Originally posted by daphne_1802:what would you do if you do not know who the child's father is?![]()
if it is not going to be ur child then don't do anything.Originally posted by daphne_1802:what would you do if you do not know who the child's father is?![]()
nice one.. he he he ~Originally posted by FeowFeow:Erm...
17 yo, pregnant & don't know who the father is?!
How many guys has this girl slept with?!
FeowFeow
Originally posted by Elfred:Don't need worry so much... now what age...?
But got child already then must think for your child... Don't anyohow sleep around and smear the child's image of you...
And don't try to hang to the first life-float you find... You'd need a ship to carry you and baby through the tough waters ahead in life, not any in-and-out life-floats which come and go easily...
All the best.
Poor parents, have to raise two generations of children?Originally posted by Bigmacky:hmm... i'm thinking if her parents know abt it... could be kinda disastrous... but at the age of 17... think it's wiser to give birth to the child..n ask seek help from parents to raise the child...
I can just say put her into the pig-cage, should I???Originally posted by FeowFeow:Now what age?No matter what age, shouldn't there at least be some erm, restraint?!
Oh well, at least you're helping her... I'm mostly speechless at the problem...
FeowFeow
i thought it costs about 10k for one genome to be sequenced??Originally posted by littlestream:DNA all the guys she slept with?![]()
Jot down the names of all the guys she slept with, while she can still remember. Date, time and place if possible.Originally posted by littlestream:DNA all the guys she slept with?![]()
put it out of its misery lest it becomes an idiot like its mother..hmm i wonder who is she....Originally posted by daphne_1802:what would you do if you do not know who the child's father is?![]()
Originally posted by Elfred:I can just say put her into the pig-cage, should I???
Wait she thought hopeless, then go jump... one jump kills two lives then I gonna be very guilty...
Actually, every individual has their kinda encounters... and this kinda of in-and-out things people like myself very hard to say. All I can say is, the society now not like hundreds of years back.
Just beware of trying to grab any float that comes back... you'd never make it well over the huges waves with a baby.
All the best to all who are in the same situation as her, or her friend/s.
Yes yes yes... I understood what you said. Which is why I saying, there are still some moral but not so much more senseless and rigid as before. And of course, when someone (a victim of eg. ignorance) is already standing at the edge of the walls about to jump...Originally posted by FeowFeow:You misunderstood what I meant, perhaps I didn't put it clearly in my last post. What I'd meant was that, even in this day & age, there are some morals that should be preserved. And even if you say that nowadays people should be less of a prude, surely people would've been educated about the benefits of using a rubber?
Sleeping with someone you love may be acceptable in this decade, but to the point where you don't even know who the father of your child is, is kinda being "extremely MODERN & with the times", isn't it?
Besides, in my last post, I did mention that at least you're helping her, which is a GOOD thing. Usually, I'd try to help, but I'm too horrified at the implication of her Not knowing who the father is, to be of much help at this point in time. How many guys had she slept with in the space of maybe 2 months?!
FeowFeow
Originally posted by Elfred:Yes yes yes... I understood what you said. Which is why I saying, there are still some moral but not so much more senseless and rigid as before. And of course, when someone (a victim of eg. ignorance) is already standing at the edge of the walls about to jump...
...I usually forget about the morals, and if I could, I'd go immoral just to pull him or her down to safety.
Moral is good for society when it doesn't harm or kill. We cannot simply look at morals, kiss and pray religiously to them without considering if certain things do make sense.
In this case, at least the girl got a baby from some not-so-socially-acceptable activities... Bur who knows the girl may have produced us the next wise Prime Minister or the future charity king... ...
The first good advisor of somebody called Liu Bei was a runaway convict for murdering... And Liu Bei was himself an icon of moral.
No problem.