I suceed in cutting in but.. now i lost interest..
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Hi..i manage to cut into their 4yrs rs. She break up wif her x to be wif me. At 1st it was like honeymoon for us..those sweet sweet feelings for each other but i realise she havent forget about her x.. &..he keeps on pestering her. Her family also object to our rs. Somethings bcos of all tat pressure she face from her family, moodswings tends to get in.
When i saw her in such an angony..i tried to give her up. She just don't wana let me go.. Im honest & truthful to her & yet she said she got no confidence in me. Damn it realli piss me off..Im beginning to drift away from this rs but i still luv her.. IF ANYONE HERE HAS BEEN THROUGH THIS PLS ADVISE ME WHAT TO DO..
I luv her..& i wana b wif her.. i even wana marry her but WTF i feel im drifting away.. I really don't knw what to do..
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Thanks for giving me motivation.
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to cut in too?Originally posted by Ayukat:Thanks for giving me motivation. -
You don't also happen to be last in the family and called "Lao Gao"(Monkey)?
I also have a friend who shares a similar story. -
I don't have to cut in... yet...who noes... maybe someday...Originally posted by mistyblue:to cut in too? -
Originally posted by Wolfwoof^^:Hi..i manage to cut into their 4yrs rs. She break up wif her x to be wif me. At 1st it was like honeymoon for us..those sweet sweet feelings for each other but i realise she havent forget about her x.. &..he keeps on pestering her. Her family also object to our rs. Somethings bcos of all tat pressure she face from her family, moodswings tends to get in.
When i saw her in such an angony..i tried to give her up. She just don't wana let me go.. Im honest & truthful to her & yet she said she got no confidence in me. Damn it realli piss me off..Im beginning to drift away from this rs but i still luv her.. IF ANYONE HERE HAS BEEN THROUGH THIS PLS ADVISE ME WHAT TO DO..
I luv her..& i wana b wif her.. i even wana marry her but WTF i feel im drifting away.. I really don't knw what to do..
What do you expect? A red carpet rolled over the ground to welcome your humble presence into her life? You may have conquered the fortress, but the land where all the peasants lived will resist against your rule. You think life is going to be easy after you have gotten her successfully? Especially when this four years relationship has sunk quite deep roots.
This is just the beginning of a certain nightmare. Probably only endurance can get you through, but it seemed that you are also lacking in this aspect.
If you want to get involved with a girl who is currently attached - to cut without letting her clear her mess... you end up being the one clearing the pile of sh!t. So you just got to decide if this is worthwhile for a relationship to continue with the mess. Well, you can pursue this Love with her trying to regain stability - but you will end up suffering because the emotional burden will fall on you.
You made your choice. How far would you hold on your choice? This could be a game of endurance. Do you have what it takes to play this game?
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I lurve the questionOriginally posted by Yunhaier: What do you expect? A red carpet rolled over the ground to welcome your humble presence into her life? You may have conquered the fortress, but the land where all the peasants lived will resist against your rule. You think life is going to be easy after you have gotten her successfully? Especially when this four years relationship has sunk quite deep roots.
This is just the beginning of a certain nightmare. Probably only endurance can get you through, but it seemed that you are also lacking in this aspect.
If you want to get involved with a girl who is currently attached - to cut without letting her clear her mess... you end up being the one clearing the pile of sh!t. So you just got to decide if this is worthwhile for a relationship to continue with the mess. Well, you can pursue this Love with her trying to regain stability - but you will end up suffering because the emotional burden will fall on you.
You made your choice. How far would you hold on your choice? This could be a game of endurance. Do you have what it takes to play this game?
Cheers
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omg, i just love the way yunhaier posts, so cool, and really sets you thinking, at least for me that is.Originally posted by M©+square:I lurve the question
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u mess up her 4yrs relationship, caused friction between her and her family... now u say u want to give her up for her own good?
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Dear Wolfwoof,
This is 1 of the most selfish posts I've ever seen. You didn't care whether feelings would be hurt, the aim of owning her being your only goal, making you oblivious of everything else. You didn't think properly of the consequences, & now, when the going gets tough, you wanna desert her? After what she's given up to be with you?
Your self-centredness ASTOUNDS me. You reap what you sow, & you should've been prepared for this before you selfishly butted into a relationship that has lasted 4 years. May this be a deterrent to those who're thinking of stealing someone away from a relationship.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by Wolfwoof^^:Hi..i manage to cut into their 4yrs rs. She break up wif her x to be wif me. At 1st it was like honeymoon for us..those sweet sweet feelings for each other but i realise she havent forget about her x.. &..he keeps on pestering her. Her family also object to our rs. Somethings bcos of all tat pressure she face from her family, moodswings tends to get in.
When i saw her in such an angony..i tried to give her up. She just don't wana let me go.. Im honest & truthful to her & yet she said she got no confidence in me. Damn it realli piss me off..Im beginning to drift away from this rs but i still luv her.. IF ANYONE HERE HAS BEEN THROUGH THIS PLS ADVISE ME WHAT TO DO..
I luv her..& i wana b wif her.. i even wana marry her but WTF i feel im drifting away.. I really don't knw what to do.. -
karma.....
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is this the one whom you said would be getting married? What happened to the pregnant one?
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I can't believe this!!!
It does not even sound like love to me. You saw her 4 yr relationship as a challenge and now that you have “triumphed” you have SUDDENLY found yourself “Im beginning to drift away from this rs but i still luv her”
This is CRAP!!! If you LOVE her enough to fight for her in the first place. This should be chicken feet to you! What did you expect? Her friends and family to think “oh my daughter/good friend has given up her 4 yrs relationship for this guy… YAY!!!”???
Before you “cut in” have you ever given a thought on how this can affect her? Her family? Her bf?
I’m not dead against ppl pursuing the gal/guy they like even if the other party is attached, but if you intend to do that, you have a certain obligation to be certain of your own feelings and not “succeed to cut in” and “Im beginning to drift away from this rs but i still luv her” -
OMG!!! this is worse then ever!!!Originally posted by rainee:is this the one whom you said would be getting married? What happened to the pregnant one?
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Tell me about it
FeowFeowOriginally posted by smudgey:OMG!!! this is worse then ever!!!
WHAT WERE YOU THINKING?! -
Anyway, the fact that u cut into their 4 yrs relationship is horrible, u broke up a couple just like that @_@ however , this proves that they still do not understand each other well enough and maybe dont love each other deep enough, u made the girl love u and to the extend of breaking up with her bf to be with u, i must say u are something, it is natural that her ex bf dont wanna let go, but since u are with her now , and u love her as much as she loves u , Dont let go , go for it .. but if u are just playing with her feelings, i suggest u better reflect on yourself what damage have u done to everyone. Keep on trying if u really love her
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see his nick shud know what he has in his mind
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You'll recieve a cheque very soon.Originally posted by coffeeortea:omg, i just love the way yunhaier posts, so cool, and really sets you thinking, at least for me that is.
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hehehe ya....Originally posted by rainee:see his nick shud know what he has in his mind -
u will have ur retribution... mess up ppl 4 yrs relationship...
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Win already loh. Now you got what you wanted and want to rid of it for your own good. You are the best man. Absolutely perfect. Wooohooooo
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Originally posted by coffeeortea:omg, i just love the way yunhaier posts, so cool, and really sets you thinking, at least for me that is. AHEM!
/me secretly hands coffeeortea some cash under the table.
/me whispers 'Advertising for myself cost so much these days...
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HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA ! It's CASH!Originally posted by M©+square:You'll recieve a cheque very soon.
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P.S: Truth is bank no money.
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Heng i got money from those cheques in 2003.Originally posted by Yunhaier:HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA ! It's CASH!
P.S: Truth is bank no money.
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Originally posted by Wolfwoof^^:Hi..i manage to cut into their 4yrs rs. She break up wif her x to be wif me. At 1st it was like honeymoon for us..those sweet sweet feelings for each other but i realise she havent forget about her x.. &..he keeps on pestering her. Her family also object to our rs. Somethings bcos of all tat pressure she face from her family, moodswings tends to get in.
When i saw her in such an angony..i tried to give her up. She just don't wana let me go.. Im honest & truthful to her & yet she said she got no confidence in me. Damn it realli piss me off..Im beginning to drift away from this rs but i still luv her.. IF ANYONE HERE HAS BEEN THROUGH THIS PLS ADVISE ME WHAT TO DO..
I luv her..& i wana b wif her.. i even wana marry her but WTF i feel im drifting away.. I really don't knw what to do..