pregnant at 17 years old..
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call helpline
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Eh? Aggressive tone???Originally posted by FeowFeow:Yes Yes Yes, you're the saintly guy who'll put aside morals to save lives when this poster hasn't mentioned suicide nor cliffs
If there was mention of it, perhaps I could get over my shock to give her some advice after thinking what her best alternatives would be.
Basically? In this particular thread, I don't agree with you. If this person IS suicidal, & there's a sense of urgency, then YES. I WOULD agree with you.
In any case, I don't understand your aggressive tone when I was replying amiably? Could it be, you see yourself as being as so righteous that anyone disagreeing with you is WRONG???
FeowFeow
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Anyway, I assume of course the worst for her. Whether she really wanna jump or not that's not the issue.
Don't be over-sensitive. -
so where's the topic starter??
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Getting preggy at 17 is no joke leyx.
A moment of folly. Now she got herself in trouble. No point scolding her for having more than 1 sex partner. wats done cant be undone.
I guess the most important decision now is whether to keep the baby.
If she treasures life and willing to face hardship, keep the baby.
If she doesnt wish to be a mother so soon, abort hte baby. HOwever bear the consequences. She will live in guilt for life. *Ps: i know of someone who went thru 3 abortions n now she lives in guilt and despair.
if she feels tat she cant provide a proper family for hte baby, bear the child. Put him or her up for adoption. -
dunno who is the dad huh.. easy lor. blame the last guy she slept with. agree
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Either u can go for a DnA test for the foctus.
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Honestly. Is it your friend or is it you that you're bringing up this issue for?Originally posted by daphne_1802:what would you do if you do not know who the child's father is?
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easy...Originally posted by daphne_1802:what would you do if you do not know who the child's father is?
find out which possible father is the richest and marry him
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honestly at age 17, there is too much to lose. sad to say, the more practical way out is to drop it, learn to live with it, and neber to repeat it ever!
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It has to be her friend. A girl cannot possibly impregnate another girl.Originally posted by Devil1976:Honestly. Is it your friend or is it you that you're bringing up this issue for? -
pregnant is not me.. its my friend. i will relay these valuable comments to her. sorry for not replying on time because ive cleanly FORGOTTEN about this thread i made since i do not frequent this forums. my apologies.
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The mistake was the process.
But the Baby is not.
Stop whining about the Past, and start working for the future.
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sigh...
What's with kids these days. Can't she even remember where she work up at? -
tell her just abort that mistake before it's too late and remind her not to sleep with useless guys again. it's a mistake because kid's are supposed to be products of love from a mother and fatherOriginally posted by daphne_1802:pregnant is not me.. its my friend. i will relay these valuable comments to her. sorry for not replying on time because ive cleanly FORGOTTEN about this thread i made since i do not frequent this forums. my apologies.
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