My wife is not mature
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when I 1st talk to my wife ... she said she love me and will not divorce and promised to stop contacting those guys .... but behind my back she still contact them n still going out wif them .... in the end she wanted to divorce .... and I wanna save the marriage and I told her I will forgive her but she must really stop all activities wif those guys in order to prove her love to me and sincere abt the marriage .... but she told me no way she will stop contact them and if I wanna save the marriage I must not bother wat she did and who she contact .... we ended up seperated .... den she told me she neber love me at all ..... wat I can say is once she started .... it very hard for her to change .....Originally posted by Geri91:to my opinion, maybe u should talk it out with her very seriously...
let her know the seriousness of this matter and her attitude too...
ask her if she really loves you..and the family. if so, not contacting her ex-bf is a small case to her, just to prove her love for you..and many other things too
im quite sure the chances are high for you to win the custody of your son, if your wife is really that case... but before you take up this decision....you should consider hard and the consequences. cos to be husband and wife, this is fate that brings you & her together.
to have a divorce, its normally when the other party has flings outside....
thats only an opinion
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but at least now u moved on...if the other half can says these kinda things, theres no point holding back this r'ship then.Originally posted by maxcp:when I 1st talk to my wife ... she said she love me and will not divorce and promised to stop contacting those guys .... but behind my back she still contact them n still going out wif them .... in the end she wanted to divorce .... and I wanna save the marriage and I told her I will forgive her but she must really stop all activities wif those guys in order to prove her love to me and sincere abt the marriage .... but she told me no way she will stop contact them and if I wanna save the marriage I must not bother wat she did and who she contact .... we ended up seperated .... den she told me she neber love me at all ..... wat I can say is once she started .... it very hard for her to change .....
i always feel if theres true love, anything can be sacrificed for the other half.
in fact for myself, i have given up contacting my those boy-friends..becos of my husband...and as time goes by, he trusts me even more everyday...likewise he did it for me as well....as long as theres true love, theres nothing so difficult...
look forward to a more fulfilling r'ship...im sure you will have one
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thksOriginally posted by Geri91:but at least now u moved on...if the other half can says these kinda things, theres no point holding back this r'ship then.
i always feel if theres true love, anything can be sacrificed for the other half.
in fact for myself, i have given up contacting my those boy-friends..becos of my husband...and as time goes by, he trusts me even more everyday...likewise he did it for me as well....as long as theres true love, theres nothing so difficult...
look forward to a more fulfilling r'ship...im sure you will have one
I hope so too