Originally posted by YuPLeNg:i did a very foolish thing...by breaking up with him over a heated argument...really really regret it but he's avoiding me....i can't contact him at all...i only realised that i love him so much after i've lost him...
have been crying myself to sleep the past few weeks....waiting for him to cool down and get back to me...but it has been 2 weeks....i don't know if i should carry on waiting...im tired...tired of crying myself to sleep....
i don't know if he will turn back....everything is a blur...i really miss him...
his friend told me he's still very angry with me...and that i should be patient...but i really don't know if i can carry on waiting ... he has been adding girls on friendster...what should i do?.....................![]()
Originally posted by YuPLeNg:... he has been adding girls on friendster...what should i do?.....................![]()
Hi there,Originally posted by YuPLeNg:i did a very foolish thing...by breaking up with him over a heated argument...really really regret it but he's avoiding me....i can't contact him at all...i only realised that i love him so much after i've lost him...
have been crying myself to sleep the past few weeks....waiting for him to cool down and get back to me...but it has been 2 weeks....i don't know if i should carry on waiting...im tired...tired of crying myself to sleep....
i don't know if he will turn back....everything is a blur...i really miss him...
his friend told me he's still very angry with me...and that i should be patient...but i really don't know if i can carry on waiting ... he has been adding girls on friendster...what should i do?.....................![]()
I've told his friend about it and his friend has told him that i'm still waiting for him...I also feel that he doesn't love me anymore or maybe he don't love me that much...There was this night at 2am when my friend called him and told him something happened to me but instead of calling me straight away, he called his friend to tell him how pissed he is with me for coming up with this trick...I didn't ask my friend to call in the first place!!...Originally posted by queiindom:If you have contacted his friend and his friend tells you that he is still very angry with you, then perhaps it is a hint that he doesn't yet want to talk to you. Have you tried getting his friends to let him know how sorry and regretful you are? If he still is not moved, then perhaps he really isn't worth your time and you should move on.
You know the answer.......Anyway, do you like a guy whom has that kinda pride n ego??? Why not ask yourself what do you love for him???Originally posted by YuPLeNg:I've told his friend about it and his friend has told him that i'm still waiting for him...I also feel that he doesn't love me anymore or maybe he don't love me that much...There was this night at 2am when my friend called him and told him something happened to me but instead of calling me straight away, he called his friend to tell him how pissed he is with me for coming up with this trick...I didn't ask my friend to call in the first place!!...
I was really disappointed that night...what if i was really in danger??...his response to me was so cold...not even concerned...but yet , i will think of reasons for him...maybe he was just too tired after work...as he was asleep already...but then again, if he can call his friend, why can't he just give me a ring?...why does he hate me so much?...just because i've hurt his pride n ego by breaking up with him?
You are at fault in the first place. Looks like you gonna loss him for good. You have 'hurt' him deep in his heart.Originally posted by YuPLeNg:i did a very foolish thing...by breaking up with him over a heated argument...really really regret it but he's avoiding me....
well, i suppose both of u r young and tempermental. i tink what you need is something to fill the vacuum in ur heart and more in ur mind. we all want to b loved and cherished and rich and everyting under the sun n over the sun.Originally posted by YuPLeNg:i did a very foolish thing...by breaking up with him over a heated argument...really really regret it but he's avoiding me....i can't contact him at all...i only realised that i love him so much after i've lost him...
have been crying myself to sleep the past few weeks....waiting for him to cool down and get back to me...but it has been 2 weeks....i don't know if i should carry on waiting...im tired...tired of crying myself to sleep....
i don't know if he will turn back....everything is a blur...i really miss him...
his friend told me he's still very angry with me...and that i should be patient...but i really don't know if i can carry on waiting ... he has been adding girls on friendster...what should i do?.....................![]()
I agree to dcx.Originally posted by dcx:1) ==> In any case, he may feel it's a load off his chest...
2) ==> Furthermore, if a guy loves her gf so much, it doesn't need to take 2weeks to recover or cool down...
3) ==> You shld look at your next alternative route...no point wasting time waiting for him as his love for you, to me, will be untrue anymore....
Hey, hope you will be strong too...For my case, its slightly different...Heard that he has been drinking alot since our breakup and there was this time he threw up for the whole night...guess he's really hurt by me....Originally posted by -ohyeah-:It is a torture for us.. but our ex dun feel so.. they still live their lives as per normal. they prove to us that they live better without us, even better.. This truth hurt us, but we still have to live wif it. the after math of breakup is horrible and terrible
Pls allow me to rebutt against you with those hi-liteds'......Originally posted by YuPLeNg:I guess some of you guys are right.. I should not have threatened to break up over an argument...its my fault for doing so...now its too late for regrets...He's in control and there's nothing more i can do...
i've really broke his heart...His friend told me im the first gf he's so nice and caring to...but i hurt him...always taking him for granted and throwing tantrums at him...never seeing the good side of him...
if im ever given the chance again, i will be the best gf i know how...but its no longer possible...thought of emailing him but don't want to piss him further with any information about myself...
I agree.. Yao shi qu guo, cai dong de zhen xi.Originally posted by sweetevil:I am a firm believer of negative-positive; only when one is about to lose something before he would do anything to secure it.