Big surprise for ex
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Originally posted by FeowFeow:Hmmmmmm... *ponderz*
Ok, just for discussion's sake, have you ever wondered:
Would a person who's absolutely perfect be perceived as unattainable by other people? Hence they probably won't want to chase him/her anyway? What about the person who's absolutely perfect, would he/her want to accept a partner who's flawed, unlike him/herself?
Then, if 2 people, who're flawed, deeply love & accept each other, & are very happy together, wouldn't their love be just perfect for them, warts & all?
So perhaps Not being perfect may be perfection in itself to some people?
I talk until I dunno what crap I'm saying 
FeowFeow Love is not about finding the perfect one.
It's about loving an imperfect person perfectly.. Is that what you mean?
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Man..after reading so many replies from so many wonderful people, i have come to a conclusion that 90% of the people are giving u reasonable and understandable statements whereas to NOT get into it too much! But i know u still got ur doubts.. o.k..lets just say u give the benefit of the doubt..mmm...mmmm.. i wonder.. hmmm.. i bet the middle girl.. is playing with ur balls.. or they BOTH playing with ur balls. Only way is to ask ur ex. ' DID U SAY U WANT *the things stated*' only way for u to find out.. i know its a bit harsh but better then u not knowing.. if things turn out good. u can just say..'coz i dun trust ur friend, i love u baby.. just checking''
U need to co-relate the stories...because if u dun.. thats why there are lots of people out there being suckered. Ah fudge it.. just spend the 100 bucks..why spend it on something meaningful like smokes...booze and drugs rite? ' -
The smokes, booze & drugs sound like a better idea in this situation, actually. He'll need it to numb the pain, because truth hurts
FeowFeowOriginally posted by BadzMaro:Man..after reading so many replies from so many wonderful people, i have come to a conclusion that 90% of the people are giving u reasonable and understandable statements whereas to NOT get into it too much! But i know u still got ur doubts.. o.k..lets just say u give the benefit of the doubt..mmm...mmmm.. i wonder.. hmmm.. i bet the middle girl.. is playing with ur balls.. or they BOTH playing with ur balls. Only way is to ask ur ex. ' DID U SAY U WANT *the things stated*' only way for u to find out.. i know its a bit harsh but better then u not knowing.. if things turn out good. u can just say..'coz i dun trust ur friend, i love u baby.. just checking'' U need to co-relate the stories...because if u dun.. thats why there are lots of people out there being suckered. Ah fudge it.. just spend the 100 bucks..why spend it on something meaningful like smokes...booze and drugs rite? ' -
The best way is to accept the truth and get on with life.Originally posted by FeowFeow:The smokes, booze & drugs sound like a better idea in this situation, actually. He'll need it to numb the pain, because truth hurts
FeowFeow
Smokes and boozes won't get him anywhere.
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Screw her then scram off ! Do it quick ! heh
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I would not be as quick to classify her as a money digging cheebai because as far as I know , she was NEVER that type....
I think her friend (the messenger) is the one who is scheming all of this , putting words into her mouth but then again I might be wrong.
Until I find out that who the money digging cheebai is , I'll be prepared for the worst... -
Well, maybe they'll still help in a way to soften the blow?
Anyway, he's underaged
FeowFeowOriginally posted by Mao x 2:The best way is to accept the truth and get on with life.
Smokes and boozes won't get him anywhere. -
You know, foul language is Not classy. Honestly.
When I was younger, I used to think it was cool (teenage years). Now, I understand that it makes 1 look very unrefined.
Anyway, Nobody is pointing accusations that your ex, they're just giving you their point of view, which is what you asked for. If you feel the need for defence of your ex, & you're Not willing to accept others' viewpoints, AND you perceive others of trying to defame her, then I would suggest that perhaps you:
1. Either Not post, or
2. Have an open mind.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by rammstein619:I would not be as quick to classify her as a money digging cheebai because as far as I know , she was NEVER that type....
I think her friend (the messenger) is the one who is scheming all of this , putting words into her mouth but then again I might be wrong.
Until I find out that who the money digging cheebai is , I'll be prepared for the worst... -
Guess I wasen't really much of my usual self yesterday. Did a lot thinking concerning your replies which stressed me out a little bit. My entire mind was centred around this topic so much so that I have trouble concentrating on my books.
Well , a new day has finally arrived. If you tell me to smoke , no thanks because the last time I ever had a real puff , I fell sick for one whole week the very next day. So I guess it was kinda a bad experience. If you tell me to drink , I drink in moderation.
Anyways I sms her last night to ask her to meet up to clearify some issues with her. The reason being I wanted to test her sincerity in all aspects. Seems like I've yet to get a reply from her AGAIN (as expected). Something fishy is cooking up... -
With $100 , I can buy 4 months worth of playtime for World of Warcraft....Originally posted by Mao x 2:The best way is to accept the truth and get on with life.
Smokes and boozes won't get him anywhere. -
Yeah.. but don't neglect your studies..Originally posted by rammstein619:With $100 , I can buy 4 months worth of playtime for World of Warcraft....
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Save your $ lah. Things are Not the best way to measure love
FeowFeowOriginally posted by rammstein619:Guess I wasen't really much of my usual self yesterday. Did a lot thinking concerning your replies which stressed me out a little bit. My entire mind was centred around this topic so much so that I have trouble concentrating on my books.
Well , a new day has finally arrived. If you tell me to smoke , no thanks because the last time I ever had a real puff , I fell sick for one whole week the very next day. So I guess it was kinda a bad experience. If you tell me to drink , I drink in moderation.
Anyways I sms her last night to ask her to meet up to clearify some issues with her. The reason being I wanted to test her sincerity in all aspects. Seems like I've yet to get a reply from her AGAIN (as expected). Something fishy is cooking up... -
Yeah that's quite true...
I also don't know what to do now. But if her current attitude still persist , then I guess I should not be bothered with her....
Let the dating games begin!!!!
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Don't worry lah , I already have a personal time table for myself liao....Originally posted by Mao x 2:Yeah.. but don't neglect your studies..
6-7pm - Practice music
7.30pm - 10pm - World of Warcraft
10pm onwards - Books
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Oh well. Take care and good luck, pal.Originally posted by rammstein619:Don't worry lah , I already have a personal time table for myself liao....
6-7pm - Practice music
7.30pm - 10pm - World of Warcraft
10pm onwards - Books