How to get over a past relationship...
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how to forget everything.......sigh...
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It's hard...you gotta try to think of other things to take your mind off it. Engage in other activities, take a breather.
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If not fate to be a couple, at least be friends loh. Yet I know certain people once they kinda reject you, they even wants to 'end' the friendship as well.
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forget u can't, but let go u can..
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stop all contact. that's the best first step.
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Maybe part of loving is learning to let go....
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Hi... I'm just new here but I saw your topic and you got my attention...
It's really hard to get over a past relationship but there are things you have to consider...
First, you should learn to ACCEPT the reality that it's over... don't cling on the past coz you can't get back to it and all you have to do is face the present and deal with the future...
Second, learn to FORGIVE the person... we are only human... and you... me also commits mistakes and for you to have the whole happiness that you deserve try to forgive the person so that there's no grudges inside your heart...
Lastly, FORGET the past and move on with your life...face the future... enjoy every single seconds of your life... remember, life is to short and all you can do is live it to the fullest...
I know its easy to say these things but you have to remember that it's ONLY YOU who can help yourself... even if we have thousands of post here but if you don't help yourself nothing will happen to you...
Hope I was able to help you on this topic since I've been in your situation before... I know its not easy... -
There are many good men out there who deserves you more than him... You will meet someone good, if not, better than him..
Take your time to get over the r/s... surround yourself with friends... -
Getting over an relationship indeed is difficult.
I have spend total of 6 years to move on.
what do you people said ?
Stupidlity ? Maybe
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Well, most importantly, don't turn that emotion into hatred.
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It took you 6 yrs? You must have really really felt hurt....Originally posted by gmail:Getting over an relationship indeed is difficult.
I have spend total of 6 years to move on.
what do you people said ?
Stupidlity ? Maybe -
hang out with friends alot
be active -
Forgive but not forget
The hurting is so much vivid i can still remember
But so what.. Life still goes on..
The next man will pamper and love me more.
There is no point keep staring at the closed door. Right ?
i thought i would be fine too..
after these relationship i find that i understand myself more..
actually i am not as strong as i thought to be.. Maybe i am a leo that's why spell my pride in refused to admit defeated..
heh...
after all i am just a normal gal. -
Originally posted by babyreyes:how to forget everything.......sigh...
Seriously, when one forcefully tries to forget, he/she indirectly remembers it more. Because there is a conscious effort in thinking about that 'issue'.
P.S: You won't be able to forget: Learn to get used... till such extend you get USED to your past. When you are able to accept what that has happened, this is your initial step to get used to bitter memories.
Cheers. -
get into a new relation fast?
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Originally posted by hisoka:get into a new relation fast? Seriously, that doesn't help at all. In fact, those whom you thought it helped them - merely had their focus shifted into their new relationship and gradually get used to their past as time goes on.
It is back to square one - getting used to one's past.
And there is alot of risk involved in getting a new relationship when - especially when one is emotionally instable. Your condition/situation might worsen and you may even hurt others.
Cheers -
Originally posted by Yunhaier:
Carry forward the emotional bagguage. Seriously, that doesn't help at all. In fact, those whom you thought it helped them - merely had their focus shifted into their new relationship and gradually get used to their past as time goes on.
It is back to square one - [b]getting used to one's past.
And there is alot of risk involved in getting a new relationship when - especially when one is emotionally instable. Your condition/situation might worsen and you may even hurt others.
Cheers [/b]
Seriously, serious ah.
Cheers -
thing is you can't..no matter what it will always remain a part of you especially if you really love your other half..but i often say this,that the way to mend a broken heart is either to leave it alone,or get someone else to fix it..Originally posted by babyreyes:how to forget everything.......sigh...
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Accepted fact. trying to forgive and forget all hte mishaps.Originally posted by anna_babes26:Hi... I'm just new here but I saw your topic and you got my attention...
It's really hard to get over a past relationship but there are things you have to consider...
First, you should learn to ACCEPT the reality that it's over... don't cling on the past coz you can't get back to it and all you have to do is face the present and deal with the future...
Second, learn to FORGIVE the person... we are only human... and you... me also commits mistakes and for you to have the whole happiness that you deserve try to forgive the person so that there's no grudges inside your heart...
Lastly, FORGET the past and move on with your life...face the future... enjoy every single seconds of your life... remember, life is to short and all you can do is live it to the fullest...
I know its easy to say these things but you have to remember that it's ONLY YOU who can help yourself... even if we have thousands of post here but if you don't help yourself nothing will happen to you...
Hope I was able to help you on this topic since I've been in your situation before... I know its not easy...
I havent cried for two wks after tat break up. Never shed a tear. Sometimes my mind is at peace. Sometimes i just feel uneasy inside.
Making myself busy lately so as to not think of him.
But when i dreamt of him at nite, i just feel sad inside. -
Originally posted by hisoka:get into a new relation fast?
thanks hisoka. but i think its too early to think about a new relationship nows. -
Originally posted by Yunhaier:
Yesh u are rite. Im somehow trying to force myself to forget everything once and for all. sighx. Seriously, when one forcefully tries to forget, he/she indirectly remembers it more. Because there is a conscious effort in thinking about that 'issue'.
P.S: You won't be able to forget: [b]Learn to get used... till such extend you get USED to your past. When you are able to accept what that has happened, this is your initial step to get used to bitter memories.
Cheers. [/b]
getting used to my bitter memories? kinda numbing myself?? -
GETTING 'USED to it' is when you no longer BOTHER to think about it...Originally posted by babyreyes:Yesh u are rite. Im somehow trying to force myself to forget everything once and for all. sighx.
getting used to my bitter memories? kinda numbing myself??
REWIND YOUR LIFE to the point where you 1st started off with your ex.
STARTS LIFE AFRESH the WAY IT WAS... FROM THAT POINT... Like you've NEVER TAKEN THIS PATH BEFORE.... -
Sometimes, a new relationship can helps heal the wound.Originally posted by babyreyes: thanks hisoka. but i think its too early to think about a new relationship nows.
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really ??Originally posted by Manager433:Sometimes, a new relationship can helps heal the wound. .... hmmm so it is alright to look for new relationship .... but den again ..... age problem .... sigh 
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How many time must i remind you ?Originally posted by maxcp:really ?? .... hmmm so it is alright to look for new relationship .... but den again ..... age problem .... sigh
Age isn't a problem..
Its the chemistry of it..
I like mature man..