pregnant at 17 years old..
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what would you do if you do not know who the child's father is?
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Erm...
17 yo, pregnant & don't know who the father is?!
How many guys has this girl slept with?!
FeowFeowOriginally posted by daphne_1802:what would you do if you do not know who the child's father is? -
if it is not going to be ur child then don't do anything.Originally posted by daphne_1802:what would you do if you do not know who the child's father is?
any decision is going to be a bad one -
gl hf gg
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nice one.. he he he ~Originally posted by FeowFeow:Erm...
17 yo, pregnant & don't know who the father is?!
How many guys has this girl slept with?!
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If not your child, leave it to the person to consider.
If your, than........, you should consider how to take care of him and bring him up if you want to give birth to him.
The plain of giving birth is just for the short period of time, bring him up and make sure that he become someone useful to the society is the hardest thing to do in life.
Think twice before any action taken -
Don't need worry so much... now what age...?
But got child already then must think for your child... Don't anyohow sleep around and smear the child's image of you...
And don't try to hang to the first life-float you find... You'd need a ship to carry you and baby through the tough waters ahead in life, not any in-and-out life-floats which come and go easily...
All the best. -
see lah......so young.....so high...till forget the rubbers....see lah.....tsk tsk tsk tsk....
if yours then nothing to say....if not yours....just sing song tok cock play mahjong lor....
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Now what age? No matter what age, shouldn't there at least be some erm, restraint?!
Oh well, at least you're helping her... I'm mostly speechless at the problem...
FeowFeowOriginally posted by Elfred:Don't need worry so much... now what age...?
But got child already then must think for your child... Don't anyohow sleep around and smear the child's image of you...
And don't try to hang to the first life-float you find... You'd need a ship to carry you and baby through the tough waters ahead in life, not any in-and-out life-floats which come and go easily...
All the best. -
No father also can raise ma..
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hmm... i'm thinking if her parents know abt it... could be kinda disastrous... but at the age of 17... think it's wiser to give birth to the child..n ask seek help from parents to raise the child...
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Poor parents, have to raise two generations of children?Originally posted by Bigmacky:hmm... i'm thinking if her parents know abt it... could be kinda disastrous... but at the age of 17... think it's wiser to give birth to the child..n ask seek help from parents to raise the child... -
DNA all the guys she slept with?
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I can just say put her into the pig-cage, should I???Originally posted by FeowFeow:Now what age? No matter what age, shouldn't there at least be some erm, restraint?!
Oh well, at least you're helping her... I'm mostly speechless at the problem...
FeowFeow
Wait she thought hopeless, then go jump... one jump kills two lives then I gonna be very guilty...
Actually, every individual has their kinda encounters... and this kinda of in-and-out things people like myself very hard to say. All I can say is, the society now not like hundreds of years back.
Just beware of trying to grab any float that comes back... you'd never make it well over the huges waves with a baby.
All the best to all who are in the same situation as her, or her friend/s. -
i thought it costs about 10k for one genome to be sequenced??Originally posted by littlestream:DNA all the guys she slept with?
anyway, if got child dunno who is father, nvm lah.. just get a surrogate father loh... -
What done cannot be undone, we should encourage her to face the fact.
She still has a long way to go in life. Maybe someone is kind enough to aknowledge the baby to be his son.
Anyone?
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Jot down the names of all the guys she slept with, while she can still remember. Date, time and place if possible.Originally posted by littlestream:DNA all the guys she slept with?
Later when the kid arrive, see who has the resemblence.
DNA to confirm. -
Hmm... hardly believe that clones will get pregnant...
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put it out of its misery lest it becomes an idiot like its mother..hmm i wonder who is she....Originally posted by daphne_1802:what would you do if you do not know who the child's father is? *looks at the thread starter* -
threadstarter havent replied...maybe topic wasnt serious.
Anyway, worse comes to worse, just use DNA testing. Now psychologists are calling for a law which prevents doctors from revealing 'explosive' results from DNA testing. But I think it applies to married couples. -
You misunderstood what I meant, perhaps I didn't put it clearly in my last post. What I'd meant was that, even in this day & age, there are some morals that should be preserved. And even if you say that nowadays people should be less of a prude, surely people would've been educated about the benefits of using a rubber?
Sleeping with someone you love may be acceptable in this decade, but to the point where you don't even know who the father of your child is, is kinda being "extremely MODERN & with the times", isn't it?
Besides, in my last post, I did mention that at least you're helping her, which is a GOOD thing. Usually, I'd try to help, but I'm too horrified at the implication of her Not knowing who the father is, to be of much help at this point in time. How many guys had she slept with in the space of maybe 2 months?!
FeowFeowOriginally posted by Elfred:I can just say put her into the pig-cage, should I???
Wait she thought hopeless, then go jump... one jump kills two lives then I gonna be very guilty...
Actually, every individual has their kinda encounters... and this kinda of in-and-out things people like myself very hard to say. All I can say is, the society now not like hundreds of years back.
Just beware of trying to grab any float that comes back... you'd never make it well over the huges waves with a baby.
All the best to all who are in the same situation as her, or her friend/s. -
well, i guess you can roughly estimate by checking how many weeks old your baby is and start counting backwards? heh that's the only solution i can think of now... instead of goin 4 all the expensive DNA tests..
its up to u whether u want to abort the baby or nt.. but in my opinion, its just so wrong and sad to take away a new life in such a cruel manner.. hwever if we look at things at a realistic angle, as a 17 yr old individual, ur education, and family relationships might risk being ruined after the birth of ur child..
well... maybe u can try sending him/her for adoption? and plz dont ever make this serious mistake again.. ya?
anyway, why sleep with so many men until you lost count and dunno who is the child's husband? not afraid you tio aids meh? hiak.
lastly, i encourage you to be more responsible in the future. practice safe sex lor. -
Yes yes yes... I understood what you said. Which is why I saying, there are still some moral but not so much more senseless and rigid as before. And of course, when someone (a victim of eg. ignorance) is already standing at the edge of the walls about to jump...Originally posted by FeowFeow:You misunderstood what I meant, perhaps I didn't put it clearly in my last post. What I'd meant was that, even in this day & age, there are some morals that should be preserved. And even if you say that nowadays people should be less of a prude, surely people would've been educated about the benefits of using a rubber?
Sleeping with someone you love may be acceptable in this decade, but to the point where you don't even know who the father of your child is, is kinda being "extremely MODERN & with the times", isn't it?
Besides, in my last post, I did mention that at least you're helping her, which is a GOOD thing. Usually, I'd try to help, but I'm too horrified at the implication of her Not knowing who the father is, to be of much help at this point in time. How many guys had she slept with in the space of maybe 2 months?!
FeowFeow
...I usually forget about the morals, and if I could, I'd go immoral just to pull him or her down to safety.
Moral is good for society when it doesn't harm or kill. We cannot simply look at morals, kiss and pray religiously to them without considering if certain things do make sense.
In this case, at least the girl got a baby from some not-so-socially-acceptable activities... Bur who knows the girl may have produced us the next wise Prime Minister or the future charity king... ...
The first good advisor of somebody called Liu Bei was a runaway convict for murdering... And Liu Bei was himself an icon of moral.
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Yes Yes Yes, you're the saintly guy who'll put aside morals to save lives when this poster hasn't mentioned suicide nor cliffs
If there was mention of it, perhaps I could get over my shock to give her some advice after thinking what her best alternatives would be.
Basically? In this particular thread, I don't agree with you. If this person IS suicidal, & there's a sense of urgency, then YES. I WOULD agree with you.
In any case, I don't understand your aggressive tone when I was replying amiably? Could it be, you see yourself as being as so righteous that anyone disagreeing with you is WRONG???
FeowFeowOriginally posted by Elfred:Yes yes yes... I understood what you said. Which is why I saying, there are still some moral but not so much more senseless and rigid as before. And of course, when someone (a victim of eg. ignorance) is already standing at the edge of the walls about to jump...
...I usually forget about the morals, and if I could, I'd go immoral just to pull him or her down to safety.
Moral is good for society when it doesn't harm or kill. We cannot simply look at morals, kiss and pray religiously to them without considering if certain things do make sense.
In this case, at least the girl got a baby from some not-so-socially-acceptable activities... Bur who knows the girl may have produced us the next wise Prime Minister or the future charity king... ...
The first good advisor of somebody called Liu Bei was a runaway convict for murdering... And Liu Bei was himself an icon of moral.
No problem. -
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