methods of asking a gal/guy to be ur stead..
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Hehheh... Don't tell me you GAY huh..??? EEK.....Originally posted by kofguy:fail then take it like a man lah.
wats there to be scared of, u nvr do anything wrong mah.
sometimes i'm really so sick of r/s n gers, u sacrifice so much time and money, can do so much for them, n just becoz they song song say dun wan then dun wan liao.
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okiez... think I got to learn from the expert himself.. ehehhehe~Originally posted by Larry:Well, I adopted the "ask on phone" (cos its really late) and "grab her hand" (cross the road mah.....) technique, and it works perfectly!!
And she is still my beloved gf!! (for these 4 yrs)
hmm... 4 yrs liaoz.. when get married??? hehehe~
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Think he dun mean to call u that way... just wasn't aware u are more sensitive towards the word.... We are still trying to understand and know each other better. So sometimes we just don't mean to step on anyone's tail. I mean it could have been Larry or myself that said that by accident or in the name of fun... still it's part of knowing u... u and ur character... Dun angree liaoz lahz.. okiez??? *sayang* *sayang*Originally posted by kofguy:bloody dun ever call me gay man.
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Think it's ur last paper today or rather yesterday... how was it???Originally posted by kofguy:hai...wat to do. gotta concentrate on studies 1st. anyway like this also can give us both some time to cool down, coz before the 'break-up' got some a misunderstanding which can be said was the spark that ignited the fire.
although both side got some wrong, (actually my frens all think is her fault) i also got some part in it, so dun totally blame her.
just hope that she would be willing to give it another chance...
yesterday when waiting for them to finish marking our projects, i muchiam got a wave of depression like that. 1 person run to bk there sit down.
then dunno why just started drawing, drew out a 1 page comic stating me feelings. after that almost wanted to cry.
Anyway, are things going well for the topic quoted above???
I can only say tomorrow, things will turn out to be better...
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WAAaahahaha.... *SAYANGZ KOF* :pOriginally posted by Bear:Think he dun mean to call u that way... just wasn't aware u are more sensitive towards the word.... We are still trying to understand and know each other better. So sometimes we just don't mean to step on anyone's tail. I mean it could have been Larry or myself that said that by accident or in the name of fun... still it's part of knowing u... u and ur character... Dun angree liaoz lahz.. okiez??? *sayang* *sayang*
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Hmm...Originally posted by kofguy:well exams over already.
she's either still in genting now, or already on the way back.
past few days, some things have happened that really made me rethink whether it's worth it to try again.
although i do believe that she does have feelings for me, i just feel that she doesn't really appreciate me and takes me for granted.
i used to think that she was someone who knows exactly what she wants, and that was what i liked about her. but looking back now, i see someone who thinks she knows what she wants, but actually would like something else.
maybe she just wants to keep me by her side, *just in case*, or maybe she really is willing to try again.
i've found that, like i used to, she will say something which although she may mean it at that time, but after a while she'll do the opposite. thus giving my frens the impression that she says 1 thing and does another.
i think that... i've already given up. if she wants to try again, i'll be willing too. but i won't take the initiative anymore.
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Hmmm.. not to bathe u in cold water, but seems that at the moment she's not ard. hence it's easier for u to say u have given up.. once she appear in front of u it might be a different matter...Originally posted by kofguy:well exams over already.
she's either still in genting now, or already on the way back.
past few days, some things have happened that really made me rethink whether it's worth it to try again.
although i do believe that she does have feelings for me, i just feel that she doesn't really appreciate me and takes me for granted.
i used to think that she was someone who knows exactly what she wants, and that was what i liked about her. but looking back now, i see someone who thinks she knows what she wants, but actually would like something else.
maybe she just wants to keep me by her side, *just in case*, or maybe she really is willing to try again.
i've found that, like i used to, she will say something which although she may mean it at that time, but after a while she'll do the opposite. thus giving my frens the impression that she says 1 thing and does another.
i think that... i've already given up. if she wants to try again, i'll be willing too. but i won't take the initiative anymore.
Somehow I think both of u dun even know wat each other want.. and even urself want, hence can't come up with a decision... from the way u put it. it seems as though there's a lot of things that are unsettled between the 2 of u. maybe u r trying to accommodate to her wishes, hence u are sort of waiting for an answer... think that's wat u r thinking... i suppose....
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wow..larry u are a fortuante guy ahz..4yrs not easy..hmm..this topic has receive great reponse ah! haha...cos i guess everyone has experiences to share! haha.. i think that when guys ask the crucial questn, they really look cute when they are shy..but if the guy is not paiseh when asking the question, forget abt that guy! he will probably haf too many experiences liao! so no longer paiseH !!!
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Or he's not true to the girl???Originally posted by joanne:wow..larry u are a fortuante guy ahz..4yrs not easy..hmm..this topic has receive great reponse ah! haha...cos i guess everyone has experiences to share! haha.. i think that when guys ask the crucial questn, they really look cute when they are shy..but if the guy is not paiseh when asking the question, forget abt that guy! he will probably haf too many experiences liao! so no longer paiseH !!!
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I can understand that ur feelings for her will not be given up so easily, becoz u have put in the effort to r/s.. If u can just forget it, u wun be posting here and u wun be having such a terrible time...
But till next feb will still be quite a time.. I would say it's too early to say anything. Even then... i think to a guy even it means u can't tian chang di jiu, cheng jing yong you will also make u happy. got a feeling that u still care for her and still want to care for her. even if it's just till the day she leaves for Aussieland.
Sorryz I may have provoked some disagreements and emotions but I think it's wat a guy will feel..
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Hi kofguy...
I tot this post is tokin abt methods of getting ur other to be ur steady, but it seems to be goin the other direction.
After goin through ur post, i can say tat if u feel or knew tat she's still got feelins for u. Then u should try ur very best to win her heart back. *Tested & Proven*
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How long it lasts, no one knows;
Love can erase an awful past,
Love can be yours, you'll see at last;
To feel that love, it makes you sigh,
To have it leave, you'd rather die;
You hope you've found that special rose,
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kofguy,
wah, seems that u are undergoing a tough time too. yup, i do agree that u better not get together wif her since u noe that u are going to part wif her again in the future n the pain gonna be greater than the previous time. although u really wanna get together wif her,even just for months, but i think time can lighten ur thought. life still continues.. do take caRE!~ *smilez* -
All the best to you to win the heart of ur lovely dame...
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Man.... Seems like EVERYONE in this forum have problems with LOVE.... How come nobody talk about something else...? Like... $$$???
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Haiz... this is the AA forum what? Talk money must go bank to talk...
I think i choose no. 5, its so much easier and not much embarassment lor. Wait cannot take the rejection, the face will show one... sob sob.
sms, icq cannot make it because they can ignore u know.