At wits end to humour my gf
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JustMy2Cents,
Actually, based on your reply to Auntie Yun, I just have to clarify 1 thing.
Your gf may be kind to those who're less fortunate, but please remember that charity begins at home : ) I'm sure you know what I'm driving at.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by JuzMy2Cts:Hi all,
Been a night... at least she isnt ignoring me... later i'll go and get her favourite pastry to surprise her...
Smudgey: sometimes when you care too much about a person, you'll be afraid of speaking the wrong words... perhaps you need to let him know that no matter what he says or do, be it totally crap or the coolest thing ever, you'll give him that support and patience...
Starblue: thanks for your compliments... your guy will do the same for you too...
Ayukat: well... we have our plans and i'll never marry her if i can't provide her with a stable life even though i really want to... so i am working very hard now
Hxm: i told her that... but...
Canny: thanks for the tip... i'll keep the essence of it in my mind
Yunhaier: very philosophical but i get your meaning... well in some ways she is self centered... but she has her generous side too... she has a big heart in my eyes from the ways she help the elderly strangers and the donations she give to the poor on the street...
Nonetheless guys and ladies... i thank your generous efforts in giving me your opinions... wish me luck later -
its a boyfriend's job to be with his girl when she's down.
but if she needs constant humouring, then i think she needs a clown. -
Hi Bro Bull...
i will want to take up your bet/challenge and as what miss misty understands, my current state of mind hope you'll get eat your PC in the future, sorry... but if it really turns out that way please donate it to either miss misty or a charitable organization... but if things turn out otherwise, i'll buy you a non-metal meal... thanks for your advice still ...
misty i am no wall... to speak well i'm just committed... to speak bad i'm just another stone in the latrine... -
FeowFeowOriginally posted by www:
its a boyfriend's job to be with his girl when she's down.
but if she needs constant [b]humouring, then i think she needs a clown.[/b] -
Originally posted by FeowFeow:Hey, Chief Sitting Bull,
Long time No hear, how have you been? And how's your love life going?
FeowFeow
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AIte..... i take up your challenge as well... If this relationship leads to a happy ending, as in ROM, email me at [email protected] I swear i'll eat not my pc, but i'll eat 5 keyboard buttons.. KIV my email address.Originally posted by JuzMy2Cts:Hi Bro Bull...
i will want to take up your bet/challenge and as what miss misty understands, my current state of mind hope you'll get eat your PC in the future, sorry... but if it really turns out that way please donate it to either miss misty or a charitable organization... but if things turn out otherwise, i'll buy you a non-metal meal... thanks for your advice still ...
misty i am no wall... to speak well i'm just committed... to speak bad i'm just another stone in the latrine... -
Bro Bull,
On you lah... nah i wont want you to eat keyboard buttons... sushi you like? i'll inform you when the time comes... your email i noted down in my handphone liao... no worries...
misty you can come along if you want... -
wahh nowdays everything also can bet.
Relationship ending also can... -
i agree with the bro bullsting.u have to ask ursel whether ur job is a caring boyfriend or a cirque due solei clown / maid /driver /servant whose only role inlife is to humour a girl.please be sensible and think it through.if u still like her for who she is then i wish u all the best of luck
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tats a daring bet..Originally posted by Chief_SittingBull:AIte..... i take up your challenge as well... If this relationship leads to a happy ending, as in ROM, email me at [email protected] I swear i'll eat not my pc, but i'll eat 5 keyboard buttons.. KIV my email address.
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gd luck dude. u sounds like a nice guy.Originally posted by JuzMy2Cts:Bro Bull,
On you lah... nah i wont want you to eat keyboard buttons... sushi you like? i'll inform you when the time comes... your email i noted down in my handphone liao... no worries...
misty you can come along if you want...
u sound confident in urself.. but i suggest tat dun lay all ur emotions on her alone.. try spreading it a bit with ur family, friends.. so even if the worst do happen, u know u aways have someone u love around.
a penny for ur thoughts.
just my 2 cent worth. -
Loyal guys are hard to find these days.
But on a second note, getting with someone you really like is even harder.
Fate and Destiny plays a part.
WIsh you good luck Man...
Humor her by making her smile.
Just find out that makes her smile and improvises -
Hummm...i haf a fren's whose ex is exactly the same as yours. Down to the point about being very nice to elderly.
Anyway..the RS ended badly. With her cheating time and time again.
And really..this aren't a RS at all. Both of you aren't growing and learning from each other.
RS consist of Trust, Respect and Love.
She is obviously a taker and you are a giver.
It will come to a point whereby you are too emotionally and physically drain to give anymore and she will just leave since there is nothing to consume anymore.
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hi Binz, Drx, Sekundes, Gur, Pullup... thanks guys for all your advice and concern... i'm doing ok now and back on track w her... things calmed down and we talked and we had a nice weekend...
Aint putting down the value of my RS by taking up bull's challenge... i have to believe in myself... i'm not being optimistic, just not being pessimistic here... i wont ignore my own family and friends... she's quite a family ger herself and therefore she will understand the same need for me to care for my family too...
Gur, i understand your worries for me... blame me on my stubborness... but maybe i feel that love can never be equal... perhaps in this relationship i'll be giving a little more and a little less from her... i cant expect a dollar for a dollar kind of a treatment... maybe she loved me too much in our past lives and this time round i've to put in more efforts?
This forum is the best thing i found on net so far bec of you guys and gals...
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Poor Bull. I help u eat a bit...
since i so hungry liao./ -
Gur, i understand your worries for me... blame me on my stubborness... but maybe i feel that love can never be equal... perhaps in this relationship i'll be giving a little more and a little less from her... i cant expect a dollar for a dollar kind of a treatment... maybe she loved me too much in our past lives and this time round i've to put in more efforts?
This forum is the best thing i found on net so far bec of you guys and gals...
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Bro, honestly, i would rather see u, a complete stranger living in marital bliss, even if it involved me eating a couple of keyboard buttons..By the way, laptop buttons aint too difficult to digest... Take Care and God bless !! -
Bro, honestly, i would rather see u, a complete stranger living in marital bliss, even if it involved me eating a couple of keyboard buttons..By the way, laptop buttons aint too difficult to digest... Take Care and God bless !![/b][/quote]Originally posted by Chief_SittingBull:Gur, i understand your worries for me... blame me on my stubborness... but maybe i feel that love can never be equal... perhaps in this relationship i'll be giving a little more and a little less from her... i cant expect a dollar for a dollar kind of a treatment... maybe she loved me too much in our past lives and this time round i've to put in more efforts?
This forum is the best thing i found on net so far bec of you guys and gals...
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Don't need to be shy : ) I remember your case well, because if I recall correctly, you identified with my advice. From your blushing face, I shall assume that things are going very well?
My heartiest congrats. I'm really happy when others' relationships are going well
FeowFeowOriginally posted by Chief_SittingBull: