I didnt say its impossible.. but could be tough for most peopleOriginally posted by LazerLordz:I beg to differ.Twice.![]()
Yeah thats the way gal....Originally posted by -ohyeah-:i dun know that i am pestering him. I just wan to ensure whether i have a chance to patch up. this is my first experience this, i dun know i have over do it. i did ask him whether am i pestering him but he said no.. so i thought nothing happen
ok... from today onwards, i will not ask him such matters...
Originally posted by -ohyeah-:thanks... everyone for giving me advices...
last nite, i had a good talk wif him... i asked him whether he still love me.. he replied he didnt have the time to think such issues... coz he everyday busy wif his army stuff.. and barely have enough sleep. deep my heart, after he said this, i knew he no longer love me...... Am I correct to say that?
I have told him once more that is it possible for us to get together HE said that if he said that it is possible or impossible, he knew i would wait... in the end, he said that if there is a chance, we will be together.. It depends on fate... i feel so sad....![]()
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i ask him that whether is it possible for us to get together in dec, he just replied that he dun know wat will happen in dec.. i feeling sad again....
he kept saying i was not the cause of the breakup, i knew he was trying not to make me feel guilty....the more he did it, the more i feel guilty
I smsed him that i will changed for a better person for his sake to make him accept me again. i will do it..
I feel he still care for me... but he is hurt by me....
my friend felt that i dun have to go to the extent to beg him to patch up.. but i was the one who broke up such relationship. He said the way i did it had lost all the woman's pride.
am i wrong to beg him??? i just feel that i have hurt this person, it is correct for me to do..... maybe i am such a shameful....
Originally posted by drx:want to ask u something.
Can u stop pushing your guy over the edge?
Everytime u meet, u asked can we be lovers, can we patch back and does he love you at all or not. I can even feel the heat from here. He got to work especially in the army where life is tough and just one wrong move can kill a person.
Cool down.. you likes to be pester everyday? True love need not be said out in words but felt through the actions of the other party.
If you say you love him then be patient a bit. What is the point of him saying that he still loves you when in his heart he does not mean it at all?
Your ex is giving you another chance so treasure it well.. if he does not why would he even borther to talk to you?
My advice for you is
1) Stop asking whether he loves you or not.
2) Do something nice for him like bake him a cake or make a nice necklace with his name on it.
3) Learn to control your temper.
Originally posted by -ohyeah-:now... i am kind of worried...wat if i have changed myself for better..and he still refuse to patch back...
COz he knows how is the feelings like when a couple break and patch back.. he himself has experienced this b4.
So i dun know how firm his decision will be when he c me there is a change in me. I really hope i can change his thinking.
I know army has worn him out physcially and mentally. that's y he can tolerate me anymore.
I really worried his love for me will fade away...... now i only have to let nature takes its own coz......
Trying to find a way to amend may be means enough for some guys, but not all. Not sure if your guy can be one of them. Ultimately be sincere and understand that he might possibly be emotionally tired and scared to re-enter into the relationship.Originally posted by -ohyeah-:and i hope he will appreaciate my effort of changing for his sake....
guys... the gal has hurt u and wan to amend... wat can a gal do to melt ur heart?