Involved with a married man...
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Tell me abt it.... feather of the same type flock togather issit?Originally posted by MRMUSICPRODUCER:your frd isnt gd either!!! 1 is a b i t c h, the other a b a s t a r d!!! so perfect match
there are togather for a reason.....a reason only they themselves comprehend....
thats why we advice so much for wat.....let them wake up their idea themselve.....
only be prepared to be there to offer a shoulder to cry on, listening ear..........
one of my gf almost wanted to commit sucide becoz of this matter........
but lucky manage to cool herself down...honestly not worth ending one life over
a man who doesnt deserve her affections!...... -
Matters of the heart cant be resolved overnight. Things aren't tt simple to the parties involved. Wat others can only see is only the surface of things. We use logic while they use emotions to judge n make decisions. Logic n emotions generally do not mix well together n hence the clash of opinions.
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how abt from i do have a friend i know.Originally posted by dragg:i always believe it can be avoided.
stay away from people who married.
just the fact that he is married but yet try to be specially nice to you already tells you something is not right.
i really dont understand why women can fall for such man.
the man didn't specially being nice to the lady.
But its juz happen ...
chinese saying " ri jiu shen qing"
maybe just the timing and feel is rite but status in the wrong channel.. -
like what pinkygal76 has say..Originally posted by mach10:she noes he's married liao den still with him... hmmm
he can chose to lie abt his status all the way.
and the lady may be very emotionally involved with him.
Anyway nobody luv to share food such relationship everyone involve will be hurt.
Unless the MBA is out for some cheap thrill and no feeling involve...
what a sick world
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+1Originally posted by pinkygal76:Ya...thats how some silly human beings can get ...we are creatures of
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humh...
this is a complex relationship.
One of my buddies came from such family whereby her mum is the 3rd party and still her dad chosen to go thru the sign off to be with her mum.
And according to my knowledge, her parents went thru few years of hard time before they really settle with each other.
Her dad 's ex-wife agree to the sign off coz she understand his feeling isn't there. And my fren's mum waited for 6 years before the whole drama ended.
And married only after 7 years of waiting. But her mum did remind daughter never to take the same path as her, coz the 7years is a great torture with lots of tears, loneliness and miserables.
There are such cases around.
Sometime such relationship happen, not only the man and mistress is in fault only. The wife is in fault too for not waking up and understand what went wrong in the marriage. For my fren's mum case is the wife always nag at my fren's dad showing less of care and concern. -
Thanks guys for all ur replies..
I reali am stuck now.. Haha.. Decided tat mayb i will jus offer my moral support.. Stop naggin so much.. But cont to remind her..
If i condemn her so much.. Wait worst.. She will have no1 to turn to.. And god noes wat she will do.. Though my advice goes to deaf ear.. Well.. at least i m there..
Hmm.. I dunno tat guy at all.. Coz.. I onli heard abt him thruout..
Well.. I don want to give much details of how she knows him.. Jus tat.. They noe each other durin lesson time.. Tat's all i'm willin to say.. hehe.. -
give her the support she needs. loving someone whose attached isn't easy on her too.
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yup..Originally posted by memor|es:give her the support she needs. loving someone whose attached isn't easy on her too.
and the path infront for her is tough..
just hope she came to her sense asap.. what a sad world ?
That's why everyone has say to love someone is hard, to love someone you ani't suppose is even more harder
Just hope she will move on asap ..
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ok lah. since u wanna do it, how abt backstab nicely.Originally posted by ahkico:Thanks guys for all ur replies..
I reali am stuck now.. Haha.. Decided tat mayb i will jus offer my moral support.. Stop naggin so much.. But cont to remind her..
If i condemn her so much.. Wait worst.. She will have no1 to turn to.. And god noes wat she will do.. Though my advice goes to deaf ear.. Well.. at least i m there..
Hmm.. I dunno tat guy at all.. Coz.. I onli heard abt him thruout..
Well.. I don want to give much details of how she knows him.. Jus tat.. They noe each other durin lesson time.. Tat's all i'm willin to say.. hehe..
just do a lalio dedication to him, say u r AMY and wanna send love to "Stephen Chia of ...." telling him how much u love him and will go thru thick n thin with him.
y sabo? this is the method used by most gers to lay their hands on guys n a backoff for others. broadcast being broadcast, it will swing in the right direction. -
Married man is somehow more attractive than single ones ..dun u agree?
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NICE..Originally posted by ahkico:Thanks guys for all ur replies..
I reali am stuck now.. Haha.. Decided tat mayb i will jus offer my moral support.. Stop naggin so much.. But cont to remind her..
If i condemn her so much.. Wait worst.. She will have no1 to turn to.. And god noes wat she will do.. Though my advice goes to deaf ear.. Well.. at least i m there..
Hmm.. I dunno tat guy at all.. Coz.. I onli heard abt him thruout..
Well.. I don want to give much details of how she knows him.. Jus tat.. They noe each other durin lesson time.. Tat's all i'm willin to say.. hehe.. -
women are very emotional....when involved with a married man......have to be discreet and no one to turn to when you have problem cos the relationship is not open.......when the time comes, your friend will be awake...cos that is when she feels that, she cant date a bf just like a normal bf or having a normal relationship that she is tired of all the reasons of why he cant come and company her, .......etc.... and it is more hurting.
you re really a good friend, and do stand by for her cos it is really really not easy for her too...hope she can wake up asap...before she really hurt herself and other more....
to be honest, there are a lot of married men out there who are having another family or mistresses.....i know alot and the ending is always no good, some might even COST A LIFE of an INNOCENT - their kids....HAI.
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I hate this term MBA (married but available)
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i second for this!!Originally posted by changb57:women are very emotional....when involved with a married man......have to be discreet and no one to turn to when you have problem cos the relationship is not open.......when the time comes, your friend will be awake...cos that is when she feels that, she cant date a bf just like a normal bf or having a normal relationship that she is tired of all the reasons of why he cant come and company her, .......etc.... and it is more hurting.
you re really a good friend, and do stand by for her cos it is really really not easy for her too...hope she can wake up asap...before she really hurt herself and other more....
to be honest, there are a lot of married men out there who are having another family or mistresses.....i know alot and the ending is always no good, some might even COST A LIFE of an INNOCENT - their kids....HAI.
U muz stay by her side no matter wat she does. U ve done evrything u should as a good fren... if she still cannot get herself out from this.. let her do wat she wants.. All u can do is to brainwash her occasionally but make sure that doesn't soured ur frenship wif her.
One day, sooner or later, she will wake up... Cuz now she feels loved and pampered which maybe she hasn't got this feeling for a long time, let her enjoy it. When she came to her senses and is brave enuff to go.. she will. Time will prove and heal everything. Juz be there for her. -
Yeah!!!
She finally wak up liao.. Hehe.. so happi..
It was lik.. she kiddin him.. Ask him to meet her after work.. But of coz he can't.. she also noe.. Jus to test him see how he replied..
He lied.. say ok ok.. Jus to yin qiu her.. Then she asked wat time u can meet mi.. And he was lik realli ah? I can't.. don lik tis lay..
Then promise the nx dae to meet her..but forgot totally abt it.. din mention at all..
Tat's e end!!! Yeah!
She msg tat she wanted a break up.. partly also coz she got back with her bf liao.. Heard tat few daes ltr.. Tis guy still msg.. to confirm is it she reali wans a break up..she said yes.. well.. Hopefully!
Hopefully they doesn get back! -
yappeeee!!!! happy for your friend...pray hard they don get back together and have another loving bf for herself...devoted to her only.,...god bless!!!
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yesterday chinese nite paper was a scoop.
married man flirting with a woman and both were caught in the act by 4 p.i. and his wife. locked themselves inside the pasir ris shop n refused to open door until police were mobilized.
hahahahahaha...