love or bread?
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hahaha what can I say, Great minds think alike......
wa like that must really cut off my finger nails liao. so difficult to type long essay with long nailsOriginally posted by FeowFeow:Hehehehehehe, HIGH 5
Smudgey = Feow Feow # 2
Now FeowFeow doesn't need to write essay already, Smudgey says it exactly like how I wanna say it, so Smudgey can say it for me
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FeowFeow,Originally posted by FeowFeow:MC,
What I'm saying is that, others COULD infer different meanings from what she had written. You interpreted it right, I interpreted it the way she intended for us to interpret it, but Starblue didn't.
However, re-reading her post, I could see why Starblue drew her conclusion.
Get it?
FeowFeow
I'm not sure if we are looking at the same direction. Might be due to reason that i'm a guy?
Couldn't see why StarBlue drew her conclusion.
Also couldn't see how steph84 can successfully enter into realm of Love with Guy 2 at this moment.
Steph's dilemma could be 'which to choose, not which to love.'
However i'm interested to see how you interprete Starblue's post.
This Love and Bread issue is always interesting, very interesting.
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But how much does the guy 2 love Steph? Maybe just like.
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I think Starblue's post was like this:
If you're in a relationship with Guy 1 now, & you love him, how could you even reach the stage whereby you like Guy 2? How could you allow so much interaction to the point where you're actually CONSIDERING him? And letting him ask for a chance with you?
Something like that?
Let's say you're the Guy 1 now, MC... Even if you're lazy now, you're still young (guys mature later, generally speaking), who knows whether or Not in future you'll become more driven?
And just because you're lazy now, doesn't give your gf to look elsewhere & open up her options, correct?
Now let's switch the roles. If your gf had a particular trait you didn't like, does it give you the right to disrespect her by looking elsewhere & letting things happen to the point whereby you actually have another female "candidate" (for lack of a better word) for consideration?
I'd be a hypocrite if I said I wasn't like that, I was young, I did that kinda shiet before. And when I look back, I'm Not proud of the guys I used to hurt. So I get angry now, when I see girls doing this kinda thing. It's so damn hurtful to the guys.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by M©+square:FeowFeow,
I'm not sure if we are looking at the same direction. Might be due to reason that i'm a guy?
Couldn't see why StarBlue drew her conclusion.
Also couldn't see how steph84 can successfully enter into realm of Love with Guy 2 at this moment.
Steph's dilemma could be 'which to choose, not which to love.'
However i'm interested to see how you interprete Starblue's post.
This Love and Bread issue is always interesting, very interesting.
Cheers -
True...Originally posted by FeowFeow:I think Starblue's post was like this:
If you're in a relationship with Guy 1 now, & you love him, how could you even reach the stage whereby you like Guy 2? How could you allow so much interaction to the point where you're actually CONSIDERING him? And letting him ask for a chance with you?
Something like that?
Let's say you're the Guy 1 now, MC... Even if you're lazy now, you're still young (guys mature later, generally speaking), who knows whether or Not in future you'll become more driven?
And just because you're lazy now, doesn't give your gf to look elsewhere & open up her options, correct?
Now let's switch the roles. If your gf had a particular trait you didn't like, does it give you the right to disrespect her by looking elsewhere & letting things happen to the point whereby you actually have another female "candidate" (for lack of a better word) for consideration?
I'd be a hypocrite if I said I wasn't like that, I was young, I did that kinda shiet before. And when I look back, I'm Not proud of the guys I used to hurt. So I get angry now, when I see girls doing this kinda thing. It's so damn hurtful to the guys.
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HIOriginally posted by FeowFeow:Dear Steph84,
Just because a few interpreted it correctly, did NOT mean that you stated it correctly.
Regards,
FeowFeow
since u can actually get what i mean, i dun understand why are u hubbing on the issue of how i STATED my problem.
If starblue was unable to understand me, i'm sure she gets it now.
I'm jus posting this thread to seek opinions on my prob.. not to seek advice on how i should have stated my problem. argh.
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Love problems are never straight forward isn't it...Originally posted by FeowFeow:I think Starblue's post was like this:
If you're in a relationship with Guy 1 now, & you love him, how could you even reach the stage whereby you like Guy 2? How could you allow so much interaction to the point where you're actually CONSIDERING him? And letting him ask for a chance with you?
Something like that?
Let's say you're the Guy 1 now, MC... Even if you're lazy now, you're still young (guys mature later, generally speaking), who knows whether or Not in future you'll become more driven?
And just because you're lazy now, doesn't give your gf to look elsewhere & open up her options, correct?
Now let's switch the roles. If your gf had a particular trait you didn't like, does it give you the right to disrespect her by looking elsewhere & letting things happen to the point whereby you actually have another female "candidate" (for lack of a better word) for consideration?
I'd be a hypocrite if I said I wasn't like that, I was young, I did that kinda shiet before. And when I look back, I'm Not proud of the guys I used to hurt. So I get angry now, when I see girls doing this kinda thing. It's so damn hurtful to the guys.
FeowFeow
perhaps its cos i'm young now... so i'm committing those mistakes u wished u didn't...
but i tot my problem has come to an end... guess there's no need to ponder over it anymore. -
Just curious about it... are you a Gemini?Originally posted by Steph84:Love problems are never straight forward isn't it...
perhaps its cos i'm young now... so i'm committing those mistakes u wished u didn't...
but i tot my problem has come to an end... guess there's no need to ponder over it anymore.
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no.. me crabOriginally posted by Mao x 2:Just curious about it... are you a Gemini? -
Yun could tell you more about why 'one can Love one person yet still like another.'Originally posted by FeowFeow:I think Starblue's post was like this:
If you're in a relationship with Guy 1 now, & you love him, how could you even reach the stage whereby you like Guy 2? How could you allow so much interaction to the point where you're actually CONSIDERING him? And letting him ask for a chance with you?
Something like that?
Let's say you're the Guy 1 now, MC... Even if you're lazy now, you're still young (guys mature later, generally speaking), who knows whether or Not in future you'll become more driven?
And just because you're lazy now, doesn't give your gf to look elsewhere & open up her options, correct?
Now let's switch the roles. If your gf had a particular trait you didn't like, does it give you the right to disrespect her by looking elsewhere & letting things happen to the point whereby you actually have another female "candidate" (for lack of a better word) for consideration?
I'd be a hypocrite if I said I wasn't like that, I was young, I did that kinda shiet before. And when I look back, I'm Not proud of the guys I used to hurt. So I get angry now, when I see girls doing this kinda thing. It's so damn hurtful to the guys.
FeowFeow
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Void is a very powerful area which to any person who have the capacity to fill that void. The illusion of attraction is created. Security sets in and begin it's work onto the relationship.
Personally, I give my present gf the complete right to look for another better potential.
If she finds a better one. Then i'll bless her.
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My my...
You sure are ANAL about what people can & canNot post in your thread. If you want advice, we're giving it. And if your problem has ended, it doesn't mean you won't encounter it again.
I suppose there'll always be some who only want to see what they want to see & hear what they want to hear.
These, are Not worth my time.
Cya!
FeowFeowOriginally posted by Steph84:Love problems are never straight forward isn't it...
perhaps its cos i'm young now... so i'm committing those mistakes u wished u didn't...
but i tot my problem has come to an end... guess there's no need to ponder over it anymore. -
hmmm.. your birthday should be around end of June, right?Originally posted by Steph84:no.. me crab -
You have a point there too : )
However, since SOMEBODY restricts the kinda posts in her thread, I'll debate & discuss with you another time, yah?
On the basis that No offence is taken, ok? I just tell it like it is.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by M©+square:Yun could tell you more about why 'one can Love one person yet still like another.'
::Void is a very powerful area which to any person who have the capacity to fill that void. The illusion of attraction is created. Security sets in and begin it's work onto the relationship.
Personally, I give my present gf the complete right to look for another better potential.
If she finds a better one. Then i'll bless her.
Cheers -
Okie Dokes! No offense token.Originally posted by FeowFeow:You have a point there too : )
However, since SOMEBODY restricts the kinda posts in her thread, I'll debate & discuss with you another time, yah?
On the basis that No offence is taken, ok? I just tell it like it is.
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feow
is jus that u are not giving me advice about my prob.
and wad the hell since when have i been ANAL about it?
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actually I got this question in my mind? How much do think a guy shld earn to feel that he is providing enough bread for family? 2k plus? 3k? or even 4k? of cos the more $$ the merrier, but wad is the min?
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i'll Pass.Originally posted by Guy23:actually I got this question in my mind? How much do think a guy shld earn to feel that he is providing enough bread for family? 2k plus? 3k? or even 4k? of cos the more $$ the merrier, but wad is the min? -
hmmmm how u came to this conclusion??Originally posted by Mao x 2:hmmm.. your birthday should be around end of June, right?
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i think there is no minimum realli....Originally posted by Guy23:actually I got this question in my mind? How much do think a guy shld earn to feel that he is providing enough bread for family? 2k plus? 3k? or even 4k? of cos the more $$ the merrier, but wad is the min?
it depends on ur wife's and your own standards... what is the meaning of "comfortable" to u both i guess..
without kids, it's much lesser than with kids....
for me, i will want a combined income of 7K if i want to have kids....
muz provide them with good life if u wanna wan them..... tats my view la..
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hmmm.... nah.. just trying to see if my analysis is right...Originally posted by Steph84:hmmmm how u came to this conclusion??
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ask urself...
which one u can't live without?
easiest answer
i'd choose 2...
hmm i had an ex bf.. i liked him a lot that time.. broke up with himn after a few mths.dun feel secure at all... financially n physically
he gets into fights all teh time... he's earnin 1k plus every mth yet has to ask his family for money
that and many morehe's just 2 years older than us.. (i'm assumin u're 21 this year cos of teh 84..) -
yah.. my frens told me to choose the one i can't live without too... not the one u can live with...Originally posted by shinta:ask urself...
which one u can't live without?
easiest answer
i'd choose 2...
hmm i had an ex bf.. i liked him a lot that time.. broke up with himn after a few mths.dun feel secure at all... financially n physically
he gets into fights all teh time... he's earnin 1k plus every mth yet has to ask his family for money
that and many morehe's just 2 years older than us.. (i'm assumin u're 21 this year cos of teh 84..)
Guy 1 told me last night he still wanna be together... and i think i can't live without him actually...
Guy 2 jus cant gimme that kind of "feeling"... if u know wad i mean....
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share leh share leh!! wad analysis haha....Originally posted by Mao x 2:hmmm.... nah.. just trying to see if my analysis is right... -
Let him go. He deserves better.Originally posted by Steph84:Guy 2 jus cant gimme that kind of "feeling"... if u know wad i mean....
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ya.... i agree. will do that.Originally posted by choco B:Let him go. He deserves better.