Unhappy with 23/10, wanted to consult fortune or suicide!
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^ good advice, along with lots more given by others...Originally posted by babyreyes:this is the permanent recipe to misery
1. decide on how u think the world should be
2. set rules on how u think pple should behave.
when the world disobeys, get angry!
tat is wat miserable pple do!!!
Its not tat u wanna die...
Its just tat u dont know how to live.
Life is a learning process.
Dont feel like a victim to all these problems.
take it as a reference and learn from those mistakes.
You are the key to ur happiness.
If u are unwilling to help urself to cope with problems, even god cant save u. God and deitites only help those who help themselves.
Leaving this world like this is just plain selfish. There are pple across the world who are terminally ill and wanting a chance to live. Yet a healthy person like you dont know how to cherish life.
Dont wait till its too late to cherish wat u have in ur life nows. Especially ur family.
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Btw posting your actual name and real life details on a rant like this is a fantastic idea to get in real life trouble. Things would be great if someone pointed this to your teacher. FYI I'm sure I can't be the *only* person to know someone teaching in damai. In short, delete the posts. Unless of course you're trying to get someone you don't like in trouble.
Next, as countless people have undoubtedly said this is like ... CCA ... dunno what it means but if it's something in secondary school it's undoubtedly another harebrained project to make teenagers waste time thinking it's gonna help for entry to JC/poly
It won't. I've not heard of a JC/poly turning away people with 6pts for O's. If you get 20++ points no amount of weird activities will get you a spot unless you do something like run 100m in 10sec or less
Lastly, you simply sound like you're getting picked on. Maybe you don't like to realise this but your best bet is to a) find friends b) talk to a counselor c) talk to your teachers to mediate between you and your peers. If you don't change things you'll just keep getting picked on. I dunno why but that's just how things are like in school ... at teenage time anyways. People like to form cliques then have fun bullying those who don't fit in anywhere, for one reason or another. If *you* don't change you'll just keep getting picked on. This at least was my experience.
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SGEMP if i could, i would slap u so hard that it will leave a handprint mark on your face..
you want to know how people suffer to keep a life each day?
u talk so easily about suicide just becos of 1 single day..
my adivce go to ICU unit of any hosiptal and see how real people fight to breath everyday.
U want to be a leader but u do not have the ability to be one. A good leader must be able to lead and at times follow orders.. but from your posting you could not do neither one.
Ever thought why u are not elected? think carefully what I say. wonder why people want to dump u ? cos u r too full of yourself u think people will follow your orders blindly,,,
Respect is earn not elected or given,,have u ever done anything for your fellow members?
I can give u all the advice in the world but will it do u any good?
Since u keep refusing to accept other adivce then why brother to ask in the first place?
my final advice for you is to be a follower for once instead of a leader.. learn the proper process of listerning to orders before giving them..if u can change your mindset then only people will respect you or sooner or later you will lose the respect of all your friends. -
Hey.. Why you keep thinking of being a leader ?? you think itz cool ? Fun ? Or you just wanna show those around you that you got the power ? If you are having this childish thinkin of yours.. i think.. you better go back to Primary School.. Just to let you know.. Being a leader is NOTHING FUn.. im nt afraid to let you knw.. i went through My sceondary school before.. So what if i got some high ranking post inside the prefectorial board ? So what if im a Senior NCO of Npcc ? You think itz fun ? Itz Not.. Being a leader is whereby you are ready to lead ppl anytime anywhere.. you must be very very flxible.. if any of the teacher comes and demand an answer from you.. you must give them the answer they want.. Itz not that easy while trying to be a leader.. i went through before and i know.. You think itz fun staying back after school almost everyday till 7 or even 8pm ? you think you can handle.. ? ive done that in my Secondary School days.. every week, you have to plan things like programs, Duities, writing out your reports, thinking of new stuffs so that your fellow School mates wont get board with the CCA.. You have to keep coming up with all this things.. Nt to mention that during the holidays.. gotta plan for Orientation Camps, Leadership Camps, Bonding session etc etc etc.. I remembered.. there was a year.. During my Nov/Dec Holi, While all my friends are enjoying their holiday and all that, i gotta go back to school to settle my camp stuffs and my CCAs.. This is the price that you gotta pay.. DO you think you can handle that ? Seriously, From what you type.. I DO NOT THINK SO.. Leader will NOT complain when he or she met some problems.. He or She will think of ways to overcome the problem.. NOT COMPLAINING.. i dont think theres any teachers around would like to have someone like you to be a leader for a particular CCA.. you are there to Lead the Whole TEAM.. NOT there to add on the problems for your teachers.. you are just like some of the typical Students who feels that they can do this they can do that.. but once you give them the job.. they give you Shit back.. Or like some primary school kids who likes to complain.. So.. what i trying to say itz.. just be yourself.. itz the best.. if you the qualities to be a Leader.. thats no way that you wont be.. your teachers would have choose you instead of the others liao.. and.. just a reminder for you.. by posting such stuffs in a publice forum.. you are only tryin to give a negetive impact on your Schools image.. if your teachers of Principle find out about this an decides to take actions.. you have to bear the FUll Resposible for starting this thread.
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SGEMP: Ask you one ques... Are you afraid that you will be despised because you are one year older and others younger than you are leading?
Don't try for a leader post just to get a name for fame. Fame so what. I had one friend who almost committed suicide just because he got scoldings and complaints from his teachers just because he got second in a robotics competition.
Leader so what. Some CCA leaders in my school do not balance both academics and CCA well... in the end results all crashed. So what if leader. I don't give it a damn.
Leaders so what? They are just some dogs under a big organisation. (No offence to anyone) -
hi^5 with sBs_boy
both of us went through the same crap back in the old days...
but it made us a better man we are today...
followers will never know how much leaders like us did behind to ensure things run smoothly
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why on earth you want to lead those kind of people..?
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AgreeeOriginally posted by drx:hi^5 with sBs_boy
both of us went through the same crap back in the old days...
but it made us a better man we are today...
followers will never know how much leaders like us did behind to ensure things run smoothly
Respect is earn through the blood and sweat as we work silently each day when all others are resting. -
This forum is seriously not a place to air views in such violent ways.
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There may be more than one reasons why the threadstarter ain't getting anywhere in his CCA.
1) Too much competition, maybe he's really good, but just unlucky not to be chosen.
2) I don't know how he portrays himself in real life, but maybe it's the problem about his popularity with the rest of the members... + qualities to be in the committee.
Someone with calibre and qualities to be a leader wouldn't be posting such stuffs in the forums.
I've seen a couple of people who think that they're talented, they're the best, they deserve all the good stuffz in life when the rest of the people he/she hangs out with (friends,classmates etc etc) see things the other way.
And and... wow he even got his full name up in the forums.... if he ever does something funny in school ever..... this thread can be used as evidence sia..... -
i suggest that u apologise to all the students, whose full names are listed.
perhaps its nothing to you for posting your full name, but it may do harm to others for posting their's, and also, use other names or special names that will be distinct. i know how you feel now. but do you really know what is the process of being a committee member? or what happened after the "blackbox election"? will there be a misunderstanding? try to consult your club teacher, or your club chairman again, and see if there is any misunderstanding.
besides, whats wrong with you? are you a man or not? why must you tell us everything here? you may be one whom solves problem consulting people, but do you know that posting people's name could be an offence, and as you stated, your friend, Jorden, have a malay gang. what if their blows are too big? but since you wanted a suicide, ok, as you wish. but have you considered those who cared you? those who give their concern on you? your family? you are just a failure. -
Originally posted by SGEMP:
no time to set rules?These rules are actually subconciously processed and registered inside ur mind already. U dont nd the time to set the rules. These rules are automatically generated in ur subconcious mind.
[b]The main thing is I did not, and have no time to, set that rule![/b]
oh well...
somehow in the back of ur mind, u already set rules on how u think pple should behave...
example 1
With reference from ur 1st post on 25 October 2005
"In the past whole year I worked very hard, under my chemistry teacher¡¯s advice, in my Computer Club, attending the CCA regularly and participating, eventually completing, in everything as instructed by my teachers without fail, in hopes of getting enough points and a leadership role, that is, the committee member.
And what did I get in return? Everything is wasted. I was damn unfortunate. I was unfortunately not appointed into the committee. What a !#&%ing waste! "
u contributed much to ur cca. U expected them(ur teachers and fellow club members) to recognise u and to put u into the committee member. In the end, u wont picked. Things somehow didnt go your way. Wat happen next? You can here to rant about ur cca.
example 2
With reference from ur 1st post on 25 October 2005
"I am very unhappy with what had happened for today 23 October.
Today before my Damai Secondary school assembly, at about 1230, as I rushed my way down to the hall that damn Jordan and his wicked ugly Malay gang of seven of 3E4 obstructed my way there, and knocked me to the pillar when I tried to overtake them.(In response I used middle finger to scold these goddamned bums.) Them, instead of condemning them, the teachers in the hall condemned me! I want them crushed dead by a Bishan-bound service 59 bus--------and their entire families wiped out by bird flu!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!They will all be knocked down into hell!!!!!!!!!! " You feel that it wasnt ur fault as they were the ones who obstructed ur way in the 1st place. u expected the teachers to see and feel that it was their fault and not yours. In the end, the teachers condemned u instead. Then u started sprouting out vulgarities again.
You see....u have already set some rules for the pple ard you already. U expected the teachers n club members to recognise ur efforts. U expected the teachers to feel tat those guys were in the wrong. Well, Did they met up to UR expectations? I guess not. thats why u are ranting n cursing and swearing over here. I know you feel tat life is super 1@#@! for you.....
Every so called " bad happenings or disasters" in your life is not as much as a real huge catastrophy. It is just a situation waiting for you to change your mind about it.
If u keep thinking tat the world is against you, i cant help you. Neither GOd, Jesus, Lord Allah or Buddha or any high ranking respected deity can help you.
Its time for you to do some soul searching.
And i personally feel that it is not right to verbally critise or rant and even publish the names of those pple here. They can always take legal actions against you. -
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eh? apologise to them when they don't even know a thing about their names being mentioned in the forums? It's like looking for trouble siaz..
I think a better thing to do, is to remove all ur posts with their names and shut down this stupid thread. -
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Originally posted by SGEMP:
excuse me. i found out that you seem to hate the class 3e4 especially. also usually, people don't want fellow members to suffer. who would anyway? and did you find out what they were doing in the first place? please do not jump into conclusions without getting the facts right.
[b]Top up the latest news:
What I had said became true one day and I was justified of this goddamning prediction!
Well today after school I went down to look for my fellow com club teammates, because I have an imortant meeting with them as scheduled for.
Suddenly as I found them, I stumbled into the comclub committee meeting to my surprise.
Then, due to the orientation meeting scheduled by me for the 9 and 11 Nov workshop + mini competition on roboracer, and that I have knowledge of my fellow teammates (they were mostly the committee members), that's why I requested them to stay back and look into this matter.
As I requested them, the "blackbox election" came where unfortunate subjects are "elected" to suffer. I was then requested to head to canteen by the leader, Maurice Chng of 3E1 (2005), while fellows especially those in 3E4 all WANTED me to suffer or be ostracised!!!!!!!!!!!!
It fucks, it sucks, man! It's fucking unfair man!
And so I requested politely to them requesting them not to let me suffer or be sabotaged, while I requested another 3E1 member to pass me the latest news of the "blackbox operation election".
I have since went down, given that my stomach is rumbling very loudly, and had lunch as soon as possible.
When I returned, to my surprise, they all, including those supposed to stay for my meeting, all left, only leaving pieces and pieces of waste paper on the table!
And concluding all these, Blackbox elections only kills their loyal fellows, while it seemed that those in roboracers wanted to have me killed and the whole ILLFATED project scrapped in a fuckingly unacceptable manner!
And so if not for that FUCKING FUCKING FUCKING JORDAN OF 3E4, then such FUCKING DAMN ASSHOLE SHITTY incidents would not have happened!
And so in retaliation:
Although I would not commit suicide in retaliation; but:
1) I would not care for the roboracer project
2) I would not be submitting back my CCA scoresheet
3) I would want to have that FUCKING CB JORDAN killed and destroy everything named Jordan using nuclear weapons and destroying all the transportation the serves places named "Jordan" using air raids and local vandals!
and 4) There is a wikipedia page about my DMSS and I was the one who suggested for the page, planning to expand after the exams.
Now that I am unhappy with my comclub members, I would conduct STRIKE and terminate all the plans for the expansion of my DMSS @ WIKIPEDIA page FOR AN INDEFINITE PERIOD OF TIME, THE FASTEST BEING WHEN THE RELATIONS IMPROVE.
SO FOR THE TIME BEING DO NOT EVER EXPECT ANY EXPANSION FOR THAT PAGE UNTIL THERE SHOWS SIGNS OF IMPROVEMENT!!!!!!!!!!!!
and 5) I would PULL AWAY ALL MY SUPPORT FOR MY COM CLUB and hope my com club to FALL AND DIE if such blackbox operations were to continue!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Because take the grasses for example, if one locates a big plank over the grass patch, would the grass thrive in the lack of light and air?
No, right! Because they did not have chance or opportunity to thrive adn were not given the opportunity!
Such things just equates to what happens in a blackbox: NOTHING GROWS EVERYTHING DIES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
So taking this theory if such fuckingly unfair blackbox operations were to continue then I would definitely hope my school's com club to fall, collapse and be DEAD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
THAT'S ALL!
I WOULD BE REFERRING THIS TO MY COMCLUB TEACHER!!!!!!!
ANY SUGGESTIONS AND ADVICES ARE SINCERELY WELCOMED!!!!!!!!
SGEMP
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how do you know that they were electing you to suffer? how did you know that they wanted you to be ostracised? and do you think that you are so importatnt that without you the other members cannot continue with the wiki page? how do you know you are that important that without you the roboracer prooject would be a failure? do you think that without your support the computer club would fall apart?
no, absoulutly no. if the computer is so united, one member less would not make such a difference. and you hope for your computer club to fall apart. without it, you are without a cca. without a cca, you would not get any knock off points. do you wish for that to happen? i doubt so.
you are a coward, just because of a little thing, you choose commit suicde. do you think death is solves everything? it isn't, you left unfinished business behind. you left your family mournining your death. you are a coward. you don;t dare face reality. if being a commitee member means so much to you, why don;t you approach your cca commitee and ask them to vote if do they want you. i'm sure that's fair.
and one last think. think why were you not chosen to be a commitee member. was it because you were not popular? was it because you were not effient enough? maybe, it's because of the vulgur you use just for a small matter of not being chosen for a commitee member. what about others may i ask? did they complain? did they scold vulgur? please. think again why were you not chosen. -
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different ways are used for different people who need different guidiance.Originally posted by SBS1908B:This forum is seriously not a place to air views in such violent ways. -
i totally agree wit bi+chyme... firstly, do you hav evidence that what they were doin is bad for u?? how come u anyhow jump into conclusion?? Its ur bad to say without any evidence.. maybe its just some normal election.. do u need to make such a big fuss out of it?? BLACKBOX?? -.-Originally posted by bitchyme:how do you know that they were electing you to suffer? how did you know that they wanted you to be ostracised? and do you think that you are so importatnt that without you the other members cannot continue with the wiki page? how do you know you are that important that without you the roboracer prooject would be a failure? do you think that without your support the computer club would fall apart?
no, absoulutly no. if the computer is so united, one member less would not make such a difference. and you hope for your computer club to fall apart. without it, you are without a cca. without a cca, you would not get any knock off points. do you wish for that to happen? i doubt so.
you are a coward, just because of a little thing, you choose commit suicde. do you think death is solves everything? it isn't, you left unfinished business behind. you left your family mournining your death. you are a coward. you don;t dare face reality. if being a commitee member means so much to you, why don;t you approach your cca commitee and ask them to vote if do they want you. i'm sure that's fair.
and one last think. think why were you not chosen to be a commitee member. was it because you were not popular? was it because you were not effient enough? maybe, it's because of the vulgur you use just for a small matter of not being chosen for a commitee member. what about others may i ask? did they complain? did they scold vulgur? please. think again why were you not chosen.
Next, do u ever know how difficult is it to handle the club?? the pressure u get from the juniors n teachers?? from what u said about not bothering abt Computer Club makes me think u r not even fit to be a leader.. A leader must hav the potential to lead pupils.. DO YOU THINK U HAV THE POTENTIAL?? Y get into that CCA since u hate it so much?? Y bother about being a leader since u hate the pupils there? JUS GETTA HELL OUT OF THE CCA AND JOIN ANOTHER CCA.. Then did u ever consult any of the teachers regrading ur unhappiness of unable to become a leader?? There must be a reason for the teacher to choose him to become a leader.. so the teacher has his reasons for not choosin you as a leader.. instead of writing out ur feelings to the forum, y not try consulting the teacher to ask for the reasons...
Thirdly, i bet there are many other ppl out there interested in the competition so if u r not interested y join the competition??? Cum on, don make ur school lose face.. give other ppl a chance to enter the competition.. other ppl may be better than u.. they may make the sch shine instead of lettin ppl like u bring the image of the sch down..
Then did u know the seriousness of puttin ur sch name in?? if ever anyone found out i bet u will be in deep trouble.. U only know how to shame the school.. Hav u ever brought any glory to the sch?? No wonder you r not elected as a leader.. Tink abt that.. reflect to urself.. do some soul searching as to whose in the wrong.. Btw i am also from computer club too.. and i hav achieved awards for the school.. thats how the teachers find ur talent but wit ur bo chap attitude i think u are gonna fail in wadever u do..
The society is like that.. you hav to adapt to changes.. If u cannot even face such a small problem in future u will die wit a job.. Well, if you continue to hav tis stubborn character and not wanting to change i bet you will hav a lot more problems in ur life.. *Do u hav a life? haha.. i doubt so.. Cum on.. LIVE A LIFE PLEASE!!* -
heya u dont have to be a leader to make a contribution to ur cca ,
if all the people are leaders? whose going to do all the other tasks?
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Isn't it kinda too late to remove the names?
Well.......I hope the talk about apologising is not empty talk. -
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Originally posted by SGEMP:
So, there's a motive behind delivering those apologies?
I have since calculated when would the apologies be delievered becos on last friday's recess in a dialogue I heard that there would be another com club camp in Nov. (That's the when.)
[b]HOWEVER NO APOLOGIES WOULD BE DELIEVERED TO J. AND HIS GANG BECAUSE THEY ARE THE ONES WO WANTED TO SINK ME INTO TROUBLE! [/b]
It's conditional? -
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