love or bread?
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Guy 1: u love him more, but he is lazy n aimless... dun feel secure with him at all.... however feel comfortable with him..
Guy 2: have got the bread and is hardworking and more mature..... u like him...
who'd u choose?? -
2!
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pls be serious. me very dilemma now... pls..Originally posted by StarPuppy:2! 
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guy 1 like u? can change him?
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Why not 2 ?Originally posted by Steph84:pls be serious. me very dilemma now... pls.. -
2 hmm
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again ah? whats wrong this time?
u might wanna watch the movie "swet home alabama"
might give u a hint of an answer.. -
both guys like me....Originally posted by margarita:guy 1 like u? can change him?
if guy 1 not lazy n aimless, i will def choose him..
but its been 2 yrs..... think laziness is in his blood
tats y now i afraid if i continue to be with guy 1, i will regret.. on the other hand, i still love him... -
i choose guy 1 ..
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follow your heart no matter what..
don't let other issues affect you..
most importantly is to follow your heart
the only reason that it could be to be in a relationship is love.. -
too!!!
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its always there the probOriginally posted by nOrmalbOi:again ah? whats wrong this time?
u might wanna watch the movie "swet home alabama"
might give u a hint of an answer..
sibei sian -
pls gif the logic behind ur choice... ty
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Originally posted by nOrmalbOi:again ah? whats wrong this time?
It's rather obvious. When you ask people if they want Bread or Love.
In your eyes, you can see and it is as close as the basic truth you can get.
Your vision is clear, the mind speaks and process well, your heart tells you one is Love and one is Bread.
Your judgement and analytical skills are ok, you're able to seperate between Love and Bread.
The answer is obvious.
Love = Feelings, intangibles.
Bread = Money, power and materials.
And you actually have it.
It's not a matter of following your heart, i reckon you see which is a better bet to place on. Your security is at stake, hence asking for the 'right' decision. Either side has it's shortfall and it's all up to you to make it right.
It all depends on your preference and needs. No one is going to blame you for your choice.
Cheers -
Why not 1?
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great answer.... tyOriginally posted by M©+square:
It's rather obvious. When you ask people if they want Bread or Love.
In your eyes, you can see and it is as close as the basic truth you can get.
Your vision is clear, the mind speaks and process well, your heart tells you one is Love and one is Bread.
Your judgement and analytical skills are ok, you're able to seperate between Love and Bread.
The answer is obvious.
Love = Feelings, intangibles.
Bread = Money, power and materials.
And you actually have it.
It's not a matter of following your heart, i reckon you see which is a better bet to place on. Your security is at stake, hence asking for the 'right' decision. Either side has it's shortfall and it's all up to you to make it right.
It all depends on your preference and needs. No one is going to blame you for your choice.
Cheers
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MC square.. u are really correct.. i tot abt it and yea, i noe the difference... i know what will happen with regards to each guy i choose...
however, i jus cant decide on wad am i ready to give up and what am i ready to live with... i jus cant make up my mind...
i'm afraid if i choose guy 2, i will still miss guy 1 and that i am unable to love guy 2 as much as i love guy 1....
however, with guy 1, im sick of the insecurities about his future, having to pay this pay that for him... worry abt his studies (when i haf to worry abt myself too). wads worse is thru out this 2 yrs, i've been constantly tokking abt this prob to him.. but i see no progress in the way he handles his life and about his plans for the future.. or abt us.....
Guy 2 is already working.. i think im attracted to him cos he is nice to me, hardworking and mature... an organised person...
maybe cos guy 2 doesnt have any of the problems that guy 1 has... tats y he seems so attractive.....
there u are.... all my dilemmas........................ feast...
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Originally posted by Steph84:
Hi.. i think you have answered yourself the question by questioning yourself...
MC square.. u are really correct.. i tot abt it and yea, i noe the difference... i know what will happen with regards to each guy i choose...
however, i jus cant decide on wad am i ready to give up and what am i ready to live with... i jus cant make up my mind...
i'm afraid if i choose guy 2, i will still miss guy 1 and that i am unable to love guy 2 as much as i love guy 1....
however, with guy 1, im sick of the insecurities about his future, having to pay this pay that for him... worry abt his studies (when i haf to worry abt myself too). wads worse is thru out this 2 yrs, i've been constantly tokking abt this prob to him.. but i see no progress in the way he handles his life and about his plans for the future.. or abt us.....
[b]Guy 2 is already working.. i think im attracted to him cos he is nice to me, hardworking and mature... an organised person...
maybe cos guy 2 doesnt have any of the problems that guy 1 has... tats y he seems so attractive.....
there u are.... all my dilemmas........................ feast... [/b]
give up guy 1
go for guy 2
if guy 1 really loves u.. he will change ..
guy 2 will be the best person.. -
nah i know guy 1 wun change.... even now i've told him abt this prob very seriously n we're at cooling period, he has not told me once that he will change... haiz..Originally posted by nightyoung:Hi.. i think you have answered yourself the question by questioning yourself...
give up guy 1
go for guy 2
if guy 1 really loves u.. he will change ..
guy 2 will be the best person..
but i noe i love guy 1 more. tats y i dilemma. think i jus dun haf the courage to gif him up. -
Steph,Originally posted by Steph84:Guy 1: u love him more, but he is lazy n aimless... dun feel secure with him at all.... however feel comfortable with him..
Guy 2: have got the bread and is hardworking and more mature..... u like him...
who'd u choose??
U shld know better urself.. cos ultimately u r the one who is going to walk the future with the guy tat u choose..
All of us here could only give u advises..
Best wishes -
I was type 1 b4 but even then, I wouldn't like my girlfriend (which I dun hv) to pay things for me.
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*joke time*Originally posted by Steph84:nah i know guy 1 wun change.... even now i've told him abt this prob very seriously n we're at cooling period, he has not told me once that he will change... haiz..
but i noe i love guy 1 more. tats y i dilemma. think i jus dun haf the courage to gif him up.
I think if croco were to answer ur question, he would gv u a 3rd alternative
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tats so sweet of u... thanks....Originally posted by Blueskyz:Steph,
U shld know better urself.. cos ultimately u r the one who is going to walk the future with the guy tat u choose..
All of us here could only give u advises..
Best wishes
haiz ya deep in my heart... i noe onli i can decide.. oh man.. it feels like a gamble..
and im not a gambler -
I think u shd take ur time to decide. You can try to ask your guy friends on what they think of the two suitors.Originally posted by Steph84:tats so sweet of u... thanks....
haiz ya deep in my heart... i noe onli i can decide.. oh man.. it feels like a gamble..
and im not a gambler -
The One You Love
I know you need a friend
Someone you can talk to
Who will understand what you're going through
When it comes to love
There's no easy answer
Only you can say what you're gonna do
I heard you on the phone
You took his number
Said you weren't alone, but you'd call him soon
Isn't he the guy
The guy who left you cryin'
Isn't the the one who made you blue
When you remember those nights in his arms
You know you've gotta make up your mind
Are you gonna stay with the one who loves you
Or are you going back to the one you love
Someone's gonna cry when they learn they've lost you
Someone's gonna thank the stars above
What you gonna say when he comes over
There's no easy way to see this through
All the broken dreams
All the disappointments
Oh girl -- What you gonna do
Your heart keeps sayin' it's just not fair
But still you've gotta make up your mind