The invitation has surfaced
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Look at it this way..at least she invited you than kept you in the dark right? She wishes for your presence cos u played an important part in her life you see? Now what would I do if I were in your shoes?
hmm..even though I may still have feelings for her and even though it tears my heart apart for her to be with someone else, I would go to her wedding. I'll keep all the residue feelings within myself. After all, its her special day, not mine. And I wouldnt want to regret anything later as a result of me not going. Who knows, that may be the last time I'll ever see her again..she may move to different corners of the world, her plane may crash on her honeymoon, etc. So, put your chin up and go to her wedding with no regrets later
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I agree with this...Originally posted by timble:Dear Toffee...
Personally, I feel that there is no need to bring anyone along... there is no need for pretense... cos ultimately you must know why you are doing that ( to give her your blessings or to show her that you are better off without her(by bringing a pretty girl along)...
If you feel that your ex really hopes you could attend but you couldn't face the situation, meet her earlier to pass her a wedding gift... -
Thanks everyone for you adviceOriginally posted by alexkusu:Look at it this way..at least she invited you than kept you in the dark right? She wishes for your presence cos u played an important part in her life you see? Now what would I do if I were in your shoes?
hmm..even though I may still have feelings for her and even though it tears my heart apart for her to be with someone else, I would go to her wedding. I'll keep all the residue feelings within myself. After all, its her special day, not mine. And I wouldnt want to regret anything later as a result of me not going. Who knows, that may be the last time I'll ever see her again..she may move to different corners of the world, her plane may crash on her honeymoon, etc. So, put your chin up and go to her wedding with no regrets later 
I guess I roughly know my decision liao
Thank you AA -
ya right.Originally posted by RaTtY81:but after knowing the truth, it would b clearer.
but sometimes I hope I nv asked.. I never heard what I dun want to hear. -
Oh? send my regards to herOriginally posted by ToffeeClub1929:Thanks everyone for you advice
I guess I roughly know my decision liao
Thank you AA
"Friends can develop into lovers, but never lovers into friends" -
funny, how sometimes we contradict ourselvesOriginally posted by browniebaobao:ya right.
but sometimes I hope I nv asked.. I never heard what I dun want to hear.
in one hand, we want the truth, at the other, we dun want to get hurt by things that we dun want to hear....
sighzz....humans
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Originally posted by alexkusu:Oh? send my regards to her
"Friends can develop into lovers, but never lovers into friends"
Tell that to Constance Chee -
In most cases.. cannot be frens.. but I do know of some who can really do it.Originally posted by alexkusu:Oh? send my regards to her
"Friends can develop into lovers, but never lovers into friends" -
yi qie shui yuanOriginally posted by browniebaobao:ya right.
but sometimes I hope I nv asked.. I never heard what I dun want to hear. -
think u misunderstood what im referring to.Originally posted by RaTtY81:yi qie shui yuan
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the most accurate answer is to ask yourself...Originally posted by ToffeeClub1929:My first topic in AA, and I believe this question has been asked so many times but just want to ask again.
Just received in my letter box today, the invitation card that I have been dreading all these while.
The invitation to my ex gf's wedding.
This is where the problem arise, should I go or not, and if yes, should I go alone?
Need advice
Confused ToffeeClub1929 -
go to the wedding or jsut b4 and try to convince her to come back to you lor thats why she sent you the invit...... she go rom cos go rom afterwards break can get money
anyway if you feel uncomfortable dun go just send your wishes -
woo hoo....champagne...just dun get too drunk...
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be a man, be gracious... you might even end up to be her child's god-father, and she your child's god-mother.
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