Sexual feelings towards teenage son
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no wonder so many ugly old and middle age women (chinese indian tamil hidu malay) molest me on the train every day to work so u r one of them...please go call pimp for gay and gigolo k
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he likes it in the assOriginally posted by Jane_Ong:I am a single mother in my mid 30s. I have a 17 year old son who was born to me when i was 18 due to my teenage pregnancy. I have never been attached afterwards.
I had been very close to my son all these years but i had been sexually attracted to him. So far i had only done petting with him is this normal for single mother like me? I will be in trouble if anyone hears. I do not want to seek counselling yet. -
Originally posted by Jane_Ong:I am a single mother in my mid 30s. I have a 17 year old son who was born to me when i was 18 due to my teenage pregnancy. I have never been attached afterwards.
I had been very close to my son all these years but i had been sexually attracted to him. So far i had only done petting with him is this normal for single mother like me? I will be in trouble if anyone hears. I do not want to seek counselling yet.
oh no.. what is the world coming to? -
Look guys, this is AA. Leave your heckling in CC or Bar.
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Me puzzled..Originally posted by laurence82:Look guys, this is AA. Leave your heckling in CC or Bar.
I find that such things can be true... The 2 of them rely on each other for almost 20 yrs... Hmm... -
why not.. just do it lor.....free clean sex everyday at home... better then go chionging right?Originally posted by sbst275:Me puzzled..
I find that such things can be true... The 2 of them rely on each other for almost 20 yrs... Hmm... -
you know it is abnormal lady~
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instead of throwing our moral values at her, why not counsel her out of this?
she noes its abnormal too... -
Maybe...Originally posted by laurence82:instead of throwing our moral values at her, why not counsel her out of this?
she noes its abnormal too... -
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Actually, Im not sure whether its ok. I remember reading the bible about a story in which a daughter had sexual intercourse with her father...But I think Incest is against the law because of the emotional instability that follows it.
My advise is: If you are afraid that your son might be emotionally affected by your actions, stop any kind of sexual thinking you have about your son. -
clone?
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Did you make the first move towards your son?Originally posted by Jane_Ong:lately things have been getting out of hand. I dont want to prolong this any further but if i stop either he or i will be depressed. We were together for so many years. my parents both have passed away and i have few realtives to support us. -
To Jane_Ong
I may be a decade younger than u but i have worked as a youth volunteer but i what i feel about this whole issue
It is morally wrong in the eyes of society but i think should try hard to stop this relationship from getting any further before your son grows up and loses all respect for u. i do understand both of u mother and son have been together since u were young. May i know is the father around? What is he doing?
This could be case of u seeing your son reminding of your hubby when he is not around or u can be expereincing mid life crisis . Usually single mothers will have emotional or relationship problems with others around them -
might be smap again.Originally posted by OldAhPek:clone? -
This is definitely NOT okay. Incest is not something which can be taken lightly.Originally posted by Jane_Ong:lately things have been getting out of hand. I dont want to prolong this any further but if i stop either he or i will be depressed. We were together for so many years. my parents both have passed away and i have few realtives to support us.
I'm not exactly sure what you mean by 'things have been getting out of hand', but if it is what I think it is, then both of you need professional help. Pronto. Seek a professional counsellor. I'm not sure what we can really do to advise you here. You may try to excuse your actions by saying that it helps alleviate depression - but the way I see it, those actions of yours are contributing to the depression.
It's normal for a parent and child to show affection for each other, but when sexual thoughts are involved, that is really, really abnormal. -
might not. this is AA. benefit of doubt please.Originally posted by freedom4ever:might be smap again. -
No. I dont think so...I sense a genuine case...Originally posted by freedom4ever:might be smap again. -
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x2. I've seen all manner of cases during SAF Psychiatric Medicine In-patient Centre duty during NS that will make your eyes pop out of their sockets. I've seen incest cases before. This case may or may not be a genuine case.... but let's just err on the side of caution and take it as genuine, please?Originally posted by HENG@:might not. this is AA. benefit of doubt please. -
Son follow Father what do u expect. A chip from the old block.Originally posted by Jane_Ong:The father is not around since he abandoned us 18 years ago I don know his whereabouts. And I have no intention to take him back if he return. The biggest mistake i made in my life.
Lately my son is trying to initiate sex within the limits i set and i am afraid i will lose control of myself. -
Originally posted by Vivek Oberoi:Son follow Father what do u expect. A chip from the old block.
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Introduce your son a girlfriend...maybe it will have him a better idea of a healthy relationship.Originally posted by Jane_Ong:The father is not around since he abandoned us 18 years ago I don know his whereabouts. And I have no intention to take him back if he return. The biggest mistake i made in my life.
Lately my son is trying to initiate sex within the limits i set and i am afraid i will lose control of myself.
If u really love your son pls step out of this immoral intentions. -
sorry.Originally posted by shade343:No. I dont think so...I sense a genuine case...