Originally posted by kiekie:
Dear Kitty,
You feel neglected, unloved, and jealous is very natural as u still care for this r/s. However, u still have a long way ahead.
In reality, we only can choose to walk forward; how often do u see pple walking backwards on the streets ??
Like what other had advised, you should reconsider ur r/s wif ur bf. Does he possess the type of qualities u see in a bf u want? Ask urself...
Of cos u will feel reluctant to let go.. cuz it's not u who have a change of heart, it's him. He still hold on to u is because he cannot find any good reason to break off wif u cuz u did nothing wrong. Is it worth it??? Cry, cry out loud and get him out of ur life. U dun need a rascal in ur life to torment u.
However, it's up to u to decide to stay and continued to tolerate, or to leave for good. Who knows, u may be better off w/o his existence! Rather than waiting for him to find his right girl and then say bye bye to u, i rather u ditch him first.... at least u won't be that hurt... cuz it's u who dun want this r/s anymore.
U r young, there are lots of things for u to learn. Treat this as a lesson and have ur own life. U haven't seen the whole world yet and u wana stick wif this guy...for the rest of ur life? I dun say he's a jerk, cuz he's young too. And curious and most guys enjoyed the attention and thrills from the opposite sex and girls as well.
And u too, should give urself the opportunity to go thru this life process. It won't be the end of the world if u both are no longer an item. One day, u will be grateful for tat he treated u dis way. Cuz if he didn't, u will nv find ur true love.
Sry repost....
