at the expense of someone innocent ? .......Originally posted by ppinkpponk:sometimes illicit love can be true love.
Originally posted by ahkico:Pls help!
No no.. Is certainly not MI!!! If my guy see tis.. I'll get it from him liao..
I've tis gd friend.. Her bf is.. Well.. Ok ok lah.. Doesn treat her too well.. @ 1st he has some other gals behind her back.. Kinda flirtin ard.. But then stop le..
Jus came out from N.S.. Started workin.. Since then.. He'll always have no time.. Whole dae not even a msg from him.. Can last for few daes..
They also funny de.. Can break patch break patch..
My tis friend.. She got to noe tis guy.. Whom to her.. Is absolutely wonderful! 2 her..
But he's married!!!
They noe each other for erm.. mayb 3 mths bah..
They sorta went on dates? It first started when they meet for lunch tog.. and they kissed.. and then.. gd nite darlin..
i keep remindin her.. HE IS MARRIED WITH A KID!!! she noes.. say doesn expect anythin.. but he is so unlik her bf.. so caring, gentle. nice... etc..
I already goin lose my top liao!!
I told her everythin i could think off.. Wat retribution, u wouldn wan ur guy nx time to treat u tis way.. Tat now he's sweet.. but His wife surely will find out.. then quarell.. and then he'll tak it out on u..
The longer u got tog, the more u will expect.. then u can't date openly.. got to hide hide.. end up hurt is u.. stand to lose also the gal onli..
he isn a gd guy.. if can have affair behind his wife.. he isn a faithful guy.. etc..
i mangage to persuade her to last msg le.. she says ok ok..
but.. i asked her again.. she say meetin him for breakfast tomorrow..
haiz.. i reali dun feel lik botherin anymore.. told her reali shld last le.. then at most msg onli then stop.. but.. i don think it will end..
it isn my rite to stop her from doin wat she wants.. she says let her enjoy the care for a few more daes.. i'm fraid she will end up hurt.. and the guilt.. if it goes on.. OMG..
Any advice?
Any thing i can do to stop her?![]()
Originally posted by yunhaier:
...I have seen so many cases, where a person who cannot commit often find himself/herself being in situation where he/she will attract partners that is unavailable themselves. We attract qualities that we exude (This being Fourth Law of Love - CloUdiSm) Because you cannot commit due to your then-marriage when you scandal first begin two years back, you are such a perfect candidate for a relationship with him because he is seeking for people who cannot commit and at the time, you are simply just that. Look at him! He is also involved with another girl, who is unavailable (being attached)... and therefore I am not even surprised when you relate that part of the story....
Originally posted by ahkico:Pls help!
No no.. Is certainly not MI!!! If my guy see tis.. I'll get it from him liao..
I've tis gd friend.. Her bf is.. Well.. Ok ok lah.. Doesn treat her too well.. @ 1st he has some other gals behind her back.. Kinda flirtin ard.. But then stop le..
Jus came out from N.S.. Started workin.. Since then.. He'll always have no time.. Whole dae not even a msg from him.. Can last for few daes..
They also funny de.. Can break patch break patch..
My tis friend.. She got to noe tis guy.. Whom to her.. Is absolutely wonderful! 2 her..
But he's married!!!
They noe each other for erm.. mayb 3 mths bah..
They sorta went on dates? It first started when they meet for lunch tog.. and they kissed.. and then.. gd nite darlin..
i keep remindin her.. HE IS MARRIED WITH A KID!!! she noes.. say doesn expect anythin.. but he is so unlik her bf.. so caring, gentle. nice... etc..
I already goin lose my top liao!!
I told her everythin i could think off.. Wat retribution, u wouldn wan ur guy nx time to treat u tis way.. Tat now he's sweet.. but His wife surely will find out.. then quarell.. and then he'll tak it out on u..
The longer u got tog, the more u will expect.. then u can't date openly.. got to hide hide.. end up hurt is u.. stand to lose also the gal onli..
he isn a gd guy.. if can have affair behind his wife.. he isn a faithful guy.. etc..
i mangage to persuade her to last msg le.. she says ok ok..
but.. i asked her again.. she say meetin him for breakfast tomorrow..
haiz.. i reali dun feel lik botherin anymore.. told her reali shld last le.. then at most msg onli then stop.. but.. i don think it will end..
it isn my rite to stop her from doin wat she wants.. she says let her enjoy the care for a few more daes.. i'm fraid she will end up hurt.. and the guilt.. if it goes on.. OMG..
Any advice?
Any thing i can do to stop her?![]()
coz such man know how to please a lady..Originally posted by dragg:ask her to wake up.
that is exactly the thing with married man. they know the right buttons to push. i have seen and heard of it once too many.
it is always the usual scenario.
in the end your friend is the only one who stand to lose.
just dont understand some women. there are plenty of singles out there yet they choose to get involved with a married man.
i always believe it can be avoided.Originally posted by subarugal:coz such man know how to please a lady..
haa..
and all these isn't a choice to be choose.. certain just happen..
everyone is in fate... and like others has say love is an complex issue.![]()
wat abt if they lie abt their marital statusOriginally posted by dragg:i always believe it can be avoided.
stay away from people who married.
just the fact that he is married but yet try to be specially nice to you already tells you something is not right.
i really dont understand why women can fall for such man.
that only make it worst right?Originally posted by pinkygal76:wat abt if they lie abt their marital statusall the way ......
till the woman is so emotionally involved with him ................![]()
she noes he's married liao den still with him... hmmmOriginally posted by dragg:that only make it worst right?
the man is a liar!! yet the woman continue to be with him. he has literally cheated her.
tell me abt it.....some man are just LIARS ...Liars...Liars ALL THE WAY!!!!Originally posted by dragg:that only make it worst right?
the man is a liar!! yet the woman continue to be with him. he has literally cheated her.
not after hurting themselves and sometimes others.Originally posted by pinkygal76:tell me abt it.....some man are just LIARS ...Liars...Liars ALL THE WAY!!!!
the worst type of man is to cover their lies with more lies......sigh...my sympathy
lies with the wife & kid honestly....they r the innocent party after all............
woman think with our heart ...not with my mind at our weak moments.....
give the 3rd party gal some time......its a matter of time she will choose to leave him......a lot of my frenz who got involved choose to leave ultimately !!!
Ya...thats how some silly human beings can get ...we are creatures ofOriginally posted by dragg:not after hurting themselves and sometimes others.
this is really silly.