shy guys
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mayb its my quiet nature tat i dun talk much. most of the time i dun start a conversation with others.Originally posted by smudgey:well then tell me...
Imagine that you are in a group with someone you don't really know... and you find yourself feeling shy... why are you feeling shy... what are you afraid of? -
Originally posted by browniebaobao:I tot only me and ah lau like that... yuan lai ni ye shi?
ah lau aso shy? -
u mind to become my 1st target?Originally posted by browniebaobao:forums so many ladies wor.
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I guess just try to talk more...
for me I was shy because i was afraid that others would judge me, make fun of me and not want to be my friends... but slowly i realised that most ppl do not wait for ppl to come along so they can make fun and judge them, that most pl are sincere... and most of the time they are pretty accepting too EVEN if you make a fool of yourself.Originally posted by RaTtY81:mayb its my quiet nature tat i dun talk much. most of the time i dun start a conversation with others. -
hehehe you really don't seem too shy!!Originally posted by RaTtY81:u mind to become my 1st target?
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Originally posted by RaTtY81:u mind to become my 1st target?
where got so direct ask wan..
even if i wana zi tou luo wang... also not like that mah..
aiyo.. -
online maOriginally posted by smudgey:hehehe you really don't seem too shy!! if i online aso shy... den really jia lat liaoz -
Originally posted by browniebaobao:
where got so direct ask wan..
even if i wana zi tou luo wang... also not like that mah..
aiyo..
so u still wanna zi tou luo wang -
Originally posted by RaTtY81:
so u still wanna zi tou luo wang
man man deng~!
Deng jiu dou mei you!
Ben shi tong gen sheng, xiang jian he tai ji...
u and i are both rats.. y do u wana do this to me?
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u aso rat??Originally posted by browniebaobao:
man man deng~!
Deng jiu dou mei you!
Ben shi tong gen sheng, xiang jian he tai ji...
u and i are both rats.. y do u wana do this to me? 
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me born in year of rats. duno abt u tho.Originally posted by RaTtY81:u aso rat?? -
im social and outgoing, i used to be shy during pri sch but not anymore
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me roosterOriginally posted by browniebaobao:me born in year of rats. duno abt u tho. -
i pri sch not shy 1... dunno y reach sec sch become shy towards galsOriginally posted by coffeeortea:im social and outgoing, i used to be shy during pri sch but not anymore
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guessed as much la.Originally posted by RaTtY81:me rooster
bur ur nick is ratty81 mah, so fang guo wo ba. -
wei she meh yao fang guo niOriginally posted by browniebaobao:guessed as much la.
bur ur nick is ratty81 mah, so fang guo wo ba. -
i am also shy by nature, never had the will to go up to a girl and talk to her. i am scared that the girl will think i am a pervert and stay far far away from me.
this is also one of the reason that i am still single and feel lonely at times according to my thread. -
let us form the shy shy club
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i'm seldom shy, but when i talk to the girl i like, i get really nervous.. like i start making sure im dressed alright, all all this type of stuff, then again the last time i saw her was more than a year ago....
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LoL.! the SHy club.. i wonder whats the outing gonna be like LOL!!! what other words for Shy.. how about the Exiles ! hehe
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This is not being shy, it's normal kan cheong behaviour bec you wanna make a good impression on the gal mah.Originally posted by spvn:i'm seldom shy, but when i talk to the girl i like, i get really nervous.. like i start making sure im dressed alright, all all this type of stuff, then again the last time i saw her was more than a year ago.... 
Actually, shyness can be overcomed. Ask yourself: what is the worst thing that can happen if you speak up or approach someone, etc. At most (or the very worst worst worst), ppl may laugh or say you're silly, or reject your approach lor. And then so what? You will still be in one piece. Ppl laugh only at that ONE particular moment. After a while, they will forget about the episode. The only person who will remember it is perhaps yourself. After that, at least, you can tell yourself that you have tried (whatever it is), and you may become more thick-skinned. Whereas if you don't try or keep quiet, you may regret later for not even trying, then you'll only have yourself to blame.
Anyway, it's ok to laugh or even make ppl laugh. Don't have to take everything too seriously. I used to be quite shy when younger, bec. my spoken English was poor. But after getting older and perhaps with more experience, don't care so much about what others think, as long as my conscience is clear. Aiya, if ppl laugh, then laugh lor. -
si lao shu!Originally posted by RaTtY81:wei she meh yao fang guo ni
I take away all ur da mi ar! -
I tot there's already one?Originally posted by RaTtY81:let us form the shy shy club -
you know.. some guys are eloquent around his friends and other girls.. but when he speaks to this particular girl, suddenly he turns all red...
now that's what i call cute. -
tamade