finally came to your senses, good on you!Originally posted by married_man:thanks to those who has provided me with invaluable advise, appreciated, and yes, i think i should move on, i guess it's the devil in me that makes my mind run wild and didn't think of the consequences, rest assured, i will from now on, not think of J again and respect her as my sister-in-law and nothing more, a line must be drawn, thanks again people!
and to those who think that i am forum_man, lonely_man or whatever, keep up the good effort, cuz i am not
that gave me an ideaOriginally posted by jOhO:well u first have to decide what u want.
then u go and get it and not be "3 heart 2 meaning" (or watever it translates to - san xing er yi)
in other words, if u wanna concentrate on the marriage and not let anything happen to it, STOP MAKING EXCUSES TO SEE J!
if u want J, then go for broke and do what u need to and er.. prob screw ur life.. or not.
anyway it's pretty clear wat is the right thing to do, altho i very well know the lure of the forbidden fruit. u want wat u cannot get.
so i guess u can stop posting with this nick and be urself again.Originally posted by married_man:that gave me an ideayes, i want to build on my marriage, in fact, i think i wanna have a baby, to spend more worth while time with my family, yes, that's what i'll do, no more excuses, thanks dude!
let me go talk to my wife about having a baby now, bye!
LOL real ar ??Originally posted by uhbaden:This reminds me of a story:
I was a very happy person. My wonderful girlfriend and I had been
dating for over a year, and so we decided to get married. There was
only one little thing bothering me. It was her beautiful younger
sister.
My prospective sister-in-law was twenty-two, wore very tight
mini-skirts, and generally was braless. She would regularly bend down
then she was near me, and I always got more than a pleasant view of her
private parts. It had to be deliberate. She never did it when she was
near anyone else.
One day the "little" sister called and asked me to come over to check
the wedding invitations. She was alone when I arrived, and she
whispered to me that she had feelings and desires for me that she
couldn't overcome. She told me that she wanted to make love to me just
once before I got married and committed my life to her sister. Well, I
was in total shock, and couldn't say a word.
She said, "I'm going upstairs to my bedroom, and if you want one last
wild fling, just come up and get me."
I was stunned and frozen in shock as I watched her go up the stairs.
When she reached the top she pulled off her panties and threw them down
the stairs at me.
I stood there for a moment, then turned and made a beeline straight to
the front door. I opened the door, and headed straight towards my car.
Low and behold, my entire future family was standing outside, all
clapping!
With tears in his eyes, my father-in-law hugged me and said, "We are
very happy that you have passed our little test. We couldn't ask for
better man for our daughter. Welcome to the family."
And the moral of this story is:-
Always keep your condoms in your car!