hi, it's me again. wonder if some of you here still remember me. i was just talking about my guy who doesnt pop the question when we are sort of like a couple already. here's the update.
we are officially attached, for about 3 weeks now.

i used the "tell him my friend asked me if i am attached and say i don't know" technique. he was very silent after i told him that, then he suddenly ask me why i didn't think of him as a boyfriend.
so i told him i was not sure if he saw me as his girlfriend, so i didn't dare tell my friend i was attached. then he went, "WHY??!! you know i have always liked you!!"

to cut the story short, he asked me if i want to be his official girlfriend. so i just nodded my head.

and that was how it went.
thank you all for the advice. i cannot remember who gave me that piece of advice, but it really worked for me. so i just want to thank that person. thank you!!