Age is such a mighty barrier
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It happened again.
I got rejected flat, she only want to be friend.
My eyes got wet when I received that SMS, my colleagues thought what had happened but I am a guy, no matter how much pain I am feeling, I will always bottled it up.
Why does gals care so much about a figure.
Is it that important or is it just an excuse?
I am such a failure, no one I love ever love me.
Am I asking too much?
I really should just find a hole somewhere and live like a hermit.
Love is such a burden that I don't ever want to go near again. -
grieve and move on bah...
one day you will find someone who love you just the way you are
I believe in that and it didn't disappoint me
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what talking you?Originally posted by Kenashi:It happened again.
I got rejected flat, she only want to be friend.
My eyes got wet when I received that SMS, my colleagues thought what had happened but I am a guy, no matter how much pain I am feeling, I will always bottled it up.
Why does gals care so much about a figure.
Is it that important or is it just an excuse?
I am such a failure, no one I love ever love me.
Am I asking too much?
I really should just find a hole somewhere and live like a hermit.
Love is such a burden that I don't ever want to go near again.
you are only 26!!! -
wish you have better cupid luck next round
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...so sorry to hear this...looks like you always kena sh|t.Originally posted by Kenashi:It happened again.
I got rejected flat, she only want to be friend.
My eyes got wet when I received that SMS, my colleagues thought what had happened but I am a guy, no matter how much pain I am feeling, I will always bottled it up.
Why does gals care so much about a figure.
Is it that important or is it just an excuse?
I am such a failure, no one I love ever love me.
Am I asking too much?
I really should just find a hole somewhere and live like a hermit.
Love is such a burden that I don't ever want to go near again.
Be strong...there is always a someone for everyone. You just haven't found your's yet. But she is surely out there waiting to cross your path. -
What's her age?Originally posted by Kenashi:Why does gals care so much about a figure.
Is it that important or is it just an excuse? -
are you sure?Originally posted by I_am_PeTe_Parker:...so sorry to hear this...looks like you always kena sh|t.
Be strong...there is always a someone for everyone. You just haven't found your's yet. But she is surely out there waiting to cross your path.
there are so many singles the 'there is always a someone for everyone' saying has now become a legend. -
ya, that's why she said i am not old enough.Originally posted by dragg:what talking you?
you are only 26!!!
Age is something I have no ctrl, what can I do, take a medicine that will make me age overnight. -
I don't want cupid to visit me anymore.Originally posted by InnoHippo:wish you have better cupid luck next round
might as well just live as a single forever
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omg! n i tot u're just 24Originally posted by Kenashi:ya, that's why she said i am not old enough.
Age is something I have no ctrl, what can I do, take a medicine that will make me age overnight. 
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i tot u 24 this year?
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I once thought so too, but love has failed me time n again.Originally posted by rainee:
grieve and move on bah...
one day you will find someone who love you just the way you are
I believe in that and it didn't disappoint me
I have a phobia of love maybe it wasn't meant for me -
Perhaps you're just not moving in the right direction...?Originally posted by Kenashi:It happened again.
I got rejected flat, she only want to be friend.
My eyes got wet when I received that SMS, my colleagues thought what had happened but I am a guy, no matter how much pain I am feeling, I will always bottled it up.
Why does gals care so much about a figure.
Is it that important or is it just an excuse?
I am such a failure, no one I love ever love me.
Am I asking too much?
I really should just find a hole somewhere and live like a hermit.
Love is such a burden that I don't ever want to go near again.
If today it wasn't the 'age factor' which fails you but something else... Would it have made you any better...? -
what to do, even my nickname foresee my fateOriginally posted by I_am_PeTe_Parker:...so sorry to hear this...looks like you always kena sh|t.
Be strong...there is always a someone for everyone. You just haven't found your's yet. But she is surely out there waiting to cross your path. -
Dear Kenashi,
Poor thing... What a girl considers important is subjective. Some feel age is important (hence ageism), some feel wealth is important (hence materialism), some feel ambition is important (ambitionism?), some feel character is important. Usually, girls, and guys alike, will have an acceptable set of qualities which they hope their other halves will have. This isn't necessarily bad, it just means the girl you like & yourself have different preferences.
Age, understandably, is a factor. Since I don't know what age your crushie is, I'll just have to give both sides of the coin:
1. If the age difference between both of you is large, then:
If you're much older, than she may wonder about the quality of life both of you will have in future. You may Not be able to take part in the things she wants to do. Different energy levels. It depends on whether she's willing to be accommodating, something which may change as a person ages. There's also the part about maturity levels, which everybody has discussed ad nauseum, & it's such a cliche that it'd be an embarrassment to repeat here.
2. If the age difference between both of you is small, then: It could be just her pretext for her rejection, & is Not really a factor in her decision. She may have No feelings of that kind for you, but is hard-pressed to find a reason why. Maturity levels again, plus differences in income (if she's older than you, or earns more than you).
Whilst I admire your perseverance, I would like to advise you that there is also a fine line between persevering & plain butting your head against the wall. You're intelligent enough to differentiate between the 2. Thus, I wish you good luck in what you later decide to do, & hope it's a wise decision made after much thought.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by Kenashi:It happened again.
I got rejected flat, she only want to be friend.
My eyes got wet when I received that SMS, my colleagues thought what had happened but I am a guy, no matter how much pain I am feeling, I will always bottled it up.
Why does gals care so much about a figure.
Is it that important or is it just an excuse?
I am such a failure, no one I love ever love me.
Am I asking too much?
I really should just find a hole somewhere and live like a hermit.
Love is such a burden that I don't ever want to go near again. -
I don't know cos she doesn't want me to know.Originally posted by choco B:What's her age?
I respect her decision. Up till now, I still don't have a clue -
Originally posted by dragg:are you sure?
there are so many singles the 'there is always a someone for everyone' saying has now become a legend.
i am hoping the statement is true...
I waiting for her -
I turned 26 on april.Originally posted by shinta:i tot u 24 this year? -
No, but at least I know where my weaknesses lie.Originally posted by Devil1976:Perhaps you're just not moving in the right direction...?
If today it wasn't the 'age factor' which fails you but something else... Would it have made you any better...?
I don't like to lose to something I have no control over. -
you are in love with someone whose age you dont even know?Originally posted by Kenashi:I turned 26 on april. -
wah liao...sorry bro...offence not intended.Originally posted by Kenashi:what to do, even my nickname foresee my fate
When the right person comes along...you will surely find love. -
count your blessing. At 26, you only have to wait, and be sure you will turn 36 one day. At 36, you can only dream about being 26 once more.Originally posted by Kenashi:ya, that's why she said i am not old enough.
Age is something I have no ctrl, what can I do, take a medicine that will make me age overnight. -
yoz, ken ah....like that u sure to get hit by nails mah....if a lady don't want u to know....meaning she is not comfortable to tell u too much....how to accept u as a future partner to be???Originally posted by Kenashi:I don't know cos she doesn't want me to know.
I respect her decision. Up till now, I still don't have a clue
umm maybe sgforum should start a thread on the dos and don't of finding the rite one...
i rem this guy whom i don't know much....i join him and his friends for some events...but thru out the events...i (well its girl's six sense at work...sense there could be some liking in me) kept a distance from him....but he gong gong cannot feel it....still wrote me a letter...u say leh...i hv no choice but to return a nice and friendly letter to reject lah..... -
just be glad at least its only a short pain lor.....
u will find one that has reciprocal feelings for u....
good luck! -
My principle is working against my feeling.Originally posted by FeowFeow:Dear Kenashi,
Poor thing... What a girl considers important is subjective. Some feel age is important (hence ageism), some feel wealth is important (hence materialism), some feel ambition is important (ambitionism?), some feel character is important. Usually, girls, and guys alike, will have an acceptable set of qualities which they hope their other halves will have. This isn't necessarily bad, it just means the girl you like & yourself have different preferences.
Age, understandably, is a factor. Since I don't know what age your crushie is, I'll just have to give both sides of the coin:
1. If the age difference between both of you is large, then: If you're much older, than she may wonder about the quality of life both of you will have in future. You may Not be able to take part in the things she wants to do. Different energy levels. It depends on whether she's willing to be accommodating, something which may change as a person ages. There's also the part about maturity levels, which everybody has discussed ad nauseum, & it's such a cliche that it'd be an embarrassment to repeat here.
2. If the age difference between both of you is small, then: It could be just her pretext for her rejection, & is Not really a factor in her decision. She may have No feelings of that kind for you, but is hard-pressed to find a reason why. Maturity levels again, plus differences in income (if she's older than you, or earns more than you).
Whilst I admire your perseverance, I would like to advise you that there is also a fine line between persevering & plain butting your head against the wall. You're intelligent enough to differentiate between the 2. Thus, I wish you good luck in what you later decide to do, & hope it's a wise decision made after much thought.
FeowFeow
I wish to pursue her relentlessly but my principles forbid me to do so.
I have already decided to remain as friend. Better to be her friend forever n see her happy than to lose her forever.
If given the choice, I will rather butt my head against the wall until either my head crack or a hole open on the wall.
But logic shall always persevere for me, I am not such an emotional person.