Relationship......should i or should i not?
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Originally posted by Young Stallion:
That's the way man. If u wanna slow down, just tell her in a nice way.
Haven't made up my mind yet....we are still frenz. [b]I want to get to know her better than rather to rush into things. I know she a bit upset.... because all she did was to be kind to me and was not able to return the gesture.
We went on a second outing together and she gave me a kiss on the cheek when i sent her back home. I was really suprised.
I think , i will take it slow for now & when she asks for my decision, i hope i'll make the right choice.
Thanks to all the bros & sis for their advice & guidance(^_^).
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A tip u can try, try using "we" and "I" instead of "you".
And btw to those arse, a wild gal can become guai suddenly, vice verse -
Think the best is to be honest and forthcoming with her.
Tell her frankly what u want in a r/s. But break it to her tactfully.
The most important thing is, dun lead her on.
The stronger she felt for u, the harder she will fall.
Since she likes u so much, she might just change for you.
If the r/s (if there is one) does not work in the long run, cutting down on those undesirable traits might do good for her.
Also point to note, having a broken family is no fault of her's. -
slow n steady is the wiser choice..........too fast too furious......might juz get heartaches.....dun sink too deep b4 u think it thru..........
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it seems u really like her despite her not "fitting" the ideal wifey type, cos u still went out with her and enjoyed your times together. y take time to decide and keep her hanging, y dun u tell her truthfully how u feel - that u like to be with her but u dun think dat she might be right for u for u two share very different interests etc, hear her side of the story or wat she has to say...
she being the clubbing type doesn't mean she isn't looking for a long term relationship. however when it comes to a long term r/s, to sustain it, the two pple in it mus share something in common, enjoy being with one another, have no problems communicating..
good luck! -
I decided just to remain as frenz...During the time we spent together, i never acknowledge her as my girlfren but as a fren. This point I made it clear during our first outing as I wanted to get to know her better but she had different opinion.
I tried to tell her as tactfully as possible......but stuff like this never workout as planned.....She got really angry and upset. I tried to apologise to her but she never respond.
I know she hates me but i did what i thought is right and the best for the both of us, it's better to tell the truth than to lead her on and play with her feelings. -
Originally posted by Young Stallion:I decided just to remain as frenz...During the time we spent together, i never acknowledge her as my girlfren but as a fren. This point I made it clear during our first outing as I wanted to get to know her better but she had different opinion.
I tried to tell her as tactfully as possible......but stuff like this never workout as planned.....She got really angry and upset. I tried to apologise to her but she never respond.
I know she hates me but i did what i thought is right and the best for the both of us, it's better to tell the truth than to lead her on and play with her feelings.
she must be really hurt...she feels that she has been only one-sided...anyway,try to apologise to her and tell her to move on and if she doesn't respond/does respond....whichever the case,its time u move on as only friendship in this case would still scar her heart
Cheers
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