what should i do?
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Are you wooing someone based on results?If its the case den you'll surely fail..
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i'm not,but i scare she isOriginally posted by stellazio:Are you wooing someone based on results?If its the case den you'll surely fail.. -
Boy, spend more time in your study. This is not the right time for love yet, once you have started making money in future with good education, you will be bale to find someone who is much better.
Study hard, many kids in poor countries do not even have the chance to go to school, remember this.
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Don't be confused lah...Originally posted by boyboy18:i love this ger very much,wooin her in e process,but her studies and results r better then mine.Another guy who also wooin her,his studies r also better then mine.Im so confused?should i continue wooing her or give up?because that really pressurised me
If you already wooing her, you obviously know you don't bother about her results bla bla bla in the first place...
You no need a thinker to tell you you are simply just no confident and you are already confused by the missed signals she might be giving you. Be yourself, be the best of yourself, maybe overtime she might fail her exams because she falls for you and start scribbling love notes on her exam papers...
Your problem is you are not ready yet lah... No worry, you think I also borned professional skirt chasers???
Be confident, imagine she's your closest aunty, and when the time is right, you can ask her to be your gf... Of course, usually the girl is already more or less decided to be your gf already before you even pop the question... -
Do you really understand her?
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Problem is... This guy doesn't even seem to understand himself in the first place...Originally posted by Mao x 2:Do you really understand her? -
spot-onOriginally posted by Elfred:Problem is... This guy doesn't even seem to understand himself in the first place... 
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u see,ppl.its specified in this reply.I wonder why so many people thinks that teenagers ought to study then go into a r/s when there's this line,"opportunity only knocks once".I just don't want miss the chanceOriginally posted by Frighter:Boy, spend more time in your study. This is not the right time for love yet, once you have started making money in future with good education, you will be bale to find someone who is much better.
Study hard, many kids in poor countries do not even have the chance to go to school, remember this. -
No worry. Whether she dating with anyone at all, you are still available. You know, she is pretty, but there are also other pretty gals around. Take this chance and understand yourself in romance, so next time you go out with her or you find another greater gal, you at least won't again and again and again be so unnatural.Originally posted by boyboy18:spot-on
No worry. When the time comes, no wanna get married also cannot one. -
Chance? Are you sure your will end up marry happily and stay together for the rest of your life!
Singapore is too comfort for our youngster, in many countries, children start work as young as 3 yrs old. -
Originally posted by boyboy18:i really can't help it
Then before you could ever hope to be anywhere near... you got to work on your psychological state first. Nothing works without a change of mindset and attitude.
You could perform the best chasing stance, but ultimately, you get nothing in the end. There will be something amiss and unless you clear your self doubt and put and see yourself equal as your crush and competitors, you would have big trouble trying to do anything at all.
This sense of helplessness is self generated. Your environment doesn't cause that - remember this.
Cheers -
Originally posted by boyboy18:
Why are you confused? The solution is pretty obvious, isn't it? Just study harder and work to get better grades. Exams are coming...
i love this ger very much,wooin her in e process,but her studies and results r better then mine.Another guy who also wooin her,his studies r also better then mine.Im so confused?should i continue wooing her or give up?because that really pressurised me
If you feel that you don't deserve someone, you're probably right. One who does not have confidence in himself has no right expecting others to have confidence in him. -
actually i know what each reply's meaning.Like,study 1st then love at this age,but i have the thinking too,i just don't know why i can't apply it to my life.Its like easier said than done
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If you can't help yourself, nobody else can.
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Not its not. Cessation of happines is suffering.Originally posted by browniebaobao:
are u thinking wat im thinking?
u mean when u get too physical wana hanky panky but cannot, tat's y 'suffering' har? -
i know,but sometimes,i already tried my best to overcome myself but i just can'tOriginally posted by Tuatau:If you can't help yourself, nobody else can. -
Originally posted by boyboy18:
Do your best and try again.
i know,but sometimes,i already tried my best to overcome myself but i just can't
If you keep telling yourself you can't, you're probably right.
"Your best? Losers whine about their best;
winners go home and fuck the prom queen."
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Originally posted by boyboy18:1)Very much
2)Yes,for months,its just more than a love at 1st sight
3)Yes.
Hmm... Why don't you put it altogether then?Originally posted by boyboy18:u see,ppl.its specified in this reply.I wonder why so many people thinks that teenagers ought to study then go into a r/s when there's this line,"opportunity only knocks once".I just don't want miss the chance
From what I see, since there's already so much going on between you and her, why don't you just let the flow carry on....?
If you must, try a few mild approaches and hints to see how she would react to it...?
The STUDIES... Well well... Like ALOT of people had said, it's IMPORTANT for your future lah... And since it's at the same time something which you think might act as a FACTOR for her judging of you, why don't you just WORK ON IT...? DOUBLING YOUR CHANCES yeah..?
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let the flow on?as in let nature takes it course or do sumthing about it?Originally posted by Devil1976:Hmm... Why don't you put it altogether then?
From what I see, since there's already so much going on between you and her, why don't you just let the flow carry on....?
If you must, try a few mild approaches and hints to see how she would react to it...?
The STUDIES... Well well... Like ALOT of people had said, it's IMPORTANT for your future lah... And since it's at the same time something which you think might act as a FACTOR for her judging of you, why don't you just WORK ON IT...? DOUBLING YOUR CHANCES yeah..? 
I know studies are important,i won't neglect it because of this.I just feel very strongly that she can be the one who can walk with me if there is tough roads ahead -
if i were a girl, i also wont chose u....
have no confience in urself....
scared to lose out to others even without fighting
look down on urself
does not believe in urself
chose u for wat?????
fren, if u don even have confience in u, u expect others to have confience in u??? -
ever wonder who gives you your pocket money>?
So as a student u are going to use your parents money to woo her?
Since u cannot decide and feels that she so call the "one and only girl for you"
just go up to her and say you love her. If she reject you then you can go back to studies. If she say she loves you then ask her to prove it to you by helping you study to get better grades. -
You should study.Originally posted by boyboy18:i love this ger very much,wooin her in e process,but her studies and results r better then mine.Another guy who also wooin her,his studies r also better then mine.Im so confused?should i continue wooing her or give up?because that really pressurised me 