what should i do?
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i love this ger very much,wooin her in e process,but her studies and results r better then mine.Another guy who also wooin her,his studies r also better then mine.Im so confused?should i continue wooing her or give up?because that really pressurised me
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huh??? you not kidding ba...
if she likes you, who cares if your result is not as good as hers... buck up... study harder... improve your grades... but
I highly doubt she'll reject you base on your results...
just go for it!!!Originally posted by boyboy18:i love this ger very much,wooin her in e process,but her studies and results r better then mine.Another guy who also wooin her,his studies r also better then mine.Im so confused?should i continue wooing her or give up?because that really pressurised me -
So, tell me what's the definition of your love towards this girl?Originally posted by boyboy18:i love this ger very much,wooin her in e process,but her studies and results r better then mine.Another guy who also wooin her,his studies r also better then mine.Im so confused?should i continue wooing her or give up?because that really pressurised me -
i mean i am not the always-fail type.But now the world looks to have change? i have seen girls who might want their bf to have higher qualification or ability then themOriginally posted by smudgey:huh??? you not kidding ba...
if she likes you, who cares if your result is not as good as hers... buck up... study harder... improve your grades... but
I highly doubt she'll reject you base on your results...
just go for it!!! -
miss her.love her.never want to give her up,unless,she don't wants me or there's unseen situationsOriginally posted by dcx:So, tell me what's the definition of your love towards this girl? -
well we all have the right to choose who we want to be with...
If you like her and (because of this grades issue) you decided not to even try to woo her, you are choosing for her!
you did not even give yourself a chance, for her to get to know you and then decide for herself...Originally posted by boyboy18:i mean i am not the always-fail type.But now the world looks to have change? i have seen girls who might want their bf to have higher qualification or ability then them -
Bet you'll not succeed.........Originally posted by boyboy18:miss her.love her.never want to give her up,unless,she don't wants me or there's unseen situations
you did not even answer my question.....haiz.....
I'll ask other questions then..
1) How much you know abt her?
2) Have you ever talk to her? How long?
3) Does she know you like her? -
still not mature..
u v sure that's love?
if tat's love, y the 'should woo or not?' question?
and.. u think results means everything? -
Hey... just don't tell me you have the kind of thinking tt u must be of higher standards than the girl. Go for it regardless of gd or bad results man...
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u r right,your sentence really wakes me up.It really seems like i'm choosing for her.But i can't get off the idea that studies will be a factor in a BGR although i don't have that in my mind whether she should be more capable then me anotOriginally posted by smudgey:well we all have the right to choose who we want to be with...
If you like her and (because of this grades issue) you decided not to even try to woo her, you are choosing for her!
you did not even give yourself a chance, for her to get to know you and then decide for herself... -
1)Very muchOriginally posted by dcx:Bet you'll not succeed.........
you did not even answer my question.....haiz.....
I'll ask other questions then..
1) How much you know abt her?
2) Have you ever talk to her? How long?
3) Does she know you like her?
2)Yes,for months,its just more than a love at 1st sight
3)Yes. -
i'm sure that's love.Because i can feel it.Should woo anot is a choice,i don't want her feel insecure next time.Results or qualification might mean to some.Originally posted by browniebaobao:still not mature..
u v sure that's love?
if tat's love, y the 'should woo or not?' question?
and.. u think results means everything? -
the Key word is "will be"
let it be a factor.... in the future.
point is if you like her... try. if you dont bother to even try, then you never liked her that much...Originally posted by boyboy18:u r right,your sentence really wakes me up.It really seems like i'm choosing for her.But i can't get off the idea that studies will be a factor in a BGR although i don't have that in my mind whether she should be more capable then me anot -
browniebaobao, when we all were young, being infatuated, puppy love, didn't we all felt and thought that it was true love?
it's all part of growing up i guess...Originally posted by browniebaobao:still not mature..
u v sure that's love?
if tat's love, y the 'should woo or not?' question?
and.. u think results means everything? -
that's y i say still not mature lor..Originally posted by smudgey:browniebaobao, when we all were young, being infatuated, puppy love, didn't we all felt and thought that it was true love?
it's all part of growing up i guess...
I only feel love when I go on a r/s..
the so called 'loved' during my younger days are infatuation or crushes ba. -
hahaha ya... sweet memories though...
Originally posted by browniebaobao:that's y i say still not mature lor..
I only feel love when I go on a r/s..
the so called 'loved' during my younger days are infatuation or crushes ba. -
Attachment to physical things leads to suffering....
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Originally posted by shade343:Attachment to physical things leads to suffering....
are u thinking wat im thinking?
u mean when u get too physical wana hanky panky but cannot, tat's y 'suffering' har?
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no sweet leh..Originally posted by smudgey:hahaha ya... sweet memories though...
only wonder why i so silly.. -
Originally posted by boyboy18:i love this ger very much,wooin her in e process,but her studies and results r better then mine.Another guy who also wooin her,his studies r also better then mine.Im so confused?should i continue wooing her or give up?because that really pressurised me
People question your love for her, probably due to your age and thinking-wise because you are threatened over the fact that her studies is better than yours?
Only people who doesn't know much about themselves thinks that this is against them.
You mean when you chase her, you tried to impress her through the show of your academic knowledge and such?
Obviously not - then why do you have to implicate non-related issue, negatively, into consideration?
A guy, probably only better in studies, step into the competitive circle and you want to give up already?
You have already lost this girl... to yourself.
Cheers -
can u advise on when can i ask her to go into a r/s with me?asap or??Originally posted by smudgey:the Key word is "will be"
let it be a factor.... in the future.
point is if you like her... try. if you dont bother to even try, then you never liked her that much... -
Originally posted by Yunhaier:
i really can't help it People question your love for her, probably due to your age and thinking-wise because you are threatened over the fact that her studies is better than yours?
Only people who doesn't know much about themselves thinks that this is against them.
You mean when you chase her, you tried to impress her through the show of your academic knowledge and such?
Obviously not - then why do you have to implicate non-related issue, negatively, into consideration?
A guy, probably only better in studies, step into the competitive circle and you want to give up already?
[b]You have already lost this girl... to yourself.
Cheers[/b] -
if you dun try to help yourself, keep saying you cant help it, then what can we do for you?? pull your socks up, and pull it yourself. nobody's gonna pull it for you boy.
anyway, you're too young. do a bit of growing up first then think about r/s lah... -
Frankly speaking...though you're 18yrs old (I suppose so), many would feel that you're not ready for a relationship...(That girl may feel so too..MAY...)
You shouldn't be asking ppl what shld you be doing to court her n have her as your gf....it's all up to yourself....be original... -
hiyo.... how can advise on that...
start by asking her out... chat with her... build a friendship first... judge her response... see if she's interested... if she agrees to go out one on one with you it means that she most probably has a liking for you...
slowly take your time, and enjoy the courtship... bottom line take it slowly...Originally posted by boyboy18:can u advise on when can i ask her to go into a r/s with me?asap or??