that. I'm sure you have better things to do than to listen to them.
Reminds me a lot of when I was working at a hotel while on vacation. I was a bellhop, and most of the other bellhops (around my age) would badmouth me behind my back. Most of them are lowly-educated, and took the fact that I'm an undergraduate as an indication that I'm snobbish, rich, pampered, no street smarts, etc....
I found out about this from one of the nicer older bellhops. Now I know why they always seem to enjoy picking on me, criticising me, belittling me, etc...
Come on... if I ever did anything that resembles snobbishness, I don't know what it is. I did my best to remain humble and polite, I mixed around with them, treated them as I would treat anyone else, etc...
In the end all those politics were affecting my mood and I became depressed. After a few weeks I went up to my manager and told her that I was quitting - even though I still had four more weeks to school.
I'm out of work with nothing to do - but I'm much happier now.
However, it also struck me that by quitting, I may have played straight into the hands of those jerks. -
i was quite fine the first few weeks of poly..dun know how things became like this, this is not wat i totally expected
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Crap are all around..Live with it..Some are hated while some are liked..
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Hey. I used to be in the same situation as you! Got this girl in my class who is a nerd. And for some reasons, she just hated me. When I tried to talk to her, she diao me and look away. When I asked her questions, she would look away and say" Can I not reply you?". But now, things seem to be better lar, I ignore her, she ignore me.
Yah, like you, I thought poly is suppose to have mature students...but I must mention my dissapointment with the maturity standard of the school....from what I see, only the business school seems to have more matured students. -
Just let it pass la.. the best way to deal with hatred is to ignore it.. confronting will only lead to more hatred or misunderstanding.. although that might resolve the problem.. just lead your life as normal and think about the happier things.. dont think too muchOriginally posted by online55:i was quite fine the first few weeks of poly..dun know how things became like this, this is not wat i totally expected
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Guy get harrased by gal? Wow....I don't see that that often....
The obvious way to response is to act "gentleman", don't chap her, let her be the bitch that she is. Show your attitude more. Show your "manliness" if need be.
The less obvious way is to harrase her back. If she pick on you, pick on her back but that requires some technique....
Maybe it's her way of "wanting" your attention? -
maybe she trying to get ur attention lah
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i dun want to fight back...waste of time, btw, poly class must stay together for 3 years 1 huh
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this is true poly life ... dont worry time will tell the truth ...Originally posted by online55:i was quite fine the first few weeks of poly..dun know how things became like this, this is not wat i totally expected
heck care about that girl
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The best thing is like wat i said earlier.. ignore her.. jus let her do watever she wan.. i dont think your frens going to listen to all her nonsense and ignore you..
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Whats your course? Anyway you have FAST, so you wont really get to see your class that often....Originally posted by online55:i dun want to fight back...waste of time, btw, poly class must stay together for 3 years 1 huh -
Sch of IT,ITOOriginally posted by shade343:Whats your course? Anyway you have FAST, so you wont really get to see your class that often.... -
If your course has certain options for you to select, your class may split up, if not, too bad. Learn to adapt.Originally posted by online55:Sch of IT,ITO -
even if split up class due to diff options, u will still see her in ur caregroup.
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ignore her lor.
anyway hor this happened b4 to a friend, some idiot pass love letter in his name to a girl then in the end the girl start to aviod him and etc. this might just be the case.
anyway good luck -
Originally posted by fudgester:Sigh.... politics... It happens everywhere. In the classroom, the workplace... you name it.
The best idea is to not get involved in them and go it alone. If those b*tches still want to badmouth you, go ahead and let them waste their energy and saliva doing that. I'm sure you have better things to do than to listen to them.
Reminds me a lot of when I was working at a hotel while on vacation. I was a bellhop, and most of the other bellhops (around my age) would badmouth me behind my back. Most of them are lowly-educated, and took the fact that I'm an undergraduate as an indication that I'm snobbish, rich, pampered, no street smarts, etc....
I found out about this from one of the nicer older bellhops. Now I know why they always seem to enjoy picking on me, criticising me, belittling me, etc...
Come on... if I ever did anything that resembles snobbishness, I don't know what it is. I did my best to remain humble and polite, I mixed around with them, treated them as I would treat anyone else, etc...
In the end all those politics were affecting my mood and I became depressed. After a few weeks I went up to my manager and told her that I was quitting - even though I still had four more weeks to school.
I'm out of work with nothing to do - but I'm much happier now.
However, it also struck me that by quitting, I may have played straight into the hands of those jerks. -
Send her love letters and she'll avoid you , trust me
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she can broadcast the letters to the class, & who will get it in the end?Originally posted by SMAPLionHeart:Send her love letters and she'll avoid you , trust me